@Cupcakes: Ewww, he spread rumors about you?! Dx I say you should go slap him upside his head until he can't even say "chubby bunny" anymore! D< Ah, and you get a lot of guys "pretending to be something they aren't".... I feel like a LOT of my friends are doing that to. You can REALLY tell when someone is pushing themselves on to do stuff they normally wouldn't do.

@ Terry
Oh, that's good to hear.
Oh wow, Stanford... that's a pretty tough college.

@ZombieCupcakes
In response to your last paragraph, I think he's just uncomfortable with himself and his current persona and he feels like he needs to change himself to what he thinks will cause more people to like/accept him. I'm glad you're staying by his side and you're persistent in finding out why he's acting the way he is.
But I have to warn you... sometimes people who change themselves will continue to act in their changed ways. If he can't talk to you about it... even if you've been persistent for a long time, sometimes it takes you leaving him as well for him to realize that everyone liked him the way he was before he started changing.
This is just my opinion; I've known quite a few people who have done this at my school =/

I don't know... I think girls are more subject to change themselves, but it's less "awkward" when they do. When guys try to change themselves.... just no...no...

Hm. I see what you're saying. I'm not exactly sure what that double standard exists.

Yes, I do. D.A.M. :3 David A. Muts... Not really going to say his full name. Not that you could track him down or anything, I just don't know if he'd be comfortable with it. ^^;; A year and half and still chuggin' along. Pretty good for my second relationship, ever.

My first boyfriend, and my only ex, Matt, has turned into a total jerk. We fight on and off even though we aren't even dating anymore. He's had two girlfriends since me, and this one right now is changing him completely. She seems to think that every girl he is friends with is madly in love with him, which basically, he just gets along with females better than males. (Matt's a little fruity. I have a thing for questionably gay men. <3 ) But recently, he cut off all communication with me, and decided to hate me because David is "sketchy".

Well, there's Derek. He's being quite stupid about his decisions. He's dated this girl, Maggie, who is my friend as well. But they eventually broke up a little while ago because his heart wasn't really in the relationship. Maggie still wants to get back together, but she's being such a bitch about it. He kissed another girl during their relationship, and has apologized his heart out. After that, they got back together, and at my birthday party in June, both attended. However, Derek was there more of the party than Maggie.
The night prior, Derek had attended a party with his friends. The first thing Maggie did when she came in the door and sat down next to Derek on the couch was, "Did you behave last night?"
I was awed. Firstly, say HI to your freaking boyfriend. Secondly, that was uncalled for, and I know if I were Derek, that would hurt. And third, if you're going to ask that question to begin with, don't you dare ask it in front of all his friends!
For some God Awful reason, he still cares about her, even though she has done alot more to piss everyone off.
I think the worst part about this story, is... he recently told me, other than Maggie, I'M the only other girl he'd want to be with.
Secretly, I do want to try things with him, because we get along GREAT and have more of the same interests. But at the same time, I don't want to be unfaithful to David, or leave him for something that could fail. D;
And I know that if I left David, he would probably not make it much longer, given his past and the stress that I am able to relieve him from.

However, as far as boys, if something horrible were to happen between David and I, and I tried things with Derek, and it didn't work, I probably wouldn't date another man. I like to see myself as 75% lesbian. But that's just me.

<3 Hope you enjoyed my rant.

-Do you have a boyfriend? No I do not. =( But I'm not so sure if I want one because almost all the guys I meet are stupid anyway. >.>

-Do you strongly dislike any guys you used to like? If so, then why? Yes. Some because they were clingy, some because they were creeps, and one because it just wasn't the right crowd to be hanging out with, y'know?

-Do you have a friend who's a boy who's being a complete idiot? If so, how? Well, I don't. But my friend has a boy who will NOT leave her alone! He threatened to kill himself because she asked him to stop smothering him. O.o *sigh* I VERY MUCH dislike guys like that. >.< If a girl doesn't like you, killing yourself (or even threatening to do so) won't make anything better.

-I wish D;
- Uh yes I found that they all were just despreate for a Girlfriend

Sadly, no, I don't have a boyfriend. I do want one, as I adore boys like crazy.

All the boys I used to like I either don't really care for, see them as just friends, or dislike them a bit. It really depends on the situation.

I haven't spoken to any of my guy friends recently, so I don't know if they're being idiots or not.

i luv boys but currently dont have a boyfriend.

I have a boyfriend of three years. C: He's amazing, I love him. And I like boys; not in the sense that I'm heterosexual, but I have a lot more guy friends than girl friends. I don't know, they're just more fun sometimes. You can get physical (like, fighting) and they won't cry. xDD I just get along with guys better, I guess. I'm sorry that your friend is having drama with her ex-boyfriend, but just because he's a jerk doesn't mean that all guys are jerks. Girls are jerks, too. I probably know an equal amount of girls and guys who are complete idiots and I can't stand them. xD The only gender difference I hate is that so many girls take their gender too seriously. They play themselves as weak and helpless, which is really kind of lame. I'm sure they could defend themself if they just sucked it up.

I'm single, at the moment. My ex is being a total douche, he doesn't speak his mind, and it causes problems. I still have to go to his place to pick up half my wardrobe though, so I'm hoping it works out. I can't say I like him the way I used to, but he's still important to me, and a wonderful guy. I felt for him a way that I'd never felt for anyone else, I just hope I can find someone that makes me feel like that again.

One of my exs did the same thing to me... except my best friend told him off instead of kissed him... >_< Sorry that yours didn't though... I hope she isn't still a best friend. D:


~ I do currently have a boy friend... though sometimes I question just how good of a relationship we have... We fight ALL the time, and we rarely talk anymore... He also seems to have a thing with flirting with others. .__.; Maybe that's just me being a jealous girl friend cause I rarely get attention from him anymore... but yeah... ;o;

~ Depends on who it is...

~ Oh yes... though I'd rather not get into how...

I'd just like to add though... that I'm still a bit undecided with my orientation... A lot of guys really piss me off sometimes, and have been just complete jerks to me, that sometimes I think I hate them. I also hate how some act like I'm weak and can't do certain things just because I'm a girl. D< Though I have to say not all guys are that bad. There have been some incredibly nice ones too. ^^ I've just had some pretty bad experiences I guess, so I'm not always too trusting of them... Which makes me think that I'd be better off going lesbian or something instead... But I'm not sure if I like girls. xD

[QUOTE=blaze of ice;1764727774]One of my exs did the same thing to me... except my best friend told him off instead of kissed him... >_< Sorry that yours didn't though... I hope she isn't still a best friend. D:


Haha no way.. I told her off & haven't talked to her since xD
I'm not really the type of girl who would take BS from any body...

Yes i have a lot of friends that are boys and i like them all but there's this one boy that i really like in my class that i am not going to tell you his name because its kinda embarassing. I've liked him for 3 years and he doesnt even notice me.

haha, i must say i love boys, but in a platonic way. lol i know this is probably for girls and gays haha

- i dont have a boyfriend nor a girl. (well okay im dating couples of girls now but that doesn't count does it?)

- i dont strongly dislike any of my ex girlfriends. i still like very much my last one. but im a jerk and she left me hahaha. But world is full of girls, right? : D

- i have plenty of friends who are male and they're crazy and stupid and idiot. But there are good boys too, im sure. So don't worry ladies.

No to the first two question and yes to the third. It's just that he's not being himself. When he gets around certain people he will act stupid and immature. But he's not really like that. But I don't dislike guys because of something a few guys did. It doesn't make sense because they don't represent everyone, though I do know what you mean.

Do you have a boyfriend?
No. I'm single.

Do you strongly dislike any guys you used to like? If so, then why?
Yeah. I used to like this guy. But he always kept talking to this girl in front of me. He always stayed away from me like I was turned inside out or something. And I felt like he was always laughing at me. :(

Do you have a friend who's a boy who's being a complete idiot? If so, how?
Yes. I just went to high school and I found my best friend from 4th grade. He recognized me, but all he said is that we went to 4th grade together. He forgot our friendship. We were so close.

Awesome! xD Just wanted to make sure, since I used to let people walk all over me before I finally grew a back bone. D; I don't like seeing it happen to others. ^_^