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I am bisexual and I think I started to realize this in middle school. It was awkard for me because I told my best friend at the time that if she was a guy, I would date her (because yes, as a tween-aged girl I thought girls dated boys and that was it). However, once I got into high school I finally told her I didn't care that she was a girl and yes, we ended up dating for a few months. Actually, we've had an off and on relationship that's gotten way to complicated and very emoitional. I'm really hoping I don't have to see her again because even though she was my first love, I can't deal with the heartaches I've gone with her anymore.
I've of course dated guys as well. However, I haven't really felt that comfortable with a guy yet but I won't give up on them. Honestly, it's a person's personality which is far more important than their gender or even physical apperance. As far as "coming out of the closet" goes - both my parents were very accpeting. My mom told me that she had called my aunts just to, you know, talk about it but as my Aunt Judy said, "She's the same daughter you always had and you'll always love her." |
Ya go girl =O, I'm sure that there were other gay and bi people in your old high school, who were still stuck in the closet. But I'm glad that you really didn't care what your fellow students said. As for your Government teacher, that's just ridiculous, I would of started an argument right then and there, and brought in the principal and yeah. Glad that your teacher got fired for that one.
I'm completely for gay marriage. Gay and bi people have much of a right to be together than straight people. Though I suppose that you don't need a piece of paper telling you that you'll be together with your lover forever. But for me, I'm not gay, but bi. I have a girlfriend. I don't care what others say. I hate anyone that says that gay and bi people are confused and such. I did watch this one video that totally pissed me off. It was of a church doing a gay exorcism on this poor kid D:, some people totally piss me off. |
I'm asexual, but when I came out I tried to say I was bisexual, because I would have a relationship with either gender, but that was not acceptable to my mother, who basically has said many times it doesn't exist. I've dated both. I'm comfortable with either. But I am not physically attracted to anyone ^^;
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i'm not gay, but one of my best friends is. he was, as far as i know, the only gay student at our high school. i don't know if anyone else there was. what irritated me was, once the school knew, not as many people were close friends with him anymore. i know that his closest friends stuck by him tho. i have to admit, i was a little upset when i found out cuz i had a crush on him since i was 13, but i'm glad that he's still my friend, and i do fully support him.
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i've noticed alot of people seem to be the best friends who had crushes on their gay friends... we're chick magnets and i don't get it love all my female friends sometimes have those i wish i wasn't gay because i know how happy it make so and so moments but ugh thats just part of life i guess... T_T
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Heh, I'm straight. I mean, people who are gay or bi or whatever should live a happy life. It's wrong to tell them who to marry and treat them so differently. It's also wrong to tell them who to love and just up and explode in their face about being who they are. I have a lesbian friend and it was so hard for her to tell her father. I had to stand there and help support her as she tried to still become the same little girl her father knew and loved all those years. I also want people to stop making fun of those people who are gay/lesbian/bi because it's just not right. Because in all honesty, no one makes fun of straight people, so, why should they be any different?
I dunno, maybe it's society. I guess in society, unless you're a single white female falling in love with a single white male, then it's ok. But, it's truely not. I think that society needs to go screw a walnut tree and let their ideals of happy marriages and lovers explode into a thousand little pieces. :/ |
I'm bisexual, and while I've come out to all of my friends, I see no reason to tell my family. I hardly ever speak to them anyway. I was practically raised by my grandmother, and she used to act very supportive of the LBGT community, but then she'd go on tangents that would end with, 'I just hope you don't end up with a black guy, or even worse a woman!'.
So yeah, I guess that makes me out-yet-in? And I definitely feel that gay marriage should be legal. I personally don't ever want to get married, but the choice to do so is definitely a right that everyone should have. |
I AM LESBIAN AND PROUD TO BE!!!
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I'm bisexual, but to be honest, if I hadn't met my husband, I'd likely be a lesbian instead. I'm rarely attracted to men, but when I am, I REALLY am, if you get my drift. XD
My family doesn't know, and I'm not sure howthey'd take it, to be honest. I figure since I'm married to the man I love, that's all I they need to know. They don't need to know I oogle ladies with my hubby. As for Gay Marriage, I'm all for it. I can't find ANY non-religious reason to not allow it, and we're SUPPOSED to have a seperation of church and state, so... yeah. |
{--------- This Kid over here is a homo. ^^
Very proud of that fact. The only problems in my life are the dramas and the fact that I'm obsessed with a straight guy, but aside from that my life is just peachy! NOW DO THE KIRBY DANCE! (> '')> <( '' )> <('' <) |
I'm a girl, that's attracted to guys, but that's not to say that if an awesome girl came my way that I wouldn't give it the chance. :3
Coming out (if I needed to) wouldn't be hard to do with my mom. She's been asking me if I'm a lesbian for years now (simply because I haven't gotten a boyfriend yet). I don't know how my dad would take it. I probably couldn't tell my grandma. I believe marriage is for everybody if that is what they want. But I agree with what someone else said earlier, if a certain church doesn't feel comfortable performing the ceremony that should be ok. There are plenty of churches after all. |
I have been bi-curious since forever. i have never been in a relationship of any kind so i can't claim a sexuality just yet. :sweat: My parents would kick me out of the house if they ever found out i was remotely interested in the same sex (or following a different faith)! It is sad that our own families can be too bigoted to accept us for who we are. I suppose "unconditional love" is truly dead. :(
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I don't really have a sexual orientation so much as a relationship preference. Physical attraction to me is a secondary thing under all standards. Gender is something I have completely ignored throughout my life. I'm constantly reminded of it by all the transgender people I've met though, lol.
I'm currently in a lovely female-female relationship, we're planning on getting married. Lol @ females with male avatars on menewsha amirite |
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I am a bisexual male that lives a life of shit and not giggles. my dad calls me a fag daily and my mom sits there and gives me more shit. i joined the army to shut my dad the fuck up since neither of them know that i am bi anyways, i must apoligizes for the language but i h8 my life and most of the people in it thanks for caring, i came out in kansas city to the school and it was great but my dads still a jerk and still calls me gay, good luck to all of you out there
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@Galfon: I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going well for you. Just remember that there are other people going through the same things as you. It's hard, but try to stay positive and remember that your parents won't always be such a big part of your life and you will find people that appreciate you for who you really are. |
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I am bi-curious and society hates me even more for my interacial relationships as well. My ex husband is German-Dutch. I say hooray for those that find a good relationship in this horrid world of today.
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I'm a bisexual girl. I have a girlfriend, but she's the only other gay person I know, unfortunately. Only a few of my friends know, and I'm scared of telling anyone else. I mean, I trust them and tell them a lot of stuff but when it comes to my orientation I'm so nervous. It's weird. Also, if any of the people I'm rivals/enemies knew, they'd spread it far and wide and make my life a living hell. This guy even openly told me that two girls together is disgusting.
I first found out I was bi when I started having feelings for one of my friends. I told her, and things got sooo tense between us. We started arguing more over the silliest things and it was painful with the unrequited feelings. Everything started changing between all of my friends at that time when I started telling them after they asked about me and my friends. The situation is fine now, but I sometimes think that if I never told her things would be better. Well, there's my little ball of angst. I hope it didn't sound whiny. |
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