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I wonder if those donuts would work? The ones that people with tailbone injuries sit on?
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That's a possibility. I guess you're supposed to use a cushion that has a cut out in the middle to keep pressure off your ladyparts...
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Hm....
Actually: That would work quite well then Cooky. We can do that instead of 2 V-day sets. ^^ I shall send a trade. Thanks! Now I will have 4 Tatsu's. D: @Monstahh - I'm really sorry but I was hoping for pure mostly. X.x Was already in negotiations with Cooky and I'm pretty sure the anklets are lower than price guide. Thanks though. @Chi - I found that when I did the 21 credit load, it was way too crazy for me. D: I don't know how you did that without dieing. XD Working + 10 credits is good enough in my opinion - way too much work if you go any higher. *nod* @Sizz - Yeah it was the Carameldansu or whatever it is. :3 |
@Sizz
Mmm... yeah. Kinda hard not to sit on our lady parts... >>;; I bet they make something. Worst case, try eBay. They have everything. u.u @Alexi Yeah, I about died. I had an actual case of burnout minus the crying. o.o |
Hey Alexi are there any items you would like to see in a trade for the sash of chaos?
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>.> I never thought about what it means to have parts that face downward like that. Must be painful... No wonder everyone cross-legs when they sit. o_O;
@Chi - Wow. @[email protected] Holy crap. Well I kinda burnt out for awhile due to crazy school loads and changed majors and left school for a year. Which is why I'm behind. >.> @Thothy - Uhhh I think that most items will be good in an offer. :) I'm very into Pirate/ninja items. I'm also interested in starcatcher, blind justice, overlord, jade ronin, and August 09 items. |
@Alexi
I'll be 25 in November. I started college late due to family drama. I moved out first. XD; I sort of realize had I not waited I'd be done now, but eh. I'm better off for it I think. I hear you on the break. At least with college it's geared for people to go at their own pace. |
@Chi - Not much older than I am then. ^^ I'm 23 going on 24 on the 11th of August.
I had a lot of family drama after my first year in college but it's all good now. I'm hoping to return to Cali to finish next year after I do well this year. ^^ Yeah college does seem like it's more of an "on your own pace" thing. Yet there is a pressure and certainly rewards for staying on-track. I dunno. I just want to get done with it so I can move on with my life. ^^ Yet, I hear people say all the time that I should enjoy being in school because the outside world and real life suck worse. |
thanks alexi ^^
good luck selling/buying items :3 |
No problem, the scarf looks good on you!
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@Alexi
Well, at least knowing family drama, we can see where the difficulties come from. Dx For me I love college. I really do. The 21 credit load wasn't difficult exactly, but balancing everything else was. My husband and I juggled who would take care of the apartment (cooking meals, cleaning up, etc.), plus I had staff stuff, and eventually I just couldn't function. <<; It was pretty terrible. And I'm so damned stubborn that it took me months to realize I needed to cut the crap out and take it easy. So now I am. I feel so much better for it, too. n.n; I'm thinking I'll go on for my Master's once I graduate in May. I think it depends on if I'm pregnant. I'll need to decide exactly what's going on then. |
i sended the white slippers..
i forgot them with the trade :S and thanks :3 |
@Cooky - XD Thanks for putting the other slippers in there.
@Chi - Wow that's amazing. o_o *admires you for your courage and determination to get through those rough times* Hm, are you expecting to become pregnant soon? o_O If you're careful you can probably postpone that until you get your Master's. ^^ |
Alexi: np ^^
i doint want to mess up any trades <3 Chi: your eyes are from the new CI's? |
Oh, we're actively trying. Last month didn't work, and this month probably won't because his parents will be here (who wants to go there? x_x), but we're hoping in the next 4-5 months..
He'll be 29 in January. He'd really like one before he's 30. He's doing his best not to fall apart because he's just ready. He's been ready for well over a year. Me? I do the roller coaster thing. I am ready though. Before I'd thinking about all the things I should do first, but I'm closer now. A bachelor's is hard to get because you never know when classes are. :/ At least with a master's they're evening classes. It works out well with his job, plus if I have the bachelor's and I can't juggle, I have -something- I can work with. I'm to the point if I see a baby my uterus cries. :XD It doesn't even matter what they do, either. They can be happy or tantruming on the ground, kicking and screaming and I'm all, "AWWW!! ^____^" Sigh. It gets annoying. ;_; Edit to Sweetcooky: Yep, they are. ^_^ |
Well so long as you go in with your head in the right place and a plan for how things will go, it should be okay. :)
I'm sorry you guys have had a hard time conceiving before his 30th birthday - I know the feeling of wanting to start before I get into my 30's. It would definitely be hard to try to conceive with parents around. >.> Would make what might be a fun thing pretty awkward. Wow that's weird that your body does that to you when you see a baby - I hope you're able to successfully have one soon! The wait must be excruciating. o_o |
Oh, okay Alexi.
I'll check back tomorrow or something with a new offer, if you still have it. :3 |
chi: ok ^^ thanks
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I think 30 is a good age to start having babies. XD I'm 27, and I'm starting to feel that urge to settle down and have kids. Not -quite- yet, but I'll probably start getting really antsy in the next couple of years.
I don't think I'm financially prepared for such things yet anyway, and I know Ian's definitely not. Good luck though Chi! I hope you don't have to wait too long to get preggers. :D My coworker just had her baby in May, and she had to go quite a long time without conceiving. Finally she did though, so it was all good. |
@Monstahh - I went ahead and sold it so don't worry about it. ^^ Sorry about that! We were reaching an agreement, and I wasn't too stoked about having anklewings to resell anyhow. I hope you get a Scarf!
@Sizz - haha You're so fun. ^^ But you're right, I think that's about the right time to start trying. I don't think that a guy has as much to worry about but isn't there some sort of cut-off date when a woman has less of a chance of conceiving? Though in today's society, people conceive all the time when they don't want to. >.> It's sad when it's so hard to conceive when you do try. |
Ack. x_X That took a while to reply. My mom called. She's been drinking and is all nerved up about work-related junk.
With conceiving, it's hard to say. I know that we've not been "careful" for a while, but with life being so busy there's no way anything would have happened anyway. 9_9 Whenever things happen it'd be nowhere near the time needed to actually get pregnant. I have a good feeling about the next few months though. I can't put my finger on it, but I do feel it's coming. ^_^ |
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Yeah, I think your mid-30s is when things start becoming more difficult. I think 35 is really a good indicator age. That's also when more birth defects start showing up. And yeah, men don't have to worry so much about that. Their sperm is always alive and kickin', unless they've just got inactive swimmers or something, which is always a possibility. My bf has talked about us having babies in the past... I just wish he was ready to settle down and make the commitment. We've been together 6.5 years now, so it's about that time. He's still working on discovering himself though I think... Meanwhile, I wait patiently while he gets things together. :yes: And it is sad when people who really want a baby can't conceive... T_T EDIT: GO CHI & KIN GOOOOO!!! XD |
Hehe, thanks Sizz. :heart:
I'm sure I'll be all caps when it happens. >>; And I hope Ian comes around soon. He'll find himself, and the longer it takes, I reckon the stronger-footed he'll be. :yes: |
I believe that your mood has a lot to do with how easy it is to conceive. ^^ And while there's like a certain period of time when you should do it to ensure that it actually happens, it's hard to be in the mood for it when the time comes if you're in a bad mood. So: Ultimately your mood is the main thing to worry about. Hopefully I don't do anything bad to make it a problem again. XD *Sorry about before again!*
So I hope that your good feeling about the upcoming months results in a pregnancy! :) *excited for you* @Sizzla - Yeah hopefully he takes the plunge and makes the commitment. ^^ I went out with someone for 5 years and it ended up badly but I think I always knew that it would end eventually. I'm sad that we didn't change enough to fit each other for a life-time commitment, but I also think we'll be happier after this. Tried to be friends but we just clash with each other too much and there's always that specter of what once was looming over our shoulders. I dunno. I should probably graduate, go get an MBA and then lead a successful life before I think about kids. But I would really like to have a couple kids to pass on what I know and to have a family with someone I love. I think that part is more important to me at this stage since I'm not in a relationship anymore - the finding the right person for me thing. You guys are way too far advanced in relationships for me to even begin to comprehend. @[email protected] *boggled at the possibility* Kids are merely a far-off dream for me even if I'm getting into my mid 20's. |
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