efame is like how popular you are on the internet
usually adds onto your ego and makes people elitists

Ohh, I see. =O Never heard of it, lolz. xDD;; But I can see how it can turn people into elitists. ^^;;
Kinda like how people always want the most friends on MySpace, Facebook, and etc. 8DD;;

Originally Posted by Seiki Nova

-burns it-

flea, I think what you need to realize, is that after we (being the AC as a whole) have pretty much seen and done everything possible with the avatars on Menewsha, having someone shove avatars that we've seen before in some variation in our faces constantly telling us that the avatar in question is their dream avatar can get kind of annoying. And its not only a matter of just showing us one avatar that you claim to be your dream avatar, but several (I've counted at least ten), how can we possibly take you seriously if you continue to change your mind every other hour.

If you've noticed, no one the Avatar Chat forum sticks to the same avatar for very long. Its really only because we're bored and lack inspiration with our avatars. For us, its different. We know what we want and we go for it. And not only do we go for it, but we get what we want when we want it (or within a relatively short period of time). I think what you should be trying to do, particularly in following the example of the rest of the avatar chat forum, is to work on aiming for goals that are more achievable, and then sticking to that particular goal until you have it completed.

You can continue to say you're sensitive and that we're hurting your feelings, but I want you to understand that you've thrown yourself into a very tight knit group of people who are very unwilling to let people into their clique without proper justification. You can't throw yourself at us and expect us to like you and the outfits that you create for your multiple dream avatars just because that's what you want. I'm sorry if I'm coming off as rude, or if anyone else has come off as rude to you either, but its not that simple.

You see, the avatar chat forum has only a small group of hardcore regulars, and then a smaller group of semi-regulars. If you want to make it in a forum that is already very secluded from the rest of the site, you need to understand that you cannot continue to act as you do around us. We won't tolerate it, and as Eserel said earlier to you, there are multiple people that are upset with your behavior in the Avatar Chat forum especially and we're tired of it.

Can you see why perhaps we haven't taken to you yet?

I am trying to wrap my head around this. Like honestly, I am trying to build a filter. My real life is really hard for me right now,and I am learning how to socialize all over again, for I went SO long without friends. I am a little rough around the edges at first, but once people get to see my true colors, they seem to like me. No one has really seen my true colors, real life or menewsha, and it's hard for not being accepted for trying your best to be yourself, and not annoying. It hurts me a lot, and when people say they don't care, it makes me so sad and it makes me question my existstance, which is why I took Ese's comment so hard.

@Rylynne: How "famous" we are online. XD I think it's kind of ridiculous since even if you get it, it's usually fleeting or for something you don't want to be famous for. Not really to that scale in this sense since we're talking about a small clique.

Thanks! I don't usually make "AC" style outfits though. I love the term "piss-poor", ha ha.

@Eserel: Thanks. :3 I didn't mean to fish for compliments, I just don't think it's very "refined" like most AC stuff.

XD
ferra
everyone has their own style
so what yours is different from the next person?
doesnt mean yours is worse or better

@ flea : For starters, you could try and get into the conversation instead of always asking for opinions about your ever-changing dream avatars, as I've noticed that majority of your posts here seem to be about them. =O I think that was one of the reasons why you have gotten into people's nerves. There is an appropriate subforum for where to ask for opinions on your dream avatars, after all, and that appropriate place isn't in some of the threads you've been asking them in. =)


@ Ferra : Being famous online isn't always something you want to achieve though, I guess. xDD;; And like what Ese said, everyone has their own style. =P <3<3

And I gotta keep "piss poor" in mind now. xDD;; <3<3

You are right. Please forgive me everyone :(. I feel like crap now, and I know that I can change, but whenever I do something to get on people's nerves, i just feel so sick.

another thing
stop complaining
about this
about anything
no one likes a whiner

I will work on that. I am just working on getting my happiness back. Right now, I am my own worst enemy, and I have to be my friend again, before I can be a friend to someone else.

Ferra, I think you've been cranking out some great avatars lately to be honest with you. Your current one is intriguing to me. I do like how you have it all layered.

And I wouldn't necessarily compare our cliques to eFame. We're hardly famous here on Menewsha, we're just well known from this particular forum. There are users who frequent this forum that are more well known on other areas of the site because they branch out more than the rest of us, but I still don't think there's enough of us to have that big of an ego-boost. No eFame necessary xD

*poses nekkid to gain quick e-fame* xD;;

osnap
<papparazzi mode>
efamerzzz

True true. :B *miss-spoke apparently*

Thanks for the compliments though.

@Pixore: Gasp, a nudist! *readies gun*

@Ferra: Omg, why would you shoot me for something like that? xD;;

Good luck then, flea. =P


And LOLOLZ @ Pixore. xDD;;
And double lulz at Ferra and her spiffeh gun. 8DD;;

OSNAP GUN
<sacrifices seiki first>

@Pixore: I'M THINKING OF THE CHILDREN!!

*hides behind Ferra*
Ferra would never shoot poor innocent me, right? :'D <3<3
*hopes not*
xDD;;

...
Wow, those are some interesting eyes you have Ferra.
All the better to aim with?
xD
I love it though!!!

eFame is sexy. XD

*dunno if I'm a hardcore reg or not, but I do mod this forum permanently now... XD I don't post a ton though. XP*


You know flea, I was going to say the same as Ry. Maybe if you participated in conversations in here that didn't relate to any of your dream avatars, people would be more relaxed around you and be more willing to interact with you. :) I think you're trying TOO hard to be liked/fit in, and you just need to relax a bit and try not to focus your conversations only on your avatars.

I do think that you need to pick an achievable avatar and actually complete your goal before you try for something else or make another avatar. :yes: Just don't be so pushy with everyone, and I think you'll find that people will be nicer and more accommodating. You can't force friendship, but you can nurture it. :D

yar
thats the vampire contacts
without having eyes equipped
those contacts look pretty neat on corpse mode too

Woah, AWESOME.
Reminds me of old cartoons actually.

YAY, we have Sizz all to ourselves!!
*:ninja: steals*

Aaaaand I'm going to edge away from the drama.

Sizz is awesome, whether she be a hardcore reg or not. xDD;; <3<3
Btw, I agree with what you said in your last post though. =P

And wait, there are vampire contacts?! o_O;;
Never knew. o_o;;
Lolz. xDD;;

EDIT: OMG LAME computer hiccup!

:heart:'s for everyone!! *sprinkles luv everywhere*

They were called Amarande contacts or something. Red.

Ry, you are looking pretty spiffy yourself~!
...

Did I just type spiffy?
D:

EDIT:
No, Sizz, I think it is there.
Check last page, last post.
xD;
At least the message is similar