I'm not married or engaged, but I'm in a serious relationship, so maybe soon ^^

Congrats! <333
I hope its a great one, I'd totally come!

i got married at a lovely local italian restaurant. The ceremony was in the garden, and then everyone got drinks and little fruit and cheese and cracker appetizers and then we had dinner in the biggest room them had. I had about 70 people, it was really wonderful.

We did have a wedding shower, my inlaws hosted it for us, but we havent been married before, and i still lived with my parents so we needed alot of things. Our family really help us. Of course i didnt register for a ton of junk like alot of people i know do just so they can get shit. I registered for what we really needed, like pots and pans, a vacuum a microwave. The family actually bought EVERYTHING on my small list in that first party, i had to go back and put more on there cause people were contacting us saying that they went to get us a gift and there was nothing to pick. We ended up getting alot of money at the wedding itself too, i was so shocked at everyones generosity. Alot of people invited i think found out that my husband and i paid for the wedding, and wanted to help.

I think if you already have everything you need to live/are already living together, the whole shower gifts thing is silly. What i would do is have an engagement celebration. A get together of close friends and fam to just have a good time, no gifts or ridiculous games. I hate shower games so stupid lol

I think themed weddings can be really fun, i think most people go WAY too far with it and it gets really tacky. I prefer elegance though. If i did a themed wedding, i would have done simple touches, like with the table decor, the cake, small things to add to a timeless style to make it elegant and lovely. Of course you still want to do enough that people know what the theme is xD

As far as the dress goes, thats all up to you, you will know when you find THE dress. I was open to color or white, i actually wanted some color in my dress. I ended up with a fitted all lace sweetheart strapless dress though, it was really lovely. It was a little uncomfortable, i think if i would redo it, i would have gotten that dress for pictures and the ceremony and a looser, more simple dress to eat in so i could eat in comfort lol

Oh and dont underestimate the photographer! In the end, THAT is what you have left besides your memories, dont rely on other people either to take pictures with their cameras! the absolute best thing i did with that wedding was hire a photag i loved and got along with

Edit: Oh i would TOTALLY dress up in costume, but i adore costumes

and personal pet peeve, when the bride and groom open gifts infront of everyone. I didnt want to do it at my shower, but so many people were asking and begging that we decided too. I dont think the wedding is really the place to do that though

CONGRATULATIONS~
I'm not married.
I want a themed wedding! Steampunk/Victorian!
Nope, sorry. But your question is not very specific. Do you mean location-wise, or a place that plans weddings?
Yes, I most definitely would! Dressing up is awesome.
I personally would go with something different.
It's all good in my book!
Depends on how they're done. If it's a traditional very stiff thing, then no. However, if your friends are fun loving and creative, then it could be very fun!
I haven't gotten any, but I have given some good wedding gifts. I'd have to say the best wedding gift I ever gave was a pair of high heeled shoes customised to look like the bride and groom. The left shoe was a tuxedo, the right shoe was a wedding gown.

Nope. I've never even had a significant other.
When I saw the movie 27 Dresses, I kind of wanted a drag themed wedding, for the pure amazement factor of having everyone I know dressing in drag to appease me.
Not a one.
Yeah. If it's the wish of the bride or groom, and it's their special day, yes. It's your day, not mine. If you want me to hop on one leg while reciting the national anthem, that's fine. I'd get you back after the honeymoon. xD
White dress only if you're following the symbolism. Quite frankly, if you're not a virgin, don't wear white.
I have no take. Good luck, I guess?
Depends on the person. For someone like me, pointless.
Never gotten a gift from a wedding before.

I'm engaged, it's going to be first (and hopefully only) for both of us *knocks on wood* It's funny you have your dress already, I keep hearing that's something that takes the longest. Personally, I'm having more trouble with bridesmaid dresses, got my gown right away ^^;

We'll be getting married near Christmas, the hall is already going to be decorated for the holiday so I'm leaning towards just having a red theme to go with it. I'm not a big theme person anyway (love simple, seems more elegant), my big concern is actually getting the I do's done with little family drama.

I'm LDS (mormon) too so we can't really plan our weddings, its all there for us. It's weird though cuz my current bf wants me to marry him, but he's not a member so i don't know what'll happen. We've talked about this and all, but i guess we'll just have to see what happens.

Anyway i wish you the best of luck and years filled with happiness! :D

First off, CONGRATS! :D that's so fantastic to hear.

I myself am too young to be married--just turned 18 in febuary--but i've had two people propose.

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yeah, i wish i was kidding..

As far as I'm concerned i don't know what kind of wedding i want, but a themed wedding would be just too weird for me. I've never been much of a fangirl over anything in particular....However, I'd LOVE to be involved with a renaissance themed wedding, sounds beautiful!
I'd probably go traditional white dress myself, but I'd definitely have an accent color if i did.
And yeah, wedding showers are pretty pointless, but its all in good fun. :D

1. Not even close T_T
4. I'd probably stick with white, or white with a little colour.
5. Psh, my mom got married twice, so it doesn't bother me one bit. She's happiest now anyway.
6. Are awesome, but I'd say mostly for couples starting out, because if a couple was living together for a long time, you are already well set to live together. I could be wrong though.
7. Mints and bubbles.

We're wanting to go out of the country for the honeymoon and are having the hardest time trying to decide where and get all the passport information together. I didn't even know there was so much INVOLVED in leaving the country. They said that it would take about a year to get everything approved so it's a good thing i'm starting now.

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