I hate to be rude...~_~

I really hate when people just up and leave me. I love to Rp and I make sure that if I'm going anywhere I let my partner(s) know so they don't sit around waiting for my post. But I really hate when people just leave me for like days on end. I know its not like Rping is their life, but just a little heads up or explination when you get the time would be nice. I had this person who hasn't posted in our rp for about a month now. He gets on regularly I'd say once every other day, and he's not posted. I don't know if it was something I did (meaning my character) but it would be nice if he would let me know. Now this is where my title "hate to be rude" comes in. I don't like PMing and asking them to post or where they've been. I find it rude because there could be a number of reasons to their lack of replying. So I hate to be rude and it costs me a really good Rp.

This was just another rant that I wanted to get off my chest.