Not trying to be nasty, honest, I just think it would be interesting to see who's had sex yet and who hasn't, or who's waiting!

I haven't had sex yet, and I'm unsure if I'm going to save it for marriage or not.

I'm in my early 20's and proud to say I'm a virgin :D

I'm saving sex (any and every form of sex) for marriage or at the very least after I have been with the guy for about three years because at that point you would be very close to them. But that choice will come when I enter a relationship for that long. So for now I'll say, I'm saving it for marriage.

Well, I'm married with a kid, so I'd bloody well hope so! :lol:

But yeah, I didn't wait until marriage. I was 17, and even though I've not spoken to that guy in years, I don't regret a thing.

I'm married, so, yeah. I've had sex... didn't save it, though. Wasn't allowed that opportunity.

I haven't. I can't even imagine doing it with any guy I know. *shudders* Besides, my school is probably crawling with all types of diseases. I know this one guy who's raped two girls, people who keep naked photos on their phones, always talk about drugs, getting laid, wild parties, strip clubs... just no.

I haven't yet. Haven't even been in a real relationship yet and I'm almost 20. I don't mind though.

Originally Posted by Agent HEY-LEE

I haven't. I can't even imagine doing it with any guy I know. *shudders* Besides, my school is probably crawling with all types of diseases. I know this one guy who's raped two girls, people who keep naked photos on their phones, always talk about drugs, getting laid, wild parties, strip clubs... just no.

high school? Ya, I found pretty much all the guys in my high school to be rather questionable. Only a few did I not think so. Even my boy friend in high school turned out to be a huge prat :evil:

Still boyfriend-less!! D:
So still a virgin.

It's not like I'm waiting for THE PERFECT NIGHT~~~ WITH THE PERFECT MAN~~~
But I at least wanna know the guy, trust him, and make sure he ain't got any diseases. 8D
No drunken slutty sex for me >u>

Not saying anyone's crossed that line. None of you have. Thank you. :)

But just a reminder to all who post that Mene is a PG-13 site. So keep it clean. ;D

well, im 13, so...no, and i dont plan on it any time soon. (and yes i do know that some 13 year olds are, er, active.)

as for saving it for marriage, no. if i really love whoever it is, and we both wanted it, why wait? ive always thought that was a stupid rule, i'll be honest.

haven't found that special somone so no I haven't and sex is really for having kids and I'm not ready for that.

Well.. I'm 14 and just started high school..and there are all types of creeps here. And honestly they scare me, just by the way they look at me. Its like all they are thinking about is sex...kinda creepy if you ask me :P
And as for the marriage part, I dunno if I'm going to have sex then or when ever. So I guess...for now I'm just waiting for the perfect guy. But NO flippin' way am I having sex now or even when I'm 16...maybe when I'm like..20..24?? : - D
I can wait that long xD I'm just not the raging hormonal type :P

P.S. and sorry if any one IS..didn't mean to offend you, its just my opinion(=

I must agree that my school has a bunch of creepers that would gladly use a girl for that sort of thing, so that's why I'm going to save like, actual dating for collage.

Originally Posted by Erailea

I'm in my early 20's and proud to say I'm a virgin :D

I'm saving sex (any and every form of sex) for marriage or at the very least after I have been with the guy for about three years because at that point you would be very close to them. But that choice will come when I enter a relationship for that long. So for now I'll say, I'm saving it for marriage.

Go Erailea! I'm with you in your opinion. My body is worth it and so is my pride. I wear a promise ring every day as a reminder that I made the commitment to stay abstinent until marriage and people push me about it every now and then but I'm still holding true. It's difficult sometimes. I also agree that it might be okay after you've been in a relationship for a very long time. The person should be willing to stay with you at that point.

Hm, no. I'm rather iffy on remaining abstinent. I think you should go out there and with precaution test the waters

Yes. I had sex at a pretty early age. I'm now married to the man I lost my virginity to, and I haven't been with anyone else. <3

My belief is that you should do it when you're ready, not because someone is pressuring you to lose your virginity now, or someone is pressuring you to keep it until you're married.

Originally Posted by Thunder

Yes. I had sex at a pretty early age. I'm now married to the man I lost my virginity to, and I haven't been with anyone else. <3

My belief is that you should do it when you're ready, not because someone is pressuring you to lose your virginity now, or someone is pressuring you to keep it until you're married.

That's a nice way to look at it.

I lost my virginity when I was 15 (would have been 16 in a month), and I'm 17 now. We were both virgins.
I know that to a lot of people that probably seems like an early age, but I don't think it really is, as long as you're mature about it and are ready to make that commitment. I made sure that we were being safe (birth control AND condoms), and I made sure that I was ready and positive on making that decision, and positive that I could KEEP being responsible and safe farther down the road.

Luckily, my guy isn't like most high school guys, and he didn't/doesn't pressure me to do anything, and he cares about me, etc. Yes, I'm still with the guy I lost my virginity to, and we're still both perfectly happy. (: Even if we don't stay happy, or we break up, I will never regret losing it to him. I think he's the perfect guy.

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No sex for me yet.
Although, I'm not going to save it until marriage.
I think I'll be ready before then.

I have had one partner in my 26 years on this earth. I was with a girl for a good two years and thought she was the one I would spend the rest of my life with. I held out for a moment like that and I felt it was totally worth it. I can't say it was any more or less worth not holding out (as I have not had another partner besides her) but I was happy with being able to share that with someone I truly loved. I am not with this person anymore but still hold the idea close that if I'm going to have sex with someone, it will be with someone that I hold a sincere and deep affection for, not just someone I wind up having the opportunity to do so with.

I was with my boyfriend for 6 months before we did anything i was 19 turning 20 and i'm still with him 10 months later.
I think it just has to be someone your comfortable with, you trust, who doesnt pressure you too soon and you dont think you'll ever have regrets if it doesnt work out in the future.

I lost my virginity to a man I didn't love, to a man I had no intention on being with for a long time.
I don't know why I did it; it happened.
I regret everything about that now. It gave me great intimacy issues, and I know I will never be able to live it down.

Save it for someone special.
I know everyone says that, but you really don't believe it until it happens.
I mean, I was never attached to the idea of saving it for someone special, but it should be.

I have, but it was with a guy I've known since I was in 7th grade (We are dating now) and he basicly said he wants to keep me in his life for good. (The only reason I agreed)

I haven't yet, but I'd wait until marriage to get that far o.O