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What is a hurtful thing anyone has said/done to you?
For me it's 'I wish i never met you. I hate you'
It kinda hurt me, considering it came from an old friend. So now i'm wondering, what was the most hurtful thing anyone has said/done to you?? |
I'm not going to try to think of THE most hurtful thing right now since I've sort of been in an iffy mood all day and I don't want a bad memory toppling me into depression. So I'll name some of the worst things, but not the really bad things.
When I was like, 11, my friend and I were at this creek that's just a few blocks down from us. She had taken her shoes off for one reason or another, but needed them back. She asked me to hand them to her because she didn't want to walk because it would get sand in her socks. So, jokingly, I held them right out of her reach. It was for all of a moment and I was just being silly, but she got REALLY pissed at me and called me a snot-nosed brat. Really, that wasn't even relevant to what I was doing, but it hurt a nerve for me, so I ran off and didn't talk to her for a few weeks. It doesn't bother me anymore, but at the time it really hurt my feelings. :/ |
'i dont want to be your friend any more, I hate you. Leave me alone' and other stuff. Like poser. [not the only one who shops at hot topic >.>]
I nearly cried everday before i slept. [Still kinda do, but i'm slowly recovering] @Corpse: and i'm sorry that was said to you. i don't think i can ever wish that upon a person. But it's in the past, you can't change it the only thing you can change is the future. ^_____^;;; @Cherry: Im sorry that things are happening in you life. DX Snot-nose brat just because you were jokingly doing that? |
Its not someone actually said to my face but my friend stopped talking to me because she apparently thought I slept with her boyfriend, who is MY best friend, who is like my brother to me.
It doesn't make much sense, and we used to be so close, so I assumed she could trust me. But apparently not. So she just stopped talking to me, even when I tried talking to her, and she got a few of her friends to come up to me and call me a slut and the like. It just hurt a lot because she accused me of something so ridiculous. But if she accused me of something stupid, she wasn't worth my time, but it still hurts :/ |
Wow so many mean people in the world so little time
the most hurtful thing said to me was something that you have to understand the context for: My grandfather (who was like my father- raising me half the time) passed away the day before H.S. graduation. Anyway i was looking in the bleachers and i was like, "oh! there's my grandpa...." and i started crying- my best friend (at the time) looked at me and was like "Just stop crying, jeez" (or something like that i tried blocking it out and now its been a few years). Needless to say we are not friends anymore- later it wasn't so much that she said hurtful things as much as she didn't say anything to me and we drifted apart- yeah that sucked >< |
I'm usually really good at forgetting things. I can't remember specifically the msot hurtful thing ever said to me. And as of now, I can't think of anything at all said to me that has hurt me besides the general terms "bitch" and "asshole."
Today, at rehearsal, we were trying to get the schedule problem worked out, and someone said that the problem was that all the people in the cast were popular. Then, jokingly, I said that I wasn't popular, and the cutest guy there turned to me and said "You've got a point there." It kind of hurt, but I don't hold it against him, because I said it first, and the character he is playing is a conceited arrogant jerk, and one of his best friends who was standing next to me hugged me and said that once you get to know him, you get used to his crap. But oh well. I'm too busy trying to be nicer to people myself than worrying too much about things people say. I don't like it when people call me lesbian, because I'm one of the straightest people in my entire school who isn't a slut, and I don't like being called a loser. |
"I know you're trying your hardest, but you're not good enough. I don't see a future with you."
*shuffles feet* ...Boys are stupid. |
@ Knerd: Boys are stupid! *hugs*
oh i thought of another thing- my mom called me a bitch (i was like 13)- which hurt more b/c it was my mom that said it... then again when i was eighteen and she tried calling me that again i replied: "Not just a bitch i am THE BITCH." and stormed off lol hurts less when your armour is thicker |
For me, some of the worst things are what people don't say rather than what they do say...or else it's little things they say that hit home for some reason.
Like, when people are supposed to be my friends but invite everyone except me to hang out wit them. Or when people say something that is supposed to be a "joke" but actually they really mean it. I hate passive-aggressive cruelty... |
My dad once called me a 'Thick bitch'. That was quite hurtful.
There's only been a few occasions where people have upset me. It's usually been from little relatively insignificant things, but that have really gotten to me for some reason or other. |
Had to be when my step father of 15 years got a divorce with my mother and when i told him he was still my father no matter what he just looked at me and said "When i divorced the bit** that included her kids." and then walked away. X_x;;;
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My mother calls me a carpet muncher, Does that count?
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It was back in middle school; during one of my orchestra concerts, I was finding my way to my seat with my violin as all the students were setting up and getting ready to perform for parents. One of the boys who I would be sitting next to told me to "sit down, you're embarrassing all of us".
I remember it even now because it was so hurtful and appalling. |
wow, um... I'm not sure I can think of anything at the top of my head. I'm kind of a forgiving person so I suppose I just forget.... or I just never had anything hurtful said to my face...
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My biological father has done/said plenty of things that really hurt me. Some of the most hurtful things were:
He told my aunt that I was a liar, right in front of me-even gave me a sort of disgusted look while saying it. (And just in case it needs to be said, I'm not a liar.) He told me once that the room I stayed in wasn't my room, it was the GUEST room. Is there any better way of saying 'you're not welcome in home' or 'you're not important enough to have a place in my house'? And once, when I was trying to tell him something that was bothering me, he told me I was full of sh** and to just get back to whatever it was I was doing at the time. I have a lot of issues with this man, in case you haven't guessed. I haven't seen him for over nine years and I'm not too upset about that. I'll never understand why he fought for custody of my sister and I, other than he just didn't want my mom to have us. He never cared about us, he didn't spend much time with us, and he didn't care that I spent most of the time that I lived there wanting to kill myself(literally cutting on myself and everything), even though he knew all about it. |
Once, this person who I didn't like at all, said, "Oh, I better get away from you, I'll catch your Asthma." That is not true!! just because I had asthma once in my life and my parents smoke doesn't mean you'll get asthma!!!!!!!! besides, asthma isn't contagious.
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"I wish I never met you" because i know he meant it...
if it would've been anyone else, but a few people then it wouldn't have bother me as much ohh and "Sometimes I wish you were more like her" that was like a stab in the back... (it was by the 2 different people...that i care about) |
For me it is just being ignored, can put me in a bad mood. I am sure there has been worse but by now I just ignore or block them out so they don't torment me. It also helps I have developed a bit of tongue and tend to cut right back if I have the nerve.
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I was fighting with my brother and I got really upset, so I went looking for my mom. I found her outside getting the mail, so I stood in the driveway waiting for her to come up to the house. I was standing there holding my arms out and she just walked right past me without saying anything. She let me stand there and cry. I don't know why it hurt so much... maybe because she's never done anything like that to my brother.
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'I hate you' and 'You're worthless." Oh, and "I hope you go to hell." I try not to let it phase me, but it still hurts.
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There's been so many I've lost track now.
I know I hated "come back next year" when I used to apply to certain job fields. Eventually followed, by we don't want you anymore, you're too old. Well thanks a lot for the stupid irony. |
The most hurtful thing? Not a hard question for me.
Three boys in my 7th grade Bio class would always pretend to hit on me and call me pretty, when I obviously wasn't. Just three popular guys making fun of the nerdy, smart, unpopular girl. I don't really care now about it, I've gotten over it, but it was extremely hurtful at the time since I was only 12. |
My mom told me she hated me last month. It's one of the reasons I moved out. I know she didn't mean it, but that's not something you say to your children. It hurt like hell. =/
My best friend Victoria stopped talking to me during the start of this year's school year. She was having a lot of problems. Finally I confronted her about it and told her I couldn't handle not talking to her anymore: so she could either try to save our tattered friendship or kill it. It took nearly a day to text back and you know what she said? I'm killing it. She was the most important person in my life. This happened in October and it still hurts. I seriously have no one now. I had a crush on one guy my Sophomore year. It took me a long time to summon up the courage to talk to him and I sent him a message on MySpace. He blocked me and wouldn't even look at me again. Maybe I came on a little strong. I didn't mean to. I have this tendency to put the guys I have a crush on upon a pedestal and fall for them so hard when I don't even know them. This was the only guy I've ever truly liked and he never even looked at me. I guess that was stupid on my part. That's what I get for being a Pisces. Those are the three most painful moments of my life. When they hit me I just got numb and I tried so hard to not think about it. Sleep would be so peaceful... but when I woke up I would try my hardest not to remember. But when I did I couldn't go back to sleep- no matter what the time was. Now I live at my aunt's, I have no one to comfort me when I'm having a bad day (like tonight), and I have no one to call my own. Nice, eh? @ New Jersey: That's horrible! I seriously hate when people do that. They did that to one boy in school by voting him as the most attractive in the yearbook. It was just a cruel joke among the idiotic preps and he laughed it off but I'm sure it really hurt him. I'm sorry. =[ Quote:
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Once my mom yelled at me and said "God why are you such a freak, why can't you just act normal?" That hurt, I was like 12. An she kept referring to me over and over again as a whore when I was 15. Then I was going out with this one boy named Jared, he was texting his cousin who asked a lot of questions about me because I was his first girlfriend therefore she was curious. Anyway, he accidentally sent me a text that was meant for her and it said "Omfg, if she wasn't pretty I wouldn't even be talking to her!" I almost broke up with him, it hurt, it made me feel like just because I was okay looking he was going out with me and not for, well, me. But he explained that he was really annoyed by his cousin and he just wanted her to stop texting him. But that was the ultimate reason why I ended up breaking up with him later on. :< |
@ miku3669 - What? Your mom said that she hated you? D: Now that is terrible. Parents should never say that to their kids, no matter what's going on.
And it's fine, really. It took me a year to get over it, but I'm fine now. I hate it when people pretend to be nice to someone just to mock them, it's so cruel D: |
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