oh no, he hadn't grown up. actually he left us for this other chick in Georgia. *shakes head* I really can't say many good things about him.
yeah, I definitely learned after that marriage. make sure you date a guy for a long time, and it wouldn't hurt to have a long engagement. that way you have the best chance of going through the whole "honey moon phase" which actually starts when you first dating. it's when the foggy "love" him no matter what tends to clear up and you get to know the real each other. if I had done that I wouldn't have gotten married. but then I wouldn't have my son, so I really can't regret that I was married to him.

Thats true, a lot of things change when having a kid I know a couple people that went through that sort of thing with marriage but they wouldnt give up their kids for the world.
But yeah right now Im just looking for a relationship that doesnt end horribly and if something evolves from that then good for me. But like I said Im in no rush to finding a white dress. =3

that is a very good outlook to have! yeah, right now I just want to find somebody to date and think about :D

Haha yeah
and wow we have dominated Seitos page I wonder where everyone disappeared to?

I have no idea but they are losing out on some great conversation!

Yes they are -nods-
Seito must busy with school and what not
everyone else I have no idea

you just never know where folks are. darn life always seems to crop up. like I'm gonna be leaving in a while to go to my neighbor's house when she gets back from doing laundry at her mom's.

Ah thats cool
Sadly its too late to go anywhere and I have work in the morning
joy
But cant complain atleast Im getting decent hours so I can make money to go towards my bills and what not XD

yeah, it is nice to know you'll have enough money for that sort of things. I know there were months I had to not pay one bill to pay another, and then do the same thing the next month etc. it was a vicious cycle.

You know, these days, I'm really happy I'm still in college. I can't imagine being in the labour force now with the state of the economy. =__=

yeah, but with the state of the economy, believe it or not, EVERYBODY is affected, even you in some way.

I know. I just mean that it'd be really bad if you were looking for a job now when millions of people are getting laid off everywhere.
Although, if you were in the affluent category, you'd probably be happy now because you'd be in a position to take advantage of plummeting stock prices and invest now to profit when the economy recovers.

yeah, that is very true. this year isn't supposed to be a lot of economic growth, but it is supposed to stabilize ... according to a Chinese Fortune Teller ;)

All the economic experts I've heard are saying the brunt of the recession will hit in 2011 though. I guess that's a global viewpoint of the worst case scenario, but I'm really not getting my hopes up. One can only pray things will improve sooner than that.

well, I'd take stabilization right now more than more falling before it gets better that is for certain.

Aaaaaaaaaah!! I'm old!! I'm discussing the economy!!!

Join the club. I feel like I keep ending up in such discussions lately. XD"

(Can I order one?)

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well, I also end up talking about the weather. politics. and religion. well, not so much religion as ghosts and the like. but that one I love to talk about!

Oh, the occult? Yeah, I'm in a pagan club, so we talk about stuff like that a lot. I'm not really pagan, but a lot of my friends are, so I mostly go just to socialize. XDD"

well, I see some truth in each religion's idea of the truth and also use what I see and know for myself. which would be considered an occult religion since the word "occult" is somewhat generic, in that almost everything that isn't claimed by any of the major religions can be considered the occult. stupid people making people think that occult is all about satan worship. *grumble*

You mean that anything that isn't claimed by any of the mainstream religions is considered pagan? XD" I think the occult just broadly refers to anything that isn't of this plane of existence.

hmm ... you might be right. I think I'll have to look the two words up in a dictionary.

XDD" That's just the way I understand it after time spent in the pagan community with my friends. Say, I don't see Seito around lately. =(

I haven't seen Seito either. I commissioned art from her more than a month ago. I'm thinking it's not gonna get done.

I'm sure she'll be back though. Just be patient, I guess? =3