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Scarling Zombie 10-26-2009 06:29 PM

I hate cuddling. I need space.
 
Who else hates cuddling?

Seriously, I don't need you breathing down my neck, and it's always uncomfortable.
One of our arms seems to fall asleep. I always cuddle with extremely hot people, so I sweat, and I don't look cute when I sweat. I have a weave, so I don't like when your gaint man-paws run through my tracks. D:<
It's a waste of time.

Vukavo 10-26-2009 06:32 PM

I like to cuddle, but only when it's comfortable outside and even then, I usually don't do it for too long cause I can never seem to stay put.

Scarling Zombie 10-26-2009 06:35 PM

I don't like people in my personal space for longer than they need to be.
I always think they are looking at my flaws.

Kohanaa 10-26-2009 06:36 PM

I think cuddling is one of those... you need to be in the mood for it things you know.

I wouldn't want them all over me when I'm trying to look good or with a bunch of other people. However i think it's awesome when it's just you and the other person watching something or just talking.

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Originally Posted by Scarling Zombie (Post 1765307362)
I don't like people in my personal space for longer than they need to be.
I always think they are looking at my flaws.

I actually really understand that

Scarling Zombie 10-26-2009 06:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Kohanaa (Post 1765307370)
I actually really understand that

Usually people don't, so I appricate that.
"Cuddling is all about love" = No.

Leenalia 10-26-2009 06:45 PM

I love cuddling....I'll just lay down on my fiance's chest and zzzzzzzzzzzz.....

MurasakiCrown 10-26-2009 06:54 PM

I'm generally shy, so, I tend to avoid contact in general. I let people cuddle me, but I do flinch initially ^^;

I don't hate it, I'm just shy about it.

killer-petal 10-26-2009 07:02 PM

I like cuddling, but I guess it's all about your personal prefences.

Sindima 10-26-2009 07:05 PM

If someone wants to cuddle you they are obviously not caring about your flaws...

Ponta 10-26-2009 07:41 PM

I sort of just think of cuddling as - mmm, I think I'm going to sleep now. See you later. Or the entire time just laughing because we're being so lazy.

What I don't like are public displays of affection! I really hate when a guy puts his arm around me while we're walking. It's uncomfortable (mind you, most guys have muscles so they usually have heavy arms) and it's hard to walk when you can't control your own body movements that well. I guess I don't like being restricted when I'm walking.

Amelia 10-26-2009 07:54 PM

I like cuddling, because I've been with my boyfriend for more than two years. He know my flaws by now, so obviously he's okay with them. Plus I'm not that insecure about myself that I have nothing better to do than sit and worry about every single one of my flaws.
I didn't used to like him constantly being all over me, but when I really fell in love with him I couldn't help but just always want him close to me.

Scarling Zombie 10-26-2009 09:17 PM

No matter how long I've been dating my boyfriend, I don't want him close enough to see all my flaws.
We've been dating three years. He's seen my occassional back acne, my stretch marks, my manicures, my roots, but I still hate having him in the positon to view all of those wrong things.
I know he doesn't care, but I do.
I love him reguardless of everything that's wrong with him, but I'm the female.
I'm supposed to be perfect for him all the time, and I'm not.

Keyori 10-26-2009 09:27 PM

I like to be cuddled, but the thing I like most is to tickle x)

Ohhh sometimes my fiance can't stand me :D

Scarling Zombie 10-26-2009 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Keyori (Post 1765308611)
I like to be cuddled, but the thing I like most is to tickle x)

Ohhh sometimes my fiance can't stand me :D

Tickling should be considered torture.

MurasakiCrown 10-26-2009 10:08 PM

I flail when I get tickled so..I'd probably hurt someone xD

Amelia 10-26-2009 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Scarling Zombie (Post 1765308511)
I'm supposed to be perfect for him all the time, and I'm not.

Well, I realized a long time ago nobody's perfect. Everyone wants something someone else has, so stuff like that doesn't plague me.

Kole_Locke 10-26-2009 10:20 PM

Cuddling is nice in the appropriate time of course. There are times when you need your space but at the same time if I had someone I would not want them to think I didn't care about them. Sometimes when I sleep I don't mind cuddling and sometimes I'm just not in the mood, nothing personal. For me I general like cuddling but there are times when enough is enough.

Scarling Zombie 10-27-2009 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Amelia (Post 1765309156)
Well, I realized a long time ago nobody's perfect. Everyone wants something someone else has, so stuff like that doesn't plague me.

Just because nobody's perfect doesn't mean we can't try.

Hyakugei 10-27-2009 01:12 AM

I love spooning and stretching across a warm body. At one time though I did feel the exact same as most of you. Shy and twitchy/got a move after a few minutes of closeness with someone. And my boyfriend told me, just let it be and sink into me.

Once all the cards have been dealt properly, you will feel better about it too. It's all up to you.

Ebony Mist 10-27-2009 01:32 AM

I cannot stand to cuddle, except at night. I have to fall asleep snuggled up to something, be it my cat, my dog, or a stuffed doll. But during the day, I hate being cuddled up to.

Scarling Zombie 10-27-2009 02:15 AM

I only cuddle if I'm scared.
"Be my big, strong man and protect me."
Then he's drooling and snoring, and I'm left there awake.
It doesn't help that my boyfriend's snoring scares me half to death because it sounds like he stops breathing, then weezes. The doctor said it was nothing, but I still worry.

Fabby 10-27-2009 02:53 AM

I actually really hated cuddling until my current boyfriend. I guess I just got used to it. x3 Now I find it to be the most comfortable way to sleep.
Cuddling with anyone else would probably give me a headache though. I really don't like to be touched by anyone except my boyfriend >_>

Lexington 10-27-2009 03:07 AM

Hmm I enjoy cuddling, but not when I'm sick. I need space just in case I cough or sneeze. e .o
Other than, I love cuddling with my boyfriend. Just him though, I find it uncomfortable cuddling with a friend for some reason.

AL3X 10-27-2009 03:15 AM

Eh I hate when you cuddle too long and start to sweat. xD

Brownies Yum 10-27-2009 03:22 AM

Never ever ever cuddle me. I will bite yew! >3 No but really cuddling isn't that good for meh. Part of it is because I'm fourteen... But, I still don't like cuddling.... D:
Unless I'm cuddling a pillow, or a blanket, or a bed.... ">.> <.<" Did I just say that out loud oopsie... ">.<
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