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Good Boyfriend or Bad Boyfriend?

Good Boyfriend or Bad Boyfriend?

Posted 04-02-2010 at 03:10 AM by IchirusVampireGirl
Now , its taken me a while tfind a nice boy friend. But hes not who I thought he was.

When he first asked me out ,on a date , he payedand i dont eat much so i order cheep things.

After that he became a jerk,to say things nicely.
We did start dateing(after first date)

But after that ,he would make me make all the plans to do stuff. When we went places ,like the mall.(it be a date) hes get food for himself and leave me to starve,when i have clearly stated to him that i have hardly any money at all.

Then when he would ask me if i was hungry and i would sat yes,hed say go get somthing to eat then.

So i just starved instead.

On valintines day i spent 80$ on his gifts(this is after raiseing money from lots of babby sitting)

He spent ,maybe 10 on me. Then when we went to the theater to see a movie(he knew i had one fee one cause of seane points i colect) he turned to me and said"oh you have a free ticket .use it"

When i had clearly stated to him when i found out that i had it,that i was going to save it for when Reboot the movie comes out.(they are coming out with a new one this year)But obviously he did not lissen and he wanted to be cheep. So i looked at him like i was gonna kill him but gave in and used it. Then a few days later he asked what was wrong and i told him he ripped me off on vamintines day and was a cheep (donkey).

Weeks later we go into a city that 2hrs away from where i live. I made it very clear to him i had no money to go and spend since my dads mouthly cheak wasnt in yet. He was like yeah okay.Any who we went there ... when we wnet to to timmies he actualy got me a food and drink. Then he bought me lunch witch was a 4$ sub. Then we went to an anime store. He knows how much i love anime and i had told him about the store. Anywho, he actualy got me two things, a Lelouch Plushi(from Code Geass) and a Code Geass nechlace. Witch i was shocked that he did. Those two things together cost 22$. He spen 30 on a flag 30 on a figureing and 40 on a blue ray disk. I was shhocked he spent that much since hes such a cheep (donkey).<

A few days later i tell him New Moon is coming out ... on its releace date it was only gonna be 14$. He tells me hell burn it for meand save us both some money*both meaning him).I tell him top forget it becaue i actualy want a good copy of it. He says okay. A few days later he asked me if i was sure,i said yeah ,if you cant get me 14 dollar move ,then forget it.(No i did not exspect him to get it for me,althouugh it would be nice) Then i snapped because he was so money tight about spending on other people but nt himself. I old him off. To the moon and back again. I was mad! Then i hung up and was just amgrey. The day New Moon comes out hes at my door that night with the movie ,saying he got it to apologize to me. I did take it but said next time dont get it becasue you feel like you have to ,get it because you want to get it and feel happy about it.

Then for thelast little bit hes been good. But when he does get me the odd bagel at tim-hortons he looks a bit flusterd. I do love him. But I also am getting tierd of him.

I mean i have a really close guy frond who,when he asked me to go places,he BUYS the movie ticket,he BUYS the cute suvinear.he PAYS for the meal he asked me to. I mean ... im not a gold digger. I dont ask for thease things but if you ask me on a date ,you pay,next time(if there is one) ill pay. I mean im going to treat my guy frind to a movie or somthing when i get paied form my next babby sitting job.

As for my BF he can kiss my cute litte but. He gives me attitude i give it right back.
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Old Comment Posted 04-04-2010 at 07:44 PM
Hun, He not a good boyfriend and you need spell check your spelling. Anyway, He not right guy for you. You need a boyfriend who know you well and got in comment in each other. If not, then thing get out of hand. That kind of guy can use you like get everything he wanted not you.

So, you need to find a better bf but I know it hard to find. To me, I rush in dating and that was a mistake. I need to get to know that person before I date. Now, I found someone.

I hope that help.
  Hamii is offline
Old Comment Posted 12-07-2012 at 10:07 PM
I think that though you two may like each other, it's just not working. I suggest that you give him some time to figure out his priorities (break up). If he loves you that much, he'll apologize and swallow his man pride on his cheap (donkey) budget for you. If not, it seems you have a great guy friend. I'm sure that your friend will be willing to go with you to more places and do more things together if you are sad and lonely without your boyfriend! Who knows? Maybe this is just a sign telling you to look at who's been by your side the most.
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Old Comment Posted 12-11-2014 at 03:37 AM
well I was curious and stsrted to read this and Imy advise ids dithch him if he did it once hell do it again. you do what makes you happy and if he doesn't like it its his loss not yours. you are a good kind personand deserve better than how he treats you....... but that's just my opinion nit worth much in most countries
  ryuk2212 is offline
Old Comment Posted 03-19-2015 at 12:29 AM
@ryuk2212;
I did this was 5 years ago!
  IchirusVampireGirl is offline
Old Comment Posted 03-19-2015 at 12:29 AM
@ryuk2212;
I did this was 5 years ago!
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