its mostly about patience with me. When i started i just earned gold in the game section and was fairly slow to start posting. i was embarrassed to not have clothes on. after a while... 3 months, there was an event. it was amazing and i learned to overcome my shyness and post like a crazy person. after the event i still tried to chat with the people i was chatting with during the event in the various threads they hung out in. from there i made my own threads and hvae been earned gold and saving it for a special item that doesnt seem to want to come my way.

I was also got given a lot of items and gold by the many awesome menewshans around these parts. participated in event, contests and chatted in all sorts of forums.

you get the hang of it after a fashion. and look you already have more then 100 gold!