I'm not sure if I have a sign that just says "This Person has It Together", but it's alienating when others assuming everything is great and envious. It's not. I just... don't rant often. I have plenty of struggles, in marriage, family, finances, and work. I usually go quiet when others have "bigger" complaints because I can usually deal with my own. Yet when I'm actually in a bad place it usually doesn't end well for me in terms of getting support. *shrug* Take that as you will. If I actually listed everything I'm struggling with at the moment I'm wondering if you wouldn't have said "be thankful you don't have".

That being said, if you guys think she's going to snap, say it to the courts. She isn't well, and you could both end up hurt or worse. It's unsettling, and there's too much shit going on.