Sun: That's what happened with me pretty much. I was dating this girl she created on me and started dating this guy, which I was fine with until he started verbally abusing her. It got worse and he started hitting her. Him and I got into a big fight and she took his side. After that I cut all contact with her because I got sick of defending someone who took the side of someone who mistreated them. Ever since then I pretty much said forget it if they have someone.