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Vexatious~Venom 06-11-2010 05:58 PM

I suppose the hardest thing that I had to do would be drop all the ifs ands and buts and stop wondering what could happen if I told the guy that I liked that I liked him. Needless to say it was a total suckerama when I got a reply that I didn't like but it is just one of those things. Character building :lol:

I am normally very adaptable though so I haven't really had a lot of hard choices or decisions.

U-sti 06-11-2010 06:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Vexatious~Venom (Post 1767583940)
I suppose the hardest thing that I had to do would be drop all the ifs ands and buts and stop wondering what could happen if I told the guy that I liked that I liked him. Needless to say it was a total suckerama when I got a reply that I didn't like but it is just one of those things. Character building :lol:

I am normally very adaptable though so I haven't really had a lot of hard choices or decisions.

wow your the first person I know who can handle a reply "they didnt really want" well. I want to say CONGRATS on thinking positively.

Vexatious~Venom 06-11-2010 06:11 PM

Thanks. I suppose since he was one of my best friends it made a difference. It was a total sucker the first two days or so, but I got over it pretty quickly. It took a lot to actually ask though since I don't really have the self-confidence I appear to have.

U-sti 06-11-2010 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Vexatious~Venom (Post 1767583995)
Thanks. I suppose since he was one of my best friends it made a difference. It was a total sucker the first two days or so, but I got over it pretty quickly. It took a lot to actually ask though since I don't really have the self-confidence I appear to have.

well everyone is a little afraid at first and you start contemplating how to go about in approaching someone like that. Of course the first two days are going to be a bummer but you guys will pick up were you left off like nothing happened. Maybe he'll think about it and who know may come to terms and start to develop feelings for you as well. I mean I dont want to give you false hope just be aware that it might happen later on.

Vexatious~Venom 06-11-2010 06:31 PM

Nah, I really doubt that is going to happen. I was speaking to him the other day when it accidentally cropped up in conversation (me and my big mouth :sarcasm:) and he said that he liked me more as a friend blah blah blah.

I asked him like seven weeks ago now anyway so the awkwardness has passed which is good :)

U-sti 06-11-2010 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Vexatious~Venom (Post 1767584082)
Nah, I really doubt that is going to happen. I was speaking to him the other day when it accidentally cropped up in conversation (me and my big mouth :sarcasm:) and he said that he liked me more as a friend blah blah blah.

I asked him like seven weeks ago now anyway so the awkwardness has passed which is good :)

well im sorry but at least your ok with it which is a good thing :D

Vexatious~Venom 06-11-2010 06:39 PM

No need to be sorry. It's just one of those things, rejection happens so it's best just to deal with it :)

Teenage melodramas, don't you just love them? :lol:

Musicroxz 06-11-2010 06:44 PM

The hardest thing i ever had to do is leave my best friends when i was moving

or...

The other hardest thing i ever had to do is when my mom took me when she was divorcing my dad and i didnt see my dad in a long time but now i get to see both of my parents alot which is better then splitting and never seeing one of them again. So im glad i can see both parents equally.

U-sti 06-12-2010 01:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Musicroxz (Post 1767584161)
The hardest thing i ever had to do is leave my best friends when i was moving

or...

The other hardest thing i ever had to do is when my mom took me when she was divorcing my dad and i didnt see my dad in a long time but now i get to see both of my parents alot which is better then splitting and never seeing one of them again. So im glad i can see both parents equally.

well my mom got me and my brothers when my parents splitted which wasnt bad but I havent seen my dad for a very long time and I want to be able to spend time with him. He came to my graduation but had to leave the next day. But im grateful for at least seeing him and him coming to my grad.

Lokie 07-11-2010 08:10 AM

The hardest thing I ever had to do to date, would be put my cat down. Still makes me cry. The circumstances were completely against us. . .and it was too cruel to leave her the way she was. . . she couldn't move her entire backside, couldn't relieve herself, was in pain, and when I no longer really had a choice it was because she had stopped breathing once already and by the time she was brought back she had become blind. . . . . . . . .putting her down felt like I was holding a pillow over a family member/best friends face.

The Wandering Poet 07-11-2010 08:14 AM

Quite simple... hardest thing I've ever had to do... was to accept that someone could love me freely (aka not family where it's "mandatory" it seems)


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