Don't you get the feeling that sometimes noone really cares?
Just wonder what other think of this subject

I have had that feeling many times, but it also might be something telling you that you need to vent something off to them. Possibly something they are saying or doing is making you unsure? Are they not paying attention to you? Those kinds of things can make people think others dont care as much as they'd hope.

I also thing that actions do speak much louder then words. You can tell someone you would take a bullet for them, but you can actually take one for them when they need it. Its a big difference. Words in my opinion are often meanings of trust. You can tell someone a million things, but would you have enough trust in them to believe its all real? Some people you can and some you can't.

I don't know. i guess i feel alone, and normally hang out with my other friends now, who i know will care for me. but i mean sometimes they do and sometimes they don't. it's like a rollercoaster for them. I'm just unsure and feel better when with other friends.

Yes, some people. but for me actions will ALWAYS speak louder than words.
People tend to say things you want to hear, or make up things just for you to like them.

Maybe those people arn't the right friends for you. It might sound a little harsh, but if you really feel better with other friends, its a bigger chance they are better friends. People change a lot , so when they get older they aren't always going to be the same as to when they were little. For example: When i was little, all my childhood i lived next to this girl Alara. We did everything together and we were always at each others house. As we got older we stopped talking as much as we did, we didn't call and we didnt hang out. I felt as if she didn't care anymore and as if she was becoming further and further away, which i guess is what happened. But i realized i had much better friends that i knew i could trust and that cared about me. I figured out that's how life is sometimes, and i was fine with it. I love my friends and i know they wont become like that.

I guess your right.
I remember when i was little me and friend let's call her...A and we'd always be together around 4th grade, she started hanging out with different people and started to ditch me, i never liked it one day she came up to me with one of the girls in her group she said 'I don't want to friends anymore' and they left laughing.

I run into that feeling a lot, though recently got lectured by my boyfriend, saying everything matters. and that if not, there is worse that would happen, it was inspiring, and helped a bit as to why he never seems to answer me, well he does, but a lot of times he doesn't realize he feels like he is ignoring me.

I often find that when I feel like I'm alone and no one cares it's actually that I'm being self absorbed and not noticing that the people who love me are upset and having problems.

I'm not saying that this is the case for you at all - but maybe the people around you are stressed or having problems that they aren't sharing . . which gives the impression of not caring.

Everyone goes through that type of phase. But someday, you WILL realize that there ARE people in your life who do care.

Yes sometimes I can tell if they are really insincere. I mean everytime they smile at me or do something I keep thinking why bother when you don't care anyway.

But there are a lot of people in my life who care about me and there are a lot of people in my life who don't care.

i fell like that everyday when i try to talk to my friends on m yspace or MSN cuz thy just ignore it and i know thy can see it cuz thy will be in for hours after i send it
most of the time i think nothing of it until i get on to all the avi sites i go on
i fell like the only people that care about me are the people were ever thy are that are reading what i type
and not the people i have know for all my life...

I get that quite a lot. Although one or two of my friends just lately have been very open in expressing how much they do actually care for me, which is wonderful to hear.
The times i most often feel like that are those when i'm communing via msn. I feel slightly annoyed/rejected by them if they're online and haven't spoken or acknowledged me in any way.

I get that quite a lot actually. Many times I really do feel like no one cares. I try talking to my sister and most of her responses are 'Uh huh' 'Mm.' 'That's nice.' It's really hard especially at my home since everyone is into their own thing. It really is hard to see if they care. But I know they care even though it really looks like they don't.

I try my best to assume that they do care, just in their weird way. My parents are slightly weird when it comes to things like that. Especially when it comes to affection.

Originally Posted by pinkii

Everyone goes through that type of phase. But someday, you WILL realize that there ARE people in your life who do care.

I have to agree with pinkii. People DO care, sometimes you just don't notice it because you're too busy worrying that they don't. D:

I used to be depressed quite a bit of the time, but I got over it. My parents were going through a really tough time these past two years, and instead of whining about how they weren't paying enough attention to me and my siblings (even though I wanted too, I was very upset with them.) I decided to step up and be caring one, because my family needed me to be strong for them.

I can tell when people are 'ignoring' me by how they respond, but I don't dwell on it, because there is obviously something on their mind. Usually my mom is busy, and I sit and blahb at her for a while even though she isn't really hearing me. I can tell because she usually replies, 'yeah' before I even finish a sentence. But thats okay.

just remember that people do care! >.> people always care

wether they show it or not. that goes for everyone.

yeah sometimes i feel like people dont care, but that's one i'm having a crappy day, and sometimes i may not show it all the time.

but i've learned the hard way, that friends, even old friends will care.

you cant always assume stuff.

I think everyone feels that way sometimes. Like when you have the worst day ever and nobody seems to notice or ask if you're ok.

With society today, everyone is pretty much selfish. We all want our own computer, ipod, tv, etc... it's like we can't share anymore. So I guess people tend to care more about themselves than others, but people like you're family and close friends do care.

It's just hard to realize in todays world.

Personally, I never get this feeling. I make a point to surround myself with good people, not shallow frenemies. :D

Your life is what you make it, and if nobody really cares...it's more often than not because you're not with the right people, or because you're not letting them care about you. It could be something you're doing wrong.

Or maybe you have clinical depression. :/ Talk to a doctor or psychiatrist?

I've had several days lately where I felt very insignificant, like no one cared about me at all. It's probably because I'm alone almost all day, every day.
I kind of miss public school.

Everyone feels like that. It's normal emotion. Most people live with it others cry over it. Though a lot of the time I bring it upon myself because I give off this attitude that I don't care, and most of the time I truly don't.

People already mentioned it, but yeah, sometimes, you just don't see it, but there are probably proofs that they care. I usually don't care too much about what's going on with my friends, but it's not like I don't care about them. Sometimes, if they're having trouble that I can't related to, all I can say is "I see..." "yeah..." "well..." and stuff like that, but I do care. Your friends or family may just not know what to say or what you want them to do. I used to expect my mom to know why I was upset over something she did or said, but really, most people can't read minds...

There is always the chance that your friends aren't really that close to you and don't really care, but it's likely that at least one person really does care and he/she just doesn't realize you're feeling down...some people can be really dense or is just not the type to ask things like "What's wrong?" and think that you want to be alone.

Try getting their attention, and if they really are ignoring you or seem really insincere about their responses...well, you might want to find a new friend.

Well, most people are self-centered so if it does not pertain to them they do not care. They lack the ability to sympathize and empathize. So...no, not many care. Not because they don't want to care, but because they were never taught to care and don't know how to care.