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Scarling Zombie 10-27-2009 04:36 AM

I'd rather cuddle with a stranger than my boyfriend.
He may kill me in the middle of the night.

koneko of the nekos 10-27-2009 04:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Scarling Zombie (Post 1765308696)
Tickling should be considered torture.

i agree with that statement. i hate hate HATE being tickled. i won't go into my issues on why.

and i can cuddle on rare occasions for about 30 seconds max. i have a large personal bubble and just can't handle people that think i need to be a cuddlebug and/or constantly hold hands and such. just one of my quirks i suppose.

ittie 10-27-2009 05:07 AM

Cuddling can be really nice, as long as you are in the right mood. This may just be because I am odd but I enjoy it quite a bit and usually fall asleep that way. To be honest the only time it isn't nice is if one of the two is in a playful mood but even then that is where it ends up once we tire each other out.
If it's really hot out that can be a bit... just terrible. I happen to live in a pretty warm place so usually it's too hot to cuddle or even be very close for a long period of time so that may explain my enjoyment of it.

JaydedTearz 10-27-2009 05:32 AM

Sometimes I really enjoy cuddling. At others I tend to get really annoyed and just want to be left alone. (and this is with my boyfriend.)
at my house however, I have nephews that like to sleep in "mimi's bed" and I don't mind cuddling with them. especially the 4 month old ^__^ he's adorable and snuggly.

pianochan 10-27-2009 06:49 AM

I've never been cuddled, but in a regular social situation, I can't stand to be with anyone too touchy-feely. My skin burns when you fuck with me too much.

Lady Wysteria 10-29-2009 08:10 PM

Oh, I love cuddling. I NEEED cuddling.

Seriously I love to be as close to people that I'm close to as they'll let me be. I love to hug my friends and I have no problem sharing a bed with them. I love being cuddled and love cuddling in return.

I'm very affectionate, but because I'm shy I don't like to be near strangers or people I'm not close to. But otherwise I really love to cuddle.

Miechan 10-29-2009 08:49 PM

I adore being cuddled, and I definitely crave it. So I'm totally excited for when my best friend gets to come see me again (we live 9 hours apart) and she'll cuddle me. We're both SUPER affectionate, so it's snuggle galore 8D

@ Lady Wysteria, I AGREE -high fives-

Scarling Zombie 10-29-2009 10:01 PM

:cry: I wish I cuddled with Steven more.
I really do.

Laila Izuka 10-29-2009 10:10 PM

I'm not one to cuddle really. As someone stated already, I can't stay put and I feel uncomfortable. I have a habit of moving around a lot, and I feel really constrained when I can't move >.>

Mairelys 10-29-2009 10:45 PM

I love cuddling! I don't mind the person I love being in my personal space.
But I have some friends who like to cuddle with friends :shock: I wouldn't ever cuddle with someone I'm not going out with.

Scarling Zombie 10-29-2009 11:02 PM

If Steven was closer, I'd love cuddling with him one last time.
I just want to smell his scent and keep his warmth with me...
God I'm pathetic.

Fuzzyratt 10-29-2009 11:08 PM

Well, as a guy, I really like it when a woman wants to cuddle with me.

To me it is the best sign that we are really working as a couple. I know not everyone is into to it. Most of my bubbies only cuddle because their girls demand it from them. But, nothing is better to me then hold my girlfriend while we watch a movie and half the time she falls asleep in my arms :)

aki kisaki 10-29-2009 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Scarling Zombie (Post 1765307331)
Who else hates cuddling?

Seriously, I don't need you breathing down my neck, and it's always uncomfortable.
One of our arms seems to fall asleep. I always cuddle with extremely hot people, so I sweat, and I don't look cute when I sweat. I have a weave, so I don't like when your gaint man-paws run through my tracks. D:<
It's a waste of time.

:rofl: that is quite hilarious! i actually like cuddling, but not for very long. the arms falling asleep is funny, but i don't particularaly care for it. i usually don't have a problem with the sweat. and about the tracks :lol: i feel you there! i avoid weave and stick to extensions or natural hair.

Codette 10-29-2009 11:19 PM

It's a good thing I like cuddles, because my boyfriend is always wanting to cuddle ^.^ I love it when he plays with my hair, and he loves it when I play with his. We just fit together so cuddling is comfortable.

pamiishammy 10-29-2009 11:22 PM

Cuddling is nice but there is a time and place for everything..including sleep!
When I sleep I need space to sprawl out and stretch my legs after work lol.

Lady_Megami 10-29-2009 11:24 PM

I hate cuddling! I like to sleep in my own little corner of the bed by myself. Now, if I am on the couch I don't mind it much, unless they are a mover. If they move a lot..then I just assume go to my own lil corner and watch TV by myself. lol

Scarling Zombie 10-30-2009 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted by aki kisaki (Post 1765338133)
:rofl: that is quite hilarious! i actually like cuddling, but not for very long. the arms falling asleep is funny, but i don't particularaly care for it. i usually don't have a problem with the sweat. and about the tracks :lol: i feel you there! i avoid weave and stick to extensions or natural hair.

Oh, but my hair is so thin. If I don't weave it, then my hair is all flat and not so cute.

Sylyndii 11-04-2009 02:46 PM

ugh at cuddle

Scarling Zombie 11-04-2009 04:38 PM

I would rather sleep in a seperate bed.
I don't need to wake up everyday and see his drool spots on my pillow.

Keito Sama 11-04-2009 05:50 PM

I like cuddling but not to the point where I am suffocating your life. But then in the same way I do not want to be alone or feel like I am. Big weakness to feel alone. ._.;

p o p p e t ♥ 11-04-2009 06:09 PM

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FAGGY CHAN 11-04-2009 07:42 PM

xD
I love cuddling with my gf.
Just not when it's hot or something.
It's best when it's cold and we huddle to keep eachother warm. <3

Scarling Zombie 11-04-2009 07:48 PM

I'm sure I'll like cuddling better when I find the next guy.
I've learned not to take cuddling for granted, but I still don't find it appealing to have someone so close to me that they can see every flaw on my body.

shaddowkitty 11-04-2009 08:09 PM

Personally, I like to cuddle, especially at bed time, but that's usually the only time i actually do. Otherwise i'm too distracted with something else.

Nerd Hugger 11-04-2009 09:22 PM

I only like it when it's my boyfriend, and even then, I don't like to be cuddled CONSTANTLY. I need space.


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