lol I was just gonna ask why you were up so late.

get some sleep! *loves for chimotsu*

I'm still feeling rather nauseated. Bah.

Hope you feel better soon, Chi.

I'm feeling OK this morning. Still having discomfort, but so far so good. I'm loving this medicine though. It didn't knock me out but I felt high as a kite, and while I was aware there was pain it didn't hurt nearly as bad. :o

I think one of the things I'm looking forward to most is being able to take things like Excedrin again. Acetaminophen doesn't do ANYTHING for my headaches. e_e; *falls over*

Glad you're OK this morning!

Thanks Chi. ^_^

I'm greatful I don't have anything I really have to do today. I mean I do have homework to work on but nothing due today so I can take it easy. I think I might do that and hope that after today the worst of it is over.

Cole and I are going to basically screw off and watch TV/play games 'till dinnertime, then we're both going to work on homework. I don't have anything due, but I'd like to get ahead. I find that if I have days where I'm crampy and achy or it's extremely hot out, I can't focus on ANYTHING. I like having the option to do nothing and take it easy if/when I can.

May i buy an overlord's wrath from you for 1.3k?

I'm not breaking the set up, sorry. ^_^;;

Hmm would you happen to be interested in a 2009 Valentine's Day Event Item set?

Nope, I have too many of those. Once I get done with these sales I plan on putting a lot of my EI sets up. Sorry! :gonk:

Did you want items or Pure for those Panda slippers?

Pure would be preferable, but I have a list of accepted items on the first page. :3

What item sets do you have Chi? Any from 2007?

HEY CHI. <3

Would you be willing to link Hina and I's raffle in the first post of your shop?
And/or mention it in your thread title? :3

@Izumi
Right now I'm just selling what I have up. I'm not sure if I'll put other 2007s up or not. I'm going to do a reorganization of my inventory over the next few weeks. I'm also going to do another giveaway during Celes Paradi, provided I'm not in labor or whatnot. I'm with you on the whole "I hope it's during a break!" thing. The commuter class I have going on isn't too demanding in terms of homework. Maybe 2-3 hours' worth a week? It depends on when papers are due. Most of the actual work is done in class, as it's meant to be more about skills application and not things that can be "learned" via reading and paper writing.

@Windy
Is the raffle all set up? :3

Ohh I'll be interested if you do...not that I'll be able to afford them. I would love to complete my St Patty's 08 set though eventually...and maybe the Easter 07.

I wish the prices weren't so high on the older stuff...

Plus I sell in sets, which makes it more difficult for those who have some but not all of the sets. x__x;

I'm glad the prices aren't too bad on most 2009-2010 stuff, but before that the user count wasn't as high. Bah.

Raffle is basically set up.
I'm going to spam everyone in the exchange to ask them if they can link the raffle.
But that's tomorrow.

EDIT: Nevermind. PLEASE LINK THE RAFFFLE CHI? :]
http://www.menewsha.com/forum/commun...post1767857485

I have a teenager relationship problem that I can't really talk about to my parents. (actually, I never talk to my parents about this stuff.)
._.
Can I ask you and Izumi for advice please?

Sure, Windy. :) I'm all ears.

I was trying to get some rest, but I've been sleeping most of the day so it's just not happening right now heh. I'm feeling a bit like my normal self though, which is very much welcomed.

Thanks so much Izumi. :]
/offers you a comfy pillow

My boyfriend is just about...perfect. He's really nice, incredibly intelligent, a dork, caring, and treats me like I'm special/respectfully. However, he and I don't have similar interests, like...at all. Tennis for him, golf for me, he likes politics, I don't want to get near it, he's addicted to videogames, I like anime/manga, etc. It's gotten to the point where whenever we have phone calls, we just talk about our day and it stops after like...20 minutes cause there's not that much we can say.
I've been dating him for almost two years.
I feel like I could be happier with chasing other guys/trying out new relationships, but honestly, Gary is one in a million. All the other guys my age are douchebags, no joke.
There's another problem: his mother committed suicide in April. The first person he called was me, even before 911. I feel like...it's almost a sort of obligation to stay with him. I don't know.
And because of his mother's death, he's been really busy and traveling a lot, so we haven't really had time to get together.

...what do I do? ._.

Well Windy, it's a tough call. I think having something in common definitely helps as it gives you something you can enjoy together. If you guys don't have a common interest, you could always try new things together and see if you can find something the two of you are interested in and can do as a couple. Also, I'm wondering how often you two spend together as well? I find the longer I'm around Aaron, the less we have to talk about. We still enjoy each others company, but we've gone through weeks of him being laid off from work where we won't say much to each other on a daily basis...but that's because we spend probably 90% of the day in close proximity of one another. (So we can't even talk about our day as both of us already knows. :XP)

Also, though, and what I would definitely keep in the back of your mind is that you're both very young. This boyfriend might be the best you've ever had, but that's just it...it's all you have experienced. I think it's better to keep an open mind and not make yourself feel obligated to be with him forever as people change, situations change and one day soon you might find that it just isn't in the best interest of one or even both of you. I know my first marriage was my first serious relationship and I had the same mentality going into it -- that it was forever, for better or for worse. The relationship I'm in now is a much more stable relationship and I feel like I can tell Aaron anything and while he might not be happy about it he is always there to listen. This is something I felt lacking in my first marriage that I think gives our relationship even a deeper bond, so I'm glad that I finally got the courage to move on and to find someone else in life.

Gee that probably left you scratching your head more. :O

I want you or Chi or both of you to be my mother. Officially.
If I ever told my mom this, she'd be like "you're stupid, stop thinking about him and get back to your studying."
Or something.

We haven't spent much time together at all, cause he's been traveling this entire summer. Hoewver, for the past two years, we've had EVERY single class together. Completely unheard of, even rarer cause we're a couple, but yeap. xD

The thing about letting him go is that I feel that I'm supposed to be there for him. I have so much to thank for because of him, and I feel that I should be with him while he slowly recuperates from his loss. ...but I dunno, I AM just a high schooler. T_T

Another thing, my friends have scared me off. My roommate during my Europe trip had a great relationship for 6 months, then was raped in the movie theatre, and I've heard countless stories of girls being cheated on. T_T
I guess I'm just really scared.


Sorry for bothering you with this useless romance stuff though.
x3;

Nah it's cool. I remember being your age once, too, you know? :)

I think you need to enjoy life as much as possible right now as you're not tied down with all the RL responsibilities of an adult. I know I wish I could go back and tell myself that back then.

I would totally say keep in touch with your boyfriend, even if you do break up as it sounds like you guys have formed a very close friendship together. I can imagine that he must really trust you if he came to you about his mom's suicide, and I can't imagine how tough that was for him. Aaron's dad killed himself too, and that really threw him into a deep depression. His relationship with his father was very complex though. :/

I feel like I'm a sort-of adult. I think experiencing the suicide of a loved one really gave me another look at reality.

Yea...Gary's mother was basically EVERYTHING. And she had gone through a divorce with his father (cheating issues), so she was his only parent. He has a really mature and great sister though. 23, and she handles EVERYTIHNG for him, which is great.

Hm, I'll think about it more.
:]


.................can I ask some questions about...uh...intimacy? @[email protected]"

Sure if you want. :)

I'm a pretty open individual and I don't mind talking with you about that. What's up?