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Married and bored or Single and looonnneely
Hey whats up all you people, I'd like to ask you all this question what would you pick out of the two choices when it comes down to your own personal happiness. There's a lot of pro's and con's for both sides, what one works for you? Married and bored or Single and lonely. remember to back up your choice. You may begin! |
Single and lonely.
Maybe it's just in the television, but women who are single seem to have all the fun, while a married woman would have plenty of restriction because of her marital status. I mean, when you're a married woman, you can't just go and fling around with guys, amirite? Being married and bored is like, a double-whammy, as I like to put it. |
yeah I could agree to that, on a male side. Know what I would hate in marriage is when your a guy and your wife invites her girl friend over and her husband. You won't even know this guy and your wife will ether put the game on and hand you both a beer or! they'll put you both in a room with a work bench and she'll say to you "it's okay he likes baseball just like you" then closes the door. Now you're sitting there in this room with some guy and all you can say is "I like baseball" |
I'd definitely go with married and bored. At least you'd still have someone to talk to, after all. I've done quite a bit of the single and lonely thing, and I've even done the taken and lonely thing due to long-distance dating. In my opinion, the bored part is much easier to fix than the lonely part at times.
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yeah that's true too. Also a married man will live longer then a single guy.
hey you're on my buddy list hehe |
I don't wanna get married, but I don't wanna be lonely so I guess I'll go for Married and Bored.
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Why does being single make you automatically lonely? Or being married mean you have to be bored? Those are such inaccurate things to assume.
I'd choice neither of those options thanks very much :) |
I'm single. But I'm definitely not lonely. Their are many things you can't do when your going out with someone. I do want to date around though but I just haven't found anyone as of yet. But I don't really mind being single. It's easier and you don't have to remember anniversaries.
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@ jellysundae - I don't think he's actually implying that, just asking which you'd prefer. o.o;
To answer the OP, I'm a pretty solitary person by nature, so I don't really get lonely too much... I'd pick being single over marriage any day~ X3;; I'd rather be a bit lonely than share my space, haha. |
married and bored I guess because I am the type of secure person that looks for stability but hey who chooses to be single it is even easier to solve the boreness just go to a bar or do something fun!!!! you have plenty of options dont stay at home!!!
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As of right now, I'm single and lonely.
But, I'd prefer being Married and bored, because at least I'll have someone to be mine, to love me, to want to be with me (even if we are bored). Single, that just tells you, either no one wants to be with you, or no one has the courage to tell you they want to be with you (considering the fact that you don't have the courage to tell them.) I want to at least be able to wake up each morning next to someone who I love. |
I guess...Single and lonely. In fact, I wouldn't be lonely, because I have a lot of friends. Plus, being single you can check out hot guys freely and you can cuddle with whoever you want. When you're married...well, theoretically you can do that, too, but there's always that risk of your husband accusing you of being unfaithful and stuff.
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There are more reasons than that for a person to be single... Being wanted by someone isn't the same as wanting to be with that someone back, after all. And, are you reflecting personal experience to the second part of your sentence? |
Too right it isn't. I'm single from choice, mainly because I'm a selfish bitch and I covet my own space a bit too much to want to share it with someone else and their needs. I don't get lonely, while I enjoy other people's company, it's always lovely to get home at the end of the day and put a locked door between me and the world.
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. . . both of those choices sound terrible . . neither please :lol:
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Well, I'm saving sex for marriage,
therefore I think my choices are more like: Single and Bored or Married and somewhat entertained. therefore I choose the latter! 8D |
Too bad 'being in a relationship and content' isn't an option. XD
I dunno, I think I'd rather be single and lonely than married and bored. But luckily, I'm in neither situation. :3 |
Ugh, I'm single and lonely, but I feel I voted with my feet.
Dating for fun, is FUN though. Dating to date is a pain in the butt. |
Married and bored for sure. It sounds weird, but I don't really have any big dreams for my life. I don't want lots of money and a big fancy house and to take awesome vacations all the time to tropical places. I just want my fiance' and I to get a place together. I'd be perfectly happy living in an apartment, but my dream home is small, but with a big yard. As for a job, I'd love to work someplace quiet like a book store or a flower shop.
I don't want to live an exciting life. I just want to live a normal life with the one I love. It may be boring, but it always makes me happy to think about. |
Married and bored--I would choose this because there are always ways of spicing up the relationship rather than cheating--if you have the will power for it.
But right now I am single and very lonely.... |
I would choose neither.... but considering i have a lot of experience within the single and lonely aspect i think i would stick with what i know....
If i'm married.... I don't want to be bored... If I somehow get bored i would do my best to revive the passion that i had felt for the person originally... I never would marry just because 'I want to'. Love and Marriage are almost entirely different if you think about it, Marriage could just happen due to loneliness and the feeling of not being alone when there is no real 'spark'... If I ever married.... There has to be a big reason for it... and I would do my best to keep that reason alive. As for single and lonely, I've traveled down that road... I'm single right now... but not really lonely, i've temporarily kicked my emotions in the face for a few reasons... such as being dumped on new years eve... But i'm not lonely... I don't want to sit around for hours on end and bitch about how i can't get anybody. That isn't who i am, and that won't get me someone to share my heart with any faster. So again... I would prefer None... But If I had to it would have to be Single. |
okay my go
single and lonely...why Well first of all you're not tied down and you're free to do whatever. However that's thinking in an immature perspective. Someone who was committed to a relationship would not want the freedom because it got boring. I'm still young I have school to worry about, a job to think about and other personal goals that I want to achieve by myself before I even think about finding that special someone. Right now is a bad time. All that stuff I need to do I know will take time and yes I'll be lonely but no matter what I feel that loneliness will occur even in a relationship so it really makes no difference. |
Single and lonely... because friends are more important... not to mention married and lonely isn't an option... since I'd probably marry a super close friend if anyone... and that wouldn't be boring =D
Only downside would be that I'd never get to be more than just friends with her... :( |
I'd rather be Married, but I think that if I went that far I'd take the trouble to make sure I wasn't going to be Bored.
If you're afraid of marriage just because you won't get to flirt anymore, then flirt all you want first,then find a guy who you'll be satisfied with and won't feel like you need to flirt anymore. Or if you think you'll lose your freedom- then find a partner who'll give you freedom. I like being single too...but I think no one should be single for the rest of their lives. It may sound like an attractive arrangement when you're young- but I know I won't be happy 10-15 years from now when I'm middle aged and don't have a partner to grow old with. And don't argue that you'll still have your friends, because, unless they're exactly like you, they're going to move on someday and have their own lives that you won't be a part of anymore. Yes- definitely Married- but NOT Bored...xD |
I rather be single and lonely. I can find plenty of things to do by myself to keep any feelings of being lonely at bay. Also, if you are married and bored - then your partner is too. Nothing more annoying than trying to entertain someone else while I you are bored at the same time XD
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