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I like cargo jeans and a dark loose shirt makes it easier for me to feel his chest ^-^
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Dark hair (black or dark brown) and green or blue eyes. And if he wears glasses, even hotter! :lol:
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I am beginning to love wearing glasses, it seems it is a turn on for most people in here, who cares if they mean guys, it rocks :lol:
I agree totally on the sweet smelling guys, if a guy smells good that is awesome! I must say I am back to the old trilby hat, if a guy wears them he is on to a winner :drool: |
Well I have a thing for kind of nerdy/techy guys, so I kind of like guys that wear glasses. Not that all guys that wear glasses are nerdy, but it's that sort of look I guess that a lot of people mentally associate with it. Also, I really like it when a guy smells good, and when they wear cologne or body spray of some sort. Most male colognes have pheromones in them, so that is probably why I like those sorts of things. I generally like guys with dark hair and skin(but not chocolate people, sorry. ^_^; ), but that is neither here nor there because the guy I like now has darkish blonde hair and green eyes. XD |
I already posted once, but recently, I've realized confidence with slight insecurities are a turn on. Like, there's this super cute cop that comes in my workplace, and he seems really confident, but he's also a tiny bit insecure about his weight. I think it's adorable. It kind of makes him seem more... real, I suppose.
Also, a guy who isn't afraid to mean-joke with me. You know, joke in kind of a mean way. I like that. It makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. |
Tsk. Curly or messy hair and when someone asks me to fold their sleeves. Deadly, those two are regardless of gender. I love loose and over sized clothes on guys and chubby girls, especially shirts or hoodies.
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Guys who smell good are AWESOME but I find I HATE 90% of mens cologne D= so its also a turn off most of the time.
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There is quite a lot of mens cologne that I dislike. I really like Joop (original) and Cool Water. Though for like body sparys and that nothing beats Lynx Dark Temptation :drool:
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I have a thing for badass girls, so leather, tattoos, and/or short, messy hair are all huge turn-ons for me. <3
I'm not attracted to super-girly girls at all. |
Well I don't know if this is related, but in books...hugs from behind...kiss while being pushed up against the wall...etc.
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Tun-ons and Turn-offs...
What are some turn-ons that turn you on? And what are turn-offs that turn you off?
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Red hair, preferably in a spikier, lightly gelled updo if that makes sense.
Also, i've got this huge thing for polos and baggy cargos/capris. I never really thought about it until one of my friends pointed out that all of the guys i've liked over the years wear that almost everyday. Also, cologne or deodorant. In Math class last year, my guy friend (That I have quite a crush on now, but didn't then] had just came from gym class and didn't have time to change so hehad his deodorant sitting at the top of his desk. I was sitting infront of him. After I turned back to the front from talking to him I would be like :drool: I'm thinking it was axe or one of those brands. |
I'll copy what I said in another thread. XD
" Red hair, preferably in a spikier, lightly gelled updo if that makes sense. Also, i've got this huge thing for polos and baggy cargos/capris. I never really thought about it until one of my friends pointed out that all of the guys i've liked over the years wear that almost everyday. Also, cologne or deodorant. In Math class last year, my guy friend (That I have quite a crush on now, but didn't then] had just came from gym class and didn't have time to change so hehad his deodorant sitting at the top of his desk. I was sitting infront of him. After I turned back to the front from talking to him I would be like :drool: I'm thinking it was axe or one of those brands." As for turn-offs, messy eyebrows. I don't know, I don't exactly mean groomed but bushy is just ick for me. Not having your own style or a sense of it bugs me too. Your layered shirt is gorgeous, but adding those jeans that don't fit you at all ruin it. I feel cruel now because thinking about both of those I was thinking of like two specific guys in my school. Sorry for the double post, I guess the turnon/turn off threads were joined or something? |
So....biggest turn off?
So my friend and I were having dinner at our local Applebee's and we got on to the subject of turn offs. We figured out one common turn off is when the underneath of guys' fingernails are black with dirt, we get immediately turned off for it seems to say they don't keep themselves clean.
The little amount that gets under everyone's nails is fine for us, because we understand boys are a little more....dirty? xD Anyways! So that's why this thread was created! So please list any turn offs you have and your reason or....explanation as to why it makes sense. |
Not taking care of yourself and not having your own sense of style. As far as not taking care of yourself, it just grosses me out, I can't justify it. For having your own sense of style, I don't want a follower, y'know? I want someone who's distinct, interesting.
Now that you point on nails, though, I hate it when cuticles aren't well-groomed. Again, I can't justify it, it's just. . . ew. |
Cockiness. It's never been one of my things with guys. I don't like guys that think they are big shots and can get any girl in the world; normally they think they are better than anyone else and I don't like that mentality. No grooming habits. Like you said with the whole dirty fingernail scenario, I would instantly be turned off by that and be on edge about even looking at the guy again. If he can't keep his fingernails clean, I don't want to know what else he doesn't keep clean. Jerks. I've never liked the jerks. I like the sweethearts. I just this one justifies itself. Too personal, too soon. This is a BIG ONE with me. I don't like to move too fast and ruin the good moments you could have in a few years in just a couple of weeks. I absolutely LOATHE how people throw around the words "I love you" like it's nothing. To me, saying those three words have great meaning in them and shouldn't be said until you know for certain and you really are in love that other person. They are the most three powerful words put together and taking it lightly makes you lose a lot of that specialness. |
Hmmm...interesting. Lol. And I didn't even know that there was a thread quite like this one. I just saw that there was one for turn-ons and one for turn-offs. Lol.
Turn-on's: Blue or brown eyes, of course deodorant and cologne cause my bf...when he hugs me...I'm all like :drool: too. Lol. 24/7 huggable mood...can cook, brown or blonde hair (god, my type is Aryan wtf!?....that's what I get for being German...-_-) and a really good sense of style...ummmmm. Oh, oh, oh! Converses! <3 Turn-offs: Really bad body odor, extra body fat, bad teeth, greasy hair, mad attitude, never wants to be hugged, always looses chances of doing something...ummm oh! And ripped jeans like holes in the knees. |
Oh my gosh!! I completely agree Zombie. Not long ago I had this guy near obsessed with me and withing THREE days of talking to each other ((Not consecutive days to mention)) He tried to tell me he loved me. I could've smacked him. That's a huge thing to say and after 3 days, he obviously didn't love me.
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Tooo many people have bad breath. D: I can't stand girls with bad breath. It's very sad because I have chronic bad breath because of my stomach or something (I don't know, my whole family has it a little). =P
Also, I really don't like people that have poor images of themselves. Like, I'd say I don't like people that aren't confident, but that's not quite true. I know people that aren't confident but don't let it like change who they are. I don't like it when people are unconfident and that makes them try to please everyone. I can't stand that in anyone, not just girls. |
Lack of personal grooming, fo' sho'!
Guys: SHAVE YOUR FACE. I love facial hair, but not full beards, and definitely not beards that haven't been groomed (washed, combed, trimmed). My fiance has a goatee, but if he gets too much on his cheeks, I make him shave before I'll let him into my pants. |
Smelling bad. Whether it be bad breath, sweat, whatever. I'm slightly obsessed with smelling nice, so I don't want to be with a guy who I have to hold my breath around...
Know-it-alls. It drives me insane. Being pushy. I like to take things slow. I like to get to know a guy first before dating. I don't like it when the guy constantly asks me out and barely knows my name. Hmm... That's about all I can think of at the moment. |
Strong BO, I mean a little BO I understand we cant all smell like roses all the time but if its really bad, no way will I want to be around you. Cockiness and jerks, I dont mind if guys are joking around and being cocky but guys who really think they are all that and are jerks about it are the ones I want to punch.
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Fingernails don't really matter to me, but smelling bad is a huge problem. I really hate bad smells. If I hug you and you smell, you better pray your one of my best friends, or have a really good reason for smelling bad (like just worked out or something). Otherwise, you probably won't even be my friend.
Another thing I hate is when they are too nice. Yeah, being a complete jerk isn't very attractive, but if you're a complete push-over, that's not gonna fly. You got to have confidence. On a similar note, like zombie's said, I hate it when they start throwing around "I love you" after three days. Too much facial hair also bothers me. I absolutely adore goatees, soul patches, or a little scruff of not shaving for a couple days. But beards are just not attractive to me. Being self-centered. I try my hardest when I'm talking to a guy to talk about him so he doesn't think I'm self-centered. Can't he at least return the favor? I don't really know what else is unattractive to me, but these are the ones I could think of off the top of my head. |
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