I recently came across a
discussion about a New York Times article. In the article was the shaming of transfolk who don't "out" themselves.
The way I see it, it's not lying. It's omission. That said, if people are so goddamned worried they might be dating a trans man or woman, they need to just exit the dating game calmly and reevaluate themselves.
As said here (from the above link):
:
If you would like to know whether or not your partners are
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