second on the anti-horny pill. they need to make that already so they can spread it through school systems. frikin teenagers.

I already lost it at 16, don"t regret what made me happy. honestly it"s no big deal as long as you think safe. Risk are there but it still helps

I have not and am saving it for marriage. I am engaged though so I don;t have that much longer to wait! I am 21 right now, btw.
I am not so very uptight that I think it is horrible when people don't wait or anything, I just want too. But if both parties are responsible and they are making a mature decision, there is no reason why people can't have sex!

Oo-rah!! *cheer* Well said, my friend.
I think waiting is the best decision. ^_^

I think "waiting" is all fine and dandy, but I also think that sex is an important part of a long term relationship/marriage, and two people need to know if they're sexually compatible if they're going to make a fully educated decision to marry. :)

Saving it for marriage FTW!
Lol, I'm 15 and I'm saving it. I hear people who have and they say it's worth it. A lot of people who didn't save it, wish they did, and I mean, honestly, I can wait. It'll be a challenge, and I enjoy those. Besides, I read a study that in a normal American high school every 3 out of 5 kids have an STD.

CREEPY!

I'm not surprised. In my opinion it doesn't matter if u have sex or not its just when u go ever board and do it with whoever. having sex with someone u love is better then having sex with someone that u don't (i'm not saying whoring is bad or anything just saying to all the romantic type out there). its just more passionate and meaningful then a one night stand. and if people do do it get birth control XD your parents don't even have to know why. like when I got mine my doctor told my mom that is was for emotional reasons (mood swings and what not) eventually i told my mom and she supported me on it (not the sex but the protection). She even bought me condoms XD which I thought was a little weird. I'm really glad I have a mom like her ^^ is wish more people were like that XP

yes i have had sex, i lost it to someone i really wish i hadn't but i can't take it back and i didn't catch anything nasty or have a babeh so it's not too bad, i've been able to enjoy sex ever since, so i dont regret it after all.

just wait till you find someone you love because I have heard many a horror story from my friends about how werid and terrible their first time was. when you find the one person you truly love it's just like in the movies. I can't really explain it but you just know when you find your one. I love my boyfriend we have been together for almost four year he is my first and I hope my last. I waited till after high school and always thought I would wait till I got married but after finding my boyfriend things changed and I am glad I waited as long as a did and i don't regret it for a minute.

19 years old and still a virgin. I could have had sex a few times but said no. Also I have never had a girlfriend wich really sucks. looserville population me:)

I had saved myself for 19 years for the one I thought I would be with for the rest of my life, and so yes at nineteen I did it and I was wrong about the person I was with, nine months after that she cheats and leaves.

Well, yeah.
All you guys out there saying "I'll never have sex until I marry!" or "I'm waiting until this and that time!" it doesn't just work like that, you know. I mean I'm one of those people who thinks it should wait. But people get caught off guard. A kiss from a boyfriend/girlfriend leads to a hug(or vice versa), a hug leads to a touch, blah-dee blah-dee blah, it happens. They didn't intend for it to happen but it did.
Just saying. >w<

EDIT: As for me, I've been raped. And therefore lost my virginity. It's not something I like to talk about, but for you people out there getting all prissy at me, this is what I mean by "it always doesn't work like that." If you are going to get mad at me for what I think, then you need to grow up yourself. Opinions, people, opinions. Anywho, all I'm trying to say is keep trying to keep yourselves clean until that special person comes. But you have to look out for things like this.

I agree with you there but I had several girlfriends before my ex and I never did any of them, and we hugged and stuff.

Yeah. I was 16 and quite the horndog =_=

I'm 24 and still a virgin. Don't plan on losing it anytime soon (not that I actually date..). I'm not waiting for marriage though, and not really anxious to get rid of it; just waiting to fall in love with someone and have them love me back before I do something so intimate.

Im 22 and I can say I <3 sex. but to all who are not good for you its all a personal decision

Im 22, and still a virgin. Mostly because of the career path Ive chosen for myself. Cooking takes up a load of my "free" time, thus making it hard to date. Normally, I just let people think what they want which sometimes makes me laugh because some have thought Ive had at least 15 girls in my sheets.

I'm nineteen years old, just got accepted to Nursing School, and I'm still a virgin.

@ Rain:], I don't think it's very fair for people who've been in the situation that has led to sex to tell others who want to wait that it "doesn't happen that way." The last boyfriend I was with turned out to be a douche, and I'm single now. I've wanted to wait, and he knew that. I still want to wait. While we were together, there was one night when we were making out, and things started to get a little heated. But yeah...sex didn't happen. So for all you virgins out there, like me, who get into a situation like that...all you need is a little self control and the ability to say "no."

I have a lot to say about this subject! XD

I'm 17 and most definitely a virgin! Basically, I'm an aromantic asexual, so I don't experience sexual and romantic attraction towards people. I know I'm still young to say this, but I have absolutely no intentions of ever having a relationship or having sex. I'm simply repulsed by the idea of sex. Like, I don't care if people do it, and I don't judge people who do, but just the idea of someone sticking body parts in me just it's...eugh. The most sexual thing I've ever done was give someone a peck on the lips while going out with them, and now I look back on that and I'm disgusted with myself. The idea of doing anything romantic or sexual with people just makes me go "ick! Not for me!"

And for the record, I've never been in love, or have had a crush. My only "Crush" was fake and made up so I could look cool with all my other 3rd grade friends who were going through their first crushes! :P

I was 19 1/2 when I lost it. It was with my boyfriend of five years this January. We did it because we felt we were ready and we're taking precautions not to have kids. We love eachother dearly. We're going to be married next October. But no kids XD

No, I haven't. I don't think people should necessarily restrict themselves to waiting for marriage because they think that's the only right way to do it, but if you strive for that and you end up caring a lot for someone before marriage, I don't think that's a big deal. Sometimes, if you tell yourself you'll wait until marriage, it keeps you out of those situations where it might happen when it really shouldn't.

To me, I just don't want to date anyone in my high school. The majority of girls are a little too loose, and I just feel like it doesn't mean anything to them. I'm not saying it should all the time or anything, I just mean when people are sort of just... not dating, just meet up to do whatever they want, I think that's gross when you're in high school. Gross in general, but as an adult sometimes you might not want the serious relationship. As a teen, you should be trying to lean toward that so that you don't develop a habit of short-term relationships and jumping from one __friend (blank so it can be for either gender) to the next.

I just... get tired of people at my school talking about it the way they do. I mean, it sounds like they all just do it because they got drunk or whatever else, and I don't think that's a good reason. I think it's really, really stupid when you're sixteen and you talk about how you were in a room full of people and didn't even remember what happened. Um, that sounds dangerous to me.

So... I'm waiting for a longggg time. Not until marriage necessarily, because I'm going to need to be talked into even the thought of marriage, but I don't intend to anytime soon. My personal preference would also be another virgin because that just sounds less embarrassing to me, and a bit safer. You won't look like as big of a moron if the other person is a bit clueless!

Yeah I hate the excuse "It just happens". Thats a ridiculous justification for not having any self control. I have been in Many situations where it couldve happened but it didnt. You have to realize how to be Smart once in a while.

I must be really weird for thinking that one's virginity is no big deal. But to me, it isn't. I've only had sex with my boyfriend, and we started doing it last year when I was 20. But I don't really care about it. I don't know why.
When my first boyfriend broke up with me earlier that year, my friend said "well, at least you didn't lose your virginity to that jerk!" and I said I wouldn't have cared if I had, because he was already my first kiss, and my first kiss was a way bigger deal to me than my first time having sex.
I never thought about waiting until i get married, because I don't ever want to get married, and just because you're married doesn't always mean that's the right person.

Yes, yes I have. I quite enjoy sex, actually. Me and my boy haven't been together long, but we're each others firsts for everything, and I trust him completely. I spent 18-ish years a virgin, but I don't regret the loss at all.

It is kind of entertaining when there's a cross above my boy's bed ;P

...Jesus is always watching guys.

Originally Posted by DAyangBRICK

Yeah I hate the excuse "It just happens". Thats a ridiculous justification for not having any self control. I have been in Many situations where it couldve happened but it didnt. You have to realize how to be Smart once in a while.

I don't mind that excuse if people say it was because they had no self control or because they wanted it, but when they don't, I just sort of shake my head and think, hm, somehow I've managed to avoid it, as well as many other people in the world. It's a joint decision. It's not like... getting your period. /That/ "just happens". Sex is something both people (usually) decide together, and if you get caught up in the moment, then say THAT.

Originally Posted by Liath

I must be really weird for thinking that one's virginity is no big deal. But to me, it isn't. I've only had sex with my boyfriend, and we started doing it last year when I was 20. But I don't really care about it. I don't know why.
When my first boyfriend broke up with me earlier that year, my friend said "well, at least you didn't lose your virginity to that jerk!" and I said I wouldn't have cared if I had, because he was already my first kiss, and my first kiss was a way bigger deal to me than my first time having sex.
I never thought about waiting until i get married, because I don't ever want to get married, and just because you're married doesn't always mean that's the right person.

Virginity to a lot of people isn't a huge deal, but I think the person you choose to be with (not necessarily just your first time either) /is/. And I agree that just because you're married doesn't mean it's the right person. Look at all the people in abusive relationships o.O Plus, people change, and sometimes you marry for the wrong reasons... I think marriage is just a goal for people to encourage them to not sleep with just /anyone/, but then if they decided they wanted to wait until marriage and make the decision to not do that because they really care about someone, I don't think that's a huge deal.