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Prince Peroxide 02-09-2009 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by queenfish (Post 1763931629)
I rather be single and lonely. I can find plenty of things to do by myself to keep any feelings of being lonely at bay. Also, if you are married and bored - then your partner is too. Nothing more annoying than trying to entertain someone else while I you are bored at the same time XD

haha I agree, thats why I never go to the movies on a first date

4nj3L 02-17-2009 11:36 PM


Single and lonely.
Well I'm single, but I'm definitely not lonely. I have time to sit in front of my labtop and just vegetate. Or if I fell like being more social I'll meet up with my friends or help mom out with something. *shrug* I enjoy life.

Sphynxee 02-18-2009 12:08 AM

Married and bored. This comes with a lot! Such as never being lonely...in most cases. We can always do things together. I know that I have someone to lean on. Support, help, a bright future together, children. So many things.

Where as single and lonely, it can get tiring. I wouldn't be happy, not like I am now.

dianakitsune 02-18-2009 12:56 AM

Neither, I'm single and lonely and I hate it, but I'd never want to be bored....

Sayhn 02-18-2009 04:27 AM

lol both options are horrible

I pick exactly what i have, being married to my best friend and being happy. If we are bored, its cause we live in a small area and its winter XD

I havent given up anything by getting married, if anything i have MORE freedom, if getting married means you lose everything you had while single, i would say there is something wrong with your relationship, or what you were doing while single probably wasnt too great for you

You dont CARE that you cant be with other guys if your really content and happy with your partner cause your happy, even when i am upset, im happy. My husband makes me feel perfect for everything that i am, even the bad things. You dont get married cause omg he is soooo hot! You get married because you found your best friend that you trust with your life and want to share everything with. Or at least, thats why i did. Id pick spending time with my husband over any friend ive ever known.

so i pick married and happy :P

-=-Queen Nyx-=- 02-18-2009 04:44 AM

I'd rather be single and lonely. If I'm married and bored, that would mean that the person I'm married to is not very entertaining and I would rather not be stuck with someone who can't even hold my interest.

Sagitar 02-18-2009 04:51 AM

*married and happy :3*

I'm already married, so I would never choose to be single again.
Been there, done that, hated it. Marriage? I love.
He's my best friend, we go almost everywhere together. Sure some of his
friends don't really understand that, they think that I'm there to stalk him,
just because I'm a girl... >.> oh well. that's their problem, I'm just there to
have fun with my BFF :P

Jali 02-18-2009 06:22 AM

I'm currently married and i'm certainly not bored!
My parents say we're still in our 'honeymoon stage'.
Though it's been one year of us bein' married and four of actually being together.
And we lived a good majority of that time together and never get bored. xP

DivineHeart 02-18-2009 06:54 AM

Well if your married you can't be bored,and if you are thats bad.But personally i'd rather be single and lonely because even though i'm lonely I wouldn't have to put up with the struggles and stresses relationships come with.But I wouldn't really be lonely because I have my bunny,and my music,and other things to prevent me from being lonely.

Vickicat 02-18-2009 07:21 AM

Topic.
 
Married and bored. DX I can deal with boredom. I deal with it already. I would hate to be single. Technically I'm neither right now. I'm not married, but I've been with my boyfriend for eight years and I wouldn't want that to change. And yeah, sometimes things get boring. We run out of things to talk about or there's just nothing to do. That's life. If we were married I think I'd be pretty entertained most of the time since I'd have him living with me and we could do things more often. Right now I only get to see him every few months to a year since we live far away from each other. But I'm sure there would be times when we would be bored. Oh well. I'd rather be bored along with someone else than be lonely.

Cherish 02-18-2009 11:58 AM

Neither.

If I was bored in my marriage, I'd get a divorce.
Marriage should make you happy; if it doesn't, there's something wrong with it.

Versailles 02-19-2009 01:44 AM

Single and Lonely.
As Cherish said. Marriage should make you happy.

amyrex2 02-19-2009 03:12 PM

I love the boring part of being married. It is very nice to know who you are going to go out with for holidays like VD. And I never have to wonder who I want to take to a friends wedding. If I go to someplace stag, no one looks at you like you are guyless, just that it sucks that he is not there with you.

My husband is an endless source of amusement for me, and lets me tease him all the time. While people thing we are boring to not go out to clubs, get drunk and sing off key, I am so happy in my relationship I can not begin to describe it. The boring is the fun.

thoughtlessamaya 02-19-2009 03:15 PM

Single and lonely.
Because if you're married and "bored" you have limitations to what you can do to rid of that boredom, while being single you have none (despite illegal actions).

And if you're single, that's usually an excuse for being lonely by the younger range because they don't have a significant other, when they have plenty of friends. I have plenty of friends, so I highly doubt I'd be that lonely even if I was single.

Aesthetic CorpseX 02-21-2009 06:37 PM

Single and Lonely

Sally Sinema 04-21-2009 03:28 PM

Out of two poor choices, I'd choose married and bored. Obviously you weren't always bored, or you wouldn't have been married in the first place. I think boredom is a state of mind that can be relatively easily remedied, (I'm assuming what you mean by bored). And in the end if your partner doesn't want to change with you, making your lives less dull, well, there's always divorce.

Immortaleyes 04-21-2009 04:22 PM

Uh...I am currently single and lonely.
But at the moment it works for me.
I have other relationships that build me up and keep me occupied so I don't really need to find comfort in a boyfriend at this time of my life.

Ruzica 04-21-2009 06:36 PM

Probably single and lonely, becuase if your married and bored then your relationship really sucks, you are obviously still lonely cuz your significant other doesnt care about you..

Michy Lea 04-21-2009 09:50 PM

I'm currently single and not lonely. I have no problem staying single for a while longer. I'm in no hurry for a serious, committed relationship.

DariaMorgendorfer 04-22-2009 01:40 AM

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Originally Posted by jellysundae (Post 1763917993)
Why does being single make you automatically lonely? Or being married mean you have to be bored? Those are such inaccurate things to assume.

I'd choice neither of those options thanks very much :)

I'm with Jelly! I know, I am not playing by the rules, but here's the deal...I have been single and content, I have been single and lonely, and I am currently married and very happy. I would also like to take a second to say that I think it's very healthy for people to take some "single and content" time...Where they focus on themselves, being selfish and learning the things they need to learn in life, do the things they need to do in life, so you can later be a happy, in a relationship person.
So....For me at the moment, I choose option D, married and happy...Thank you very much.

SuperBeepy 04-22-2009 03:33 AM

Personally I'd choose neither ... seeing as I'm married (well, together with someone, the state doesn't allow me to be married) for ... three years now and quite happy with it. I still talk to my boy every day and we're still ... Quite into each other, we'll say.

It's not really a good thing to assume everyone's going to be miserable with or without a relationship is it? XD My mom's divorced for a few years now and never wants to remarry, being the happiest she's been in her whole life.


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