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Vix Viral 06-18-2010 02:42 AM

You guys have already listed some of mine: Too much facial hair, throwing I love you around like it's on sale, and push overs.

I can't stand stupidity. If a guy can't hold conversation with me and bores me he has absolutely no shot ever and will most likely be filed away in my mind as a moron for all of eternity no matter what they go on to do with the rest of their lives.
Short guys are a no-no too. I don't want to feel like I have to protect him if shit goes down, that's his job.
I also dislike guys who show interest in me because I don't like relationships. I don't do commitment so unless he wants to make me run screaming into the night, he'll keep his feelings to himself.

Sweet Faux Pas 06-18-2010 03:20 AM

Snot Rockets. ugh. Can you get any more disgusting.? I hate when guys do that. . .is it "cool" to them.? it makes my skin crawl and makes me wanna throw up.

Freyja526 06-18-2010 03:42 AM

I know this is gonna be strange but I love guys in kilts. Not all guys look good in kilts but if you put a good looking guy in a kilt he is automatically hot! Oh and widows peaks, green eyes, beards and messed up thick hair.

Hermes 06-18-2010 04:05 AM

Everyone complaining about the love thing makes me happy. I'm really glad that people seem to agree with me. Or I guess, that I agree with people because you all said it first.

What's a snot rocket Faux Pas?

Sforzando 06-18-2010 04:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Sweet Faux Pas (Post 1767628357)
Snot Rockets. ugh. Can you get any more disgusting.? I hate when guys do that. . .is it "cool" to them.? it makes my skin crawl and makes me wanna throw up.

I don't know what a snot rocket is, but it made me think of something my brother does that I find completely disgusting. He's almost 22 and he still picks his nose and wipes the boogers on things like the wall or the couch. My little sister has picked up this habit, too. I want to punch my brother every time he does it.

Sweet Faux Pas 06-18-2010 04:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Hermes (Post 1767628828)
Everyone complaining about the love thing makes me happy. I'm really glad that people seem to agree with me. Or I guess, that I agree with people because you all said it first.

What's a snot rocket Faux Pas?

When you hold one nostril and blow snot out the other. Dx

monstahh` 06-18-2010 04:28 AM

Dirty fingernails are a serious turn off for me. Especially if they are hoping on getting some.
Those fingers are not going anywhere near me, k thanks.

Also, if someone has a LOT of acne or really greasy hair.
Excessive hair too, but by excessive, I mean fur coat. I like a man with a bit of fuzz.

Also if a guy makes fun of me or laughs at me for something, such as...the mole on my cheek. :x
As for facial hair, I have no problem with them, but full bushy beards will make me much less likely to kiss a guy for extended periods of time. Especially if they look ungroomed. but generally, I like a goatee, or soul patch. They're cute. :U <3

But that's more physical stuff, like, with sex, physical attraction and whatnot.

Personality wise, lying or generally being a shady character will make me un-warm to someone (I'm generally very a warm person). Also, complete lack of manners. I mean missing a thank you here or there is okay, but, flat out blatant lack of manners really pisses me off.

Zombierella 06-18-2010 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by PorcelainBlue (Post 1767625037)
Oh my gosh!! I completely agree Zombie. Not long ago I had this guy near obsessed with me and withing THREE days of talking to each other ((Not consecutive days to mention)) He tried to tell me he loved me. I could've smacked him. That's a huge thing to say and after 3 days, he obviously didn't love me.

He's trying to move that too fast, too soon (if even wanted at all.) It's obvious that if you did like him and wanted to date him you would never know when to believe him when he tells you he loves you since he obviously throws it around like it's not a big deal.


Chickie Nuggs 06-18-2010 07:22 AM

Turn Offs
 
I was just looking at the "Turn Ons" thread and decided to make a thread about the opposite end of the stick.

When it comes to guys, gals, or both, what turns you away from them?


I'll start off with skinny jeans on guys. I think skinny jeans look horrible on anyone, but they look worse on guys especially when they're scrawny. ;(

Aetera 06-18-2010 08:23 AM

The sorority-type girl. Ick. D:

Oh, and clingy girls. That is the ultimate deal-breaker for me. I can't stand clingy girls. I want to date someone who's laid back. Someone freaking out over facebook that they haven't heard from me for a whole day just isn't my type.

HenryLancaster 06-18-2010 08:49 AM

I could make a list of well thought out Turn-ons and turn-offs... or I could define my turn-ons in one word...Gretchen =]

Dr Franken Stein 06-18-2010 09:21 AM

Turn-on's:
Blue eyes- Baby blues or the icy "gray blue" make me weak in the knees.
A little on the long side- Not buzzed hair, but not shoulder length...
Beer is ok...- Not a HUGE drinker. I hate people who live just to get sloshed...

Turn-offs:
Undies on the floor- If you don't learn to pick them up, I won't ether. <3
Did you bathe in it?- FYI, If one spits of Calone works, half the bottle/can DOES NOT make it work even better.

Dr Franken Stein 06-18-2010 09:29 AM

When Guys just POUR the "Smell good" stuff on themselves thinking more is better. It's not.
I already HATE most anything that says it will make guys smell better, they are all WAY to powerful of a sent to start out with.
Seariusly, all you need is a shower, some bar soap and deodorant.

thelettervee 06-18-2010 09:30 AM

hmm
for boys a big turn off is probably too much body hair. it's just gross to me

for girls it would have to be valley girls... they just kinda annoy me.

Zombierella 06-18-2010 10:01 AM

My biggest turn off is a plain-out liar.


Fortis Silas 06-18-2010 10:48 AM

My biggest turn-off is probably emotional unavailability. I don't ask a lot from the people I date. I'm used to being the one with money, resources and smarts. I'm used to being the problem solver and, hell, I've pretty much bowed over and did whatever some of my significant others wanted. The only thing I ask is that they're there, they share themselves emotionally and they accept that I want to do the same with them. If someone can't do that, they don't get me. Simple as that.

Beezerific 06-18-2010 01:49 PM

A man who acts effeminate when he is straight. That is a complete deal breaker, along with too much body hair and nasty body odors.
And skinny jeans, bad breath, rude, arrogant, ignorant, no confidence, no self appreciation and fat.

Sizzla 06-18-2010 02:22 PM

Okay, there are like, four threads all about turn-ons and turn-offs. I'll be merging all of the threads into one. :yes:

Sizzla 06-18-2010 02:23 PM

So, with all the turn-ons and turn-offs threads, I'm merging them all into one here.

Hermes 06-18-2010 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet Faux Pas (Post 1767628959)
When you hold one nostril and blow snot out the other. Dx

That is vile.
It reminds me of a bad habit I have though. I have a problem with hawking mucus from the back of my throat. It's really sad though because I can't figure out another way to get it out of my breathing track, but it's the most disgusting noise. >< When I'm around people I want to impress I just don't do it and my mouth tastes like shit.

Chickie Nuggs 06-19-2010 12:19 AM

Aww, I didn't realize that there were so many of both threads. I guess merging them works too. :P

scholar 06-19-2010 01:52 AM

V-neck shirts on guys -- :drool:

on girls -- obvious shoulder blades, napes of the necks. :drool:

@Vexa: I haven't seen a guy with his pants too low in a LONG time. It's gone out of fashion here in LA. Thankfully!

Michy Lea 06-19-2010 01:53 AM

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Originally Posted by monstahh` (Post 1767629069)
Personality wise, lying or generally being a shady character will make me un-warm to someone (I'm generally very a warm person). Also, complete lack of manners. I mean missing a thank you here or there is okay, but, flat out blatant lack of manners really pisses me off.

Ooh. That's a good point. I can't stand when someone completely lacks manners. Being a cashier, I see a lot of both sides. I think it's super cute when a guy calls me "ma'am", even if/though I definitely look younger than him. To me, it's a sign of respect. If you can't respect me, I don't want to get to know/date you.

Cardinal Biggles 06-19-2010 02:42 AM

Turn ons: Kilts. And accents.

Turn off: spitting. I mean, is that really necessary?

Hermes 06-19-2010 04:08 AM

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Originally Posted by Cardinal Biggles (Post 1767634647)
Turn ons: Kilts. And accents.

I've always thought that other men with accents were the coolest dudes, but for some reason I don't like girls with accents that are strong. Mild accents mean nothing, but still, I just don't dig 'em for some reason.


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