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nike13 08-17-2009 12:08 AM

The things I love most about my fiance are that he's smart, makes me laugh and he makes me feel safe ^^; Those three are the most important things, he also has honest eyes and remembers the little things (still surprises me after 9 years when he picks up on stuff).

komouri 08-17-2009 12:35 AM

umm i like kind intelligent smart confidence friendly and i like them a little taller than me
and he cannot wear more makeup than i do..... which isnt much

AyameRoll 08-17-2009 02:56 AM

Sence of humor, someone who is not shy, beautiful eyes, someone who isn't picky about how you LOOK...eh you know...a person who dosn't exist. *shrugs* just kidding...

Harmonius 08-17-2009 03:14 AM

Oh, I have another one: Doesn't get fussed about the way I dress/look.
I tend towards a visual kei type style, and if people don't like that then we have problems.

I don't often fall for guys, so if I do, they'd better not try to change me. >.<

ZaK.86 08-17-2009 04:12 AM

So, I just realized that I haven't posted what I like at all. =p

In guys: Shorter than me, sense of humor, nerdy, dark hair...

In girls: the same general thing. =)

So, I've compiled and here's what I have found. To get the most girls you should have a sense of humor, be kind, smart, and be in shape.

Here's the full compilation.

Quote:

GUYS
  • Sense of humor/Funny [25]
  • Willingness to cuddle/cuddly. [3]
  • Eyes. [8]
  • Faithful.
  • Good dresser. [2]
  • Intelligence. [9]
  • Kindness/Good Natured. [17]
  • Similar sense of humor. [2]
  • Tall. [9]
  • Good Hair.
  • Nice back.
  • Fit body/in shape. [11]
  • Loving your partner for who they are/ no matter what. [4]
  • Confidence. [4]
  • Friendly/Outgoing. [2]
  • Honesty. [7]
  • Similar Interests
  • Dark Haired. [5]
  • Broad Shoulders.[5]
  • Hung like a horse.
  • Honorable.
  • Clasy.
  • Reliable.
  • Can do girl things and manly things.
  • Passionate. [2]
  • Wierd/Nerdy. [3]
  • Sensitive. [3]
  • Talented.
  • Good looking. [4]
  • Nice Smile. [3]
  • Sarcastic. [3]
  • Aren't Pushovers.
  • Take Charge
  • Somewhat jealous.
  • Blue Eyes. [3]
  • Short hair.
  • Good Listener. [2]
  • Grey Eyes.
  • Like to give surprises.
  • Not chatty.
  • Speaks their mind.
  • Respects personal space.
  • Long hair.
  • Protective. [4]
  • Can hang out/talk. [3]
  • Dark Skin.
  • Sharp Canines.
  • Stubborn.
  • Mid-length hair.
  • Shoulder to cry on.
  • Clean.
  • Posture.
  • Lips.
  • Eyelashes.
  • Smell.
  • Cheerful.
  • Deep.
  • Mysterious.
  • Good cook.
  • Hazel Eyes.
  • Kinkiness.
  • Loyalty. [3]
  • Almond Shaped Eyes.
  • Tanned Skin.
  • Skinny.
  • Imaginative.
  • Artistic.
  • Common Sense.
  • Charming. [2]
  • Accent.
  • Makes/gets coffee.
  • Knows what to do when your depressed, angry or a negitive mood.
  • Willing to watch ANYTHING you want to just to make you happy.
  • Teeth.
  • Makes you feel safe.
  • Remembers the little things.
  • Wears less makeup than you.
  • Short.
GIRLS
  • Sense of humor. [2]
  • Willingness to cuddle.
  • Short.
  • Dark Hair.


Ra Fortuna 08-17-2009 06:18 AM

ooooh! Don't get me started on this!
Oh well, here I go. Anyways, I think it's mainly personality. In my case I like someone funny and silly, but still smart and serious. I need someone who can make me laugh when I'm on the verge of tears and help me study all at once. I like people who like video games and don't mind that I would rather watch them play then actually play the game. (I do get into playing video games, but I like to watch others play video games because I'm strange like that)
I like nerdy boys....

They also have to be open minded. I say this of course because they need to be able to deal with and accept me for who I am. This may be really hard sometimes. For this reason, I would also like them to be very huggable.

As for looks. LONG HAIR! Long hair looks good on both genders if you ask me, and really good on guys. Maybe I'm just strange. But yes, long, dark hair and bright eyes. That is optional though. Physically, these are the first things that attract me to a person.

((I guess this goes for both genders... And I know a person like this exists! I've been dating him for a year now xD))

Inlul Mirshann 08-17-2009 06:52 AM

The first thing that attracts me is a persons build. I know what I want and I like what I see but, the relationship will go no where fast unless our personality match. I look for someone with similar interests who accept my belief and support me however I need to be. Usually I'd be attracted to people with longer hair but my bf of 2 years lacks that one minor detail but more then makes up for that insignificant thing with his amazing gemstone eyes. One of my favorite things though would have to be how small and precious he makes me feel. The most impotent thing I think if just a change in thinking. I would rather someone give me a gift not because it's my birthday or an anniversary but just because they can/want to.

BlackMage KaiheiTsukiredi 08-17-2009 02:50 PM

I don't care what facial features they have, but if they're nice, gentleman-like, and honest then I'm good.

Laurine 08-17-2009 10:05 PM

he has to be cute for starters sexy, i don't like bald guys sorry i just don't find it attractive. i also want him to be sweet, romantic, caring, a good listener, and isn't afraid to share his thoughts and tell me when there is something wrong and why, and not afraid to show his feelings for me in front of his friends, fun to be with and makes me laugh. Being a good kisser, soft long hair, a bit of muscle, always smells nice, and can cook somethings are always a plus! lol

Agent HEY-LEE 08-17-2009 10:14 PM

I don't like smart asses, but I also don't like complete idiots.

I like someone who actually cares about things. Environment, people, animals...

I like someone who knows when to fill the silence and when to shut up.

I like someone with a bit of humor but a serious side as well.

I like someone open-minded and accepting.

I like someone who share in some of my interests. Whether they be reading, movie genres, music...

I'd just have to meet them and spend time with them, ya know?

Zernita 08-17-2009 10:18 PM

first of all, I love boys with dark, long hair. something to grab on to if you know what I mean ;)
I don't like boys with blue eyes. I don't know why
Green eyes are my favorite
He has to have a sense of humor, make me laugh and smile constantly.
also, I absolutely love random people, just like myself. they have to be crazy(I've been blessed with my hubby meeting all of these qualities)

iGreenK 08-17-2009 10:38 PM

i like guys that r
nice, caring, funny(wen i'm down nd he try 2 cheer me up)
this sound kind of weird
but i also like guys
w/ their DORKINEST(lol)

EpoxyObsession 08-17-2009 11:30 PM

I am attracted to men who are charming, or for some reason forbidden. So I usually either fall for fun guys who are outgoing and witty, or wild bad boys, or people that are totally inappropriate for me to be socializing with (too young or too old, teammates, work friends, already in a relationship). I guess you could say I'm an adrenaline junkie or a drama whore...but I actually hate that part, I'm just attracted to smart, interesting, complicated, or exciting people.

Cute boys tempt me because it sweet boys make my heart melt, but I wind up feeling pressured by too much courtship. I also feel like I don't deserve them, and usually come away feeling like a total bitch. It's almost better to go for independent guys, because even if they don't call me back, at least they don't expect me to call them either.

Guys who are good in bed are awesome. A sense of humor is sexy, but remember: you want to be a smartass, not a clown. Physical appearance can be a deal breaker, but is rarely an issue because I tend to focus on people's best features (and sometimes physical flaws can be striking, in a good way).

I think that pretty much summarizes it. I have standards, but I'm not picky.

Lark Song 08-18-2009 09:18 AM

Confident, when he's got that attitude that says "I am me, and I'm damn fiiiine." And a smile that can light up the town. If he's got those, well the pounding of my very attracted heart will morse code my number over ;)

So, needs are: As stubborn as I am [which means REALLY Stubborn]
-Intelligent
-Clean, and good smelling [You can win me over if all you got is -that- smell. one part good soap, one part fragent male product and half PURE masculine spice thats all you ;)]
-And I really like being picked up..... I'll never usually admit it, but I love randomly being scoope up into a guy's arms [bridal style] Its the most sexy, sweet, amazing turn on for me.
-passionate-this extends into all aspects, from kissing to their work.
-I need to feel safe with them. Exciting is good, but at the end of the day I want to be able take a deep breath, curl up against him and know that its okay if I fall asleep cause I don't have to watch my back with him.... Cause he'll keep me safe.

I'd like them to be;
-Taller than me. This isn't required however, because to tell you the truth, the most attracted I have ever been to someone was to a 5 ft 2 russian, with curly platum blonde hair and deep sea green eyes, with a bent nose delicate features. And to this day, I would marry him if he asked me. No questions asked, running to vagas and eloping kind of attracted. SERGE WHERE ARE YOU MY LOVE!!! LOL
-Accented. Preferably, scottish, irish, canadian, or a softer russian accent.
-Good smile... Love the smile.
-really dark, or really light eyes with depth. I like sharp, intelligent eyes. I don't know why, but I don't like soft 'warm' eyes. They have to be fiery, and snappy, or reserved and thinking.
-Classy. Sophisticated. I don't want to worry when I take him around my family, that he's going to crack some 'Yo mama joke' or be crude. A little is fine, because he's got to understand my own personal perversities, but I want him to know when to clean up the act.
-artistic. This one is going to take some explaining.... I don't like clingy guys... I'm a very indepent female. And I'm also a writer, which inheritently makes me solitary. I want someone of a similar nature, so that they aren't hurt when I spend hours writing, either on one of my various pads or at my comp. I can bend my work around someone else's needs to a point, but I need extended amounts of time to myself. Artistic personalities often don't realize whe they go into themselves and leave for hours on end, writing, painting, singing, writing/playing lyrics, and I can wait for these times. But I need them.


And now that I have been the longest post in here I'm sure I'm going to go and remind myself why I'm perputualy single XD Again 95% of this is just wants, I just want someone who it feels right to be with. Who loves me as much as I love them.

Vivid 08-18-2009 09:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ZaK.86 (Post 1764924168)
So, I just realized that I haven't posted what I like at all. =p

In guys: Shorter than me, sense of humor, nerdy, dark hair...

In girls: the same general thing. =)

Short, nerdy, and dark hair, huh? 8D

-eyebrow wiggle-

Kale 08-18-2009 09:47 AM

Long hair (Like, Sephiroth long =D) + personality = perfect =3

Harmonius 08-18-2009 10:49 AM

Zak and Vivid:

Zomg. First description that even vaguely fits me. :P

KazuYasha 08-18-2009 10:54 AM

It's impossible for me to be rational when it comes to liking a guy.My hormones choose before I do.


Witchling_Ichigo 08-18-2009 04:16 PM

idk. something about them has to scream out to me. like their eyes or something. i still havent found what it is i fell in love w my bf. lol but it has happened w a few gfs. XD i like both sides. ;)

nah i like personalities, a person that can be themself is what i like.

~iBlazian~ 08-18-2009 07:06 PM

My top two qualitys- humor, and sensibility. I like a guy who won't be boring, and who I won't have awkward silent moments with. I also like them to be sensitive, but not too sensitive.

DarkxLorelei 08-19-2009 06:09 AM

I find a sense of humor very attractive. And I am sure alot of other girls do too.
I also like that Boyfriend looks me in the eyes when he talks. It is like he is considerate, and he treats me like I am the only one that matters, and yes I think that is attractive.

Serenus 08-19-2009 06:18 AM

Well, I am engaged myself right now. What I love about my fiancee is that he is very caring about my feelings and trys to be right to me. If that makes sense. He's very good with his words to make him funny. I love his hair, it's brown and curly. I like to play with it. Um...he's sweet to me. When we laying in bed he talks to me, just because. Or calls and see how my day is going. I could go on but I'd be rambling...but his qualities are what I find attractive.


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