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Zackarai 12-15-2009 06:38 AM

I want to have at least one kid... But no more than 3. And I want them to be kinda spaced apart, like maybe 3-5 years apart. I'm about to be 22 next week. I would like to have a kid by at least 25. I don't want to be too old... My mom got married when she was 17 (and she is still happily married to my dad) and a lot of people my age are having children so I guess I feel like I should have a child soon.

vigne 12-16-2009 01:55 AM

i'm undecided. i don't want to bring people into this world to be frank.

graphene 12-16-2009 03:50 AM

I don't know if I'll want kids or not. Maybe some day, eventually... If whoever I'm with at the time also do, then maybe. If I do it'll only be one, possibly two, depends.

xTeddyBear_Massacre 12-16-2009 04:33 AM

I know I want (at the start) four from my own womb.
Two boys and two girls is what I aim for. ^^

And once they're all grown up I want to start adopting and/or fostering children.

But all of this is planned to happen after I get out of college and get married.

I love the idea of being a mother, honestly. That's the number one thing that I want to do in my life, along with a couple of other things.

I hope this to happen somewhere in between the ages of 26 and 30. ^^

xX-_Rouge-Man_-Xx 12-16-2009 11:03 PM

well yes i wan afew one name walker texas ranger,handbannana,murderface,and micheal myers cause hes awesome and at first i wanted to adopt but then i thought wat if i get a fuckin ceral murder hes gonna kill ceral but for real that wold suck so yes i want kids

naruto_fan 12-18-2009 05:08 AM

i dont want any but i read the bible and god said be fruitful and multiply so i have to have them -__- oh well but i like kids anyway :) im one^^
i want two boys^^

Kenora 12-18-2009 05:12 AM

Well, i would like Five, one of each. *Hermaphrodite, primary gender female, male, and completely neutral both organs... XD*

Okay, but really, if i could get a girl who would have kids with me, well i want two girls. WhY? cuz im a guy, i know how we work. I dont want to deal with a mini me. EVAH.

Cuppcakesunite 12-18-2009 04:34 PM

Im only 15.
But I love kids I want to be around them as much as possible.
When I was about 14 in a half I set a goal for myself.
That by time I was 16 I was going to have a baby or get prego.
But now that I am getting closer to 16 its really a scarey though.
I dont know if ya'll have seen this show
but its on MTV called Teen Mom
And it really showed me that being a teen mom is no walk in the park.
But In the end I have desided not to have any at this age.
But None the less I still want kids some day
I hope to be marries first and have at least one by time im 23

vampyredolly 12-18-2009 04:39 PM

I want a kid.
Preferably around mid 20s.
I want some sort of stable career.

I've been thinking about adopting a kid, not a baby.

Skullushka 12-19-2009 04:03 AM

We're thinking of adopting a kid in the future, preferably when we're teachers at the same college. I've discussed it with my significant other a lot... It'd be a few years after we settled into our teaching careers.

KaciCake 12-19-2009 04:13 AM

As much as I love children, I just can't see myself being a parent. I get overwhelmed way too easily. Plus I'm an aromantic asexual, so having a biological kid of my own is out of the question. And then I'd be scared to pass down my psychiatric illnesses to my child if I had one biologically. Of course I'd be there to help them through it, but no child should have to go through the feelings I went through growing up.

But to fulfill my love for children, I want to be a special ed teacher, and help those children through their difficulties.

If I do ever decide to have a kid, I'm adopting. <3

Alegretto 12-19-2009 06:50 AM

I would like to have children someday. But I'll be DAMNED if I let a little parasite grow inside me for the better part of a year. Adoption is the way I'll go, for sure. There's enough people already without me polluting the gene pool with my filth.

Desunt Cetera 12-20-2009 12:18 AM

-Waves frantically-
I do!
I can't wait to be able to be a mommy.
:'3
I would prefer to have two boys, Christopher Alexander and Dustin Andrew.
I wouldn't mind a girl, though.
I'd name here Lillian Elizabeth.
I love long names.
^^

Indigo of Madness 12-21-2009 04:38 AM

Well, most certainly, I don't want kids right now at the moment, but eventually, I do. And to be quite honest, I want A LOT of kids, like around 6... I feel embarrassed to say that, but whatever. o//0 I want to have my own Weasley family in a way, but not really.

His_One_True_Love6107 12-21-2009 06:19 AM

Being only nineteen, I don't want to have kids at the moment, but I do want three. I want at least a little boy and little girl and then which ever I'm blessed with for my third. Actually since I was about fourteen, I've had two names already picked out. Aurora-Lynne (no middle name) and William James.

My boyfriend and I have been talking a lot about the future, but who knows what it has in store for us. =/

Sidhe 12-21-2009 06:35 AM

I don't want to have any children, they're vile creatures, them childs.

If I did want to have one, though, I would probably adopt one, I guess the whole idea of having a blob that I have to feed and clean is not very fun, I'm talking about the baby stage, anyway. I could always adopt one that's already a kid, and then I wouldn't have to worry about it as much.

Leerah 12-21-2009 06:46 AM

I wouldn't want to give birth to a child at all, and technically speaking they're parasites that live in you for 9 months feeding off you.
It's possible that I've just read too many things that I shouldn't be reading. But I don't want them.
And I just personally thin we have enough people on this world that we can't take care of why would I want to 'pop one out' and add more.

I wouldn't mind adopting. I'd MUCH rather adopt a kid then have a kid. And I'd adopt I guess when they're around 4 or older.

topostarlight 12-21-2009 02:16 PM

I'd love to be a mother, but I don't know if it'll ever happen. Dating isn't really something I do a lot of (or care for), and never been in a serious relationship. But if I ever could afford to be a single mom, then I'd like to adopt.

Otherwise, I am going into the childcare field, so at least I get to be around children for now.

Crispet 12-21-2009 03:46 PM

I have a 3 year old. And I would like at least one more. :)

Avolition 12-21-2009 06:24 PM

I don't really think I'd be the sort of person who was fit or suitable to be a mother. I know that right now I`m a horrible role model to my siblings, and I can't even begin to imagine what I'd be like to my children when I`m older. Also, taking into consideration the lineage of my parents and how well they were brought up by their parents, and their grandparents, etc - I think it's a curse of some sort that the oldest would have the most problems with raising and having a family. There have been many divorces and child separations, and I would not want that.

If I were to have children, I think, I'd only want to adopt, and only when I was perhaps in my very late twenties or mid thirties, though definitely not after I`m in my mid forties.

I don't think I'd mind so much the age of my child if I were to adopt them - if it were in my middle twenties, I'd like a child around four or five perhaps, maybe three. In my thirties, either an infant or tot of 1/2 years of age, and perhaps a pre-teen or teen if I were in my later forties. I`m not sure.

I would like no more than four children, though I'd really just want two. I`m growing up being a second mother of sorts to my five younger siblings, as my mother is very lax and . . well. There's a lot of issues with how she raises and treats her kids, and I will leave that at -that-.

I know that I'd like to have a boy and girl if I were able, but I would love them either way, no matter what their gender would be.

I`ve thought about this a lot, really, and I do doubt very seriously that I`ll end up with any children at all, through adoption or otherwise. I`m probably going to end up some sort of cat lady.

~LONGCAT~ 12-21-2009 07:53 PM

Not right now, I'm waiting until I have a stable life, a home I know I'm going to live in for a while, a job that allows me to support a family, and stability. My boyfriend has been talking about moving in together and possible hints of an engagement, but that's years away as I told him not until after grad school for the marriage thing. But I would like them eventually, two maybe three.

Uchiha13 12-22-2009 04:30 PM

I want to have two kids around my 20s

SenselessChaos 12-22-2009 05:42 PM

mi cole.... you... want...to...have....children!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!??!?!? !!?!?!?!??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????


*dies*


never in a million years would i think YOU want children. you hate kids!!!!! see this is what happens when your in a relationship for a year! you want to have little minature people... wtf...

ok now that my rant is over i'll answer the questions... lol

i dont want to have children. i love kids, my nieces mostly lol, but i like to be able to "give them back" lol. i like being an aunt or a god parent (if mi cole ever has children lol... i would be there god parent right mi cole!??!?!?!)

i guess if i HAD to have kids i'd want one of each. a boy and a girl. I would name them Kaden and Eden.

Gossy 12-22-2009 05:50 PM

I'm not sure if I posted here already or not, but I have one daughter. She is 2.5 years old now. C: She's really enjoying the holidays this year.

PockyXPainties 12-23-2009 03:32 AM

Well , Originally i wanted nine. But then my Mann, said he would like to have at least two.
But then he passed away , I don't quite know yet then, you never know what the guture will bring.


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