Haha, that happens to me. And with my friends at that. I'll be on Zani, Ava or Gaia and Menewsha at the same time. And my friends will post stalk me and reply. We'll be discussing the same thing on both sites. It even happens here on just Menewsha, but in two different threads. I try and change the subject, and if it doesn't work -- I just sort of leave. Although, I am sort of guilty of talking to people I only know through another friend. I don't think I start conversations. It's just more of a "Hey, I know you! You're friend will so and so...yep. ...yep. Bye." :XD

There are so many items on Zantarni that I wish were unisex. They don't really separate them. And I am often rather too stupid to notice beforehand that some items are male only. Damn that little icon. >___>