Im a guy and I had sex when I was 17. Unknowingly to the school whore. I wasnt into gossip and such so I did not know of her and she seemed really cool at first. I found it odd that she wanted to so quickly in our relationship (1-2 weeks in) but I wanted to make her happy (I was stupid like that). A couple months and quite a few instances of her cheating on me, I made love with my best friend (she was a bit of a whore back then but she had a soft spot for me). Yes I said make love because it was real and meaningful with her. We fell for each other like crazy and to this day I still dub her as the rightful owner of my virginity. Sometimes I wished I had waited for marriage cus once its gone its gone and youre never going to get it back. Sometimes I still think that one day we'll end up together even though we're still rocky and fight a lot now. Might be first timies though. Still looking for a girl that means more to me than her though. To this day those are still the only two Ive had(about to turn 19), call me stupid but Im more smart about it haha.

Id say it is all on personal preference. Wait if you want. Do it if you want. Just make sure that its with someone you truly without a doubt love. And then do nothing less of make love.

No, i'm only fourteen years old, maybe when i'm done with highschool and i'm in artschool, but thats not really something I care about too much.

I didn't save myself, and I wish I had, because the guy I did it with turned out to be an obsessive jerk.. I rid myself of that one, and the guy I'm with now knows I'm not a virgin and he doesn't hold it against me. He doesn't much like to think about it, though..

at least my no is catching up to that yes part,x.xand no i hvnt yet bcus i hvnt found any1 i knew for a long time or someone thats closee.e

-cough- >___>

I have to say... I'm 15, and sex isn't really my top priority at the moment. x ]
...I still have my childhood innocence, I guess.

&No, I don't really think I'd save it for marriage.
If I really liked someone, and wanted to go that far, I probably would the second I got the chance. ^^

Nope!

Originally Posted by Kinmotsu

Don't you think this sentence is a bit contradictory?

Meh maybe, but life is contradictory and I'm attempting to convey my view piont as contradictory as it is. Luckily for me this isn't a debate otherwise I'm sure I'd have everything I've ever said put into question and brought down. XD

Nope I haven't and I wont untill marriage. (: Thats how I roll.

nope either.
don't know when.
but i'll try and keep it until after marriage.

would be better for me. :P

x

I am 22 and I have had sex. I enjoy it but I am to the point in my life I do not like going out and having one-night-stands. I prefer to be in a relationship with the person I am having sex with. Has more meaning to it I think other then getting your 'nut.'

I've had sex.
Though my first consensual time was when I was 19.

Haven't done anything yet. Probably not saving it for marriage though, I'd like to know if my partner and I are sexually compatable before I get into something like that.

Well I lost it when I was 14. I know shame on me!!! I don't regret it. It's not like I was some huge slut. It was a happy and successful 2 year long relationship. We both got older though and realized that we had changed so we let each other go. I'm glad it was him and not some creeper that I hardly knew. I was one of those raging hormonal types though. That kinda died down towards the end of my senior year and I find myself thinking much more clearly =P

Never have, and I hope to atleast be eighteen when I lose the V-card. :p

But, I don't care if people had it already. xD

Originally Posted by Bartuc

I am 22 and I have had sex. I enjoy it but I am to the point in my life I do not like going out and having one-night-stands. I prefer to be in a relationship with the person I am having sex with. Has more meaning to it I think other then getting your 'nut.'

Both are great in their own way, though. :)

Originally Posted by Kinmotsu

Both are great in their own way, though. :)

Psh. Nah. I much prefer it with someone I love. Been there, done that, and when you love the person, and really give yourself unselfishly....That's the greatest sex. ^_^

Uhm...I was 19. I definitely will recommend to at the very least wait until you graduate high school, if not later. And no matter what anyone says the first time is awkward as hell...

I still respectfully disagree. My philandering days are long since over, but until I met my wife, the best sex I'd ever had was "no attachment" sex. *shrug*

I understand everybody's different, though. :)

Probably didn't help the couple nights I got into trouble it was with alcohol...My experience with drinking and sex is the two don't really mix too well. Well in my opinion.

I agree that drinking and bad judgment often go hand in hand, particularly in excess. Thankfully the only drunken sex I've had was in a steady relationship. :)

Originally Posted by Izumi

Psh. Nah. I much prefer it with someone I love. Been there, done that, and when you love the person, and really give yourself unselfishly....That's the greatest sex. ^_^

Uhm...I was 19. I definitely will recommend to at the very least wait until you graduate high school, if not later. And no matter what anyone says the first time is awkward as hell...

My first time wast really awkward...

That's where the "no attachments" thing I was talking about comes in. My first time wasn't awkward because we were doing it for the fun of it. It was my first time, it wasn't hers, and there weren't any expectations, and it was awesome. :)

Well there was an attachment. I mean it was my girlfriend and I did it to prove I cared for her and cus I thought it would make her happy. But yeah the same with my first time not hers. She was quite experienced, unbeknowest to me, but Ive never really had an expectation cept to break my record of how many orgasms she has. And the times when I was doing it with my best friend 'just for fun' it wasnt that great. I was still beating my records. But it got pretty old pretty fast. We probably just did it too much so it dried me out fast. My best sex was attachment sex. When it actually means something and has a purpose. Thats when it really counts for me.

I have and I kinda wished I had waited but its hard with hormones and everything but I told my mom and I'm on birth control. I just wish there was a anti-horny pill lol XD

I'm 17 and i havnt . . .but i am not really that bothered by it, I'm not really that interested. The people at my high school are just as weird and probably just as full of disease. lol

The marriage thing. I dont plan on getting married so yeah. . .