Okay, so mate probably wasn't the nicest term to use XD Partner, lover, confidante, you name it.

Personally, I love a woman with curves. I really don't like stick thin women, it's unattractive to me. I prefer dark hair, especially a dark brown and reds as well. Green and emerald eyes are gorgeous. Tall too, though not too tall since I'm pretty short! And that's appearance.

Personality wise, I'd love a girl who has different styles of humor, not just one. Someone I can joke around with and tease, but will know I'm not meaning it in offense. Someone who listens to me, not just hears what I'm saying, and someone who will talk with me as well. I love talking, about nothing. I think it's a great way to spend time together, even if you talk about random subjects for five hours at a time.

And someone who loves horror movies and Stephen King just as much as I do xD

And it's not to say that I don't like people without the qualities I look for, and I do not mean offense to anyone. It's just my opinion. =) What do you look for and why?

Appearance: Fit because no one wants a guy with a pot belly like my dad. He has to have short hair because I can't stand a guy with long hair. :/ He has to have brown or blue eyes because those seem to be the colored eyes I seem to go weak for. Not too pale, because I wouldn't want some guy who's far paler that I am. :/ He has to have a good taste in clothes because no one wants a slob or someone who doesn't pay attention to how their clothes got together.

Personality: Sweet, smart, funny, lovable, likes giving people chances, gets along with everyone, understanding, kind, generous, likes putting other people before him, huggable, likes to cuddle, someone who likes reading almost as much as I do, someone who doesn't mind watching romance/chick flick movies. Someone who thinks I'm beautiful no matter what and who pushes aside what large flaws I have...someone who knows how I feel about a lot of stuff. Someone who doesn't judge me period who will do anything for me...someone who will allow me to do the same for them. I like someone like all this because I find peace and comfort in that. It makes me happy and feel loved and wanted for once. :)

Appearance: Clean. This is the most important thing. You can have any style you want, but if you don't keep up with it, then it just looks like a mess. I prefer thinner women to larger women, but I can not deny that there are some women who just look better with a little more weight. Obesity is a major turn off though. I prefer dark hair to light hair. Eye color doesn't matter so much. As most guys would probably say, boobs and a butt are a plus, but not a requirement.

Personality: This one is a toughy. But I can say for sure that I like affectionate people. Seriousness can also be a turn on in the right situations, but it also important that the person can be playful at the right times. Someone who also knows how to communicate is also very important, as a lot of people seem to have trouble speaking their minds nowadays. They shouldn't be afraid of confrontation, and instead, understand that it is a useful tool for bettering relationships and life in general.

That's all I have for now... XD;

A good person. A good person who smells good.

...that's every requirement I have.

My ideal mate is kind of tough to answer.

Physically, I'm attracted to a wide range of hairstyles/colors, eye colors, skin colors, etc. that I can't really choose one for an ideal mate. I suppose I could say my "dream" guy is more of a light brown/tanned, blue eyes, dark dark short hair, somewhat muscular, kinda tall, with tattoos.

Personality, I like a guy who's friendly, nice, outgoing, not afraid to mean-joke with me, interested in some of the things I'm interested or at least open-minded about them...

That's all I can think of right now.

Physically: I'm gonna agree with clean. I'm sorry but if you're smelly its just not going to work. I don't really care about looks or anything else. Though I seem to have a thing for tall men and bald men (O-o idk either).

Personality: My ideal mate is someone who is just as fun loving and weird as I am. I like someone who can be responsible when they need to be, but also know how to let loose and be goofy. I'm not a very expressive person I keep a lot of things internally, but I'm also really, really insecure. My ideal mate would be able to answer my crazy out of the blue questions and reassure me. I NEED someone who can support me emotionally.

I could go on and on but I don't want to bore you.

My ideal mate has to be clean & fit. i am open to what ever hair color they choose to have as long as it's not pink. i'm not a big fan of the color pink. i don't have a preference on eye color, again as long as it's not pink. he can not be shorter than me & i'm 5'4".

Personality is a hard one to pick, umm i guess basically someone who can accept me for me.

Appearance: Taller than me (not that hard), warm, soft hair, light-ish color eyes. And now why: Taller than me because it makes me feel safe, and delicate. Warm because I get really cold, and I need someone to balance that out. Soft hair because I just love running my fingers through it :drool: . Light-ish color eyes because the details on them are usually amazing!

Personality: Willing to accept me for who I am, creative, not-mainstream, cuddly and snuggly and huggly, weird sense of humor, into music, willing to try new things. Why: I hate having to hide parts of me, just because they won't accept it. Creativity is awesome to have, because we could totally sit and write/draw together. Not-mainstream, because I am far from it, and the weirdest people are usually the nicest to be around.

Oops, I started to ramble, that's all I really have for now.

Appearance: Clean, fit, at my height or taller, long hair, brown/hazel/grey/blue eyes, skin color doesnt matter to me, great sense of style, they smell good, and a good smile. Dimples would be a plus.

Personality: Non judgemental, nice, creative, sweet, charming, loving, optimistic, funny, loves music, adventurous, giving, trustworthy, strong willed, has determination, likes to read, has good values, is respectful, and is open to trying different things.

Appearence: I would agree about them needing to be clean. I want someone who takes care of themselves. I want somebody who is taller than I am (Not hard, I'm 5'0) but not so tall that it looks like I'm standing by a giant. He also needs to be fit. I like guys who aren't scrawny or super muscular but inbetween the two. I'm not picky about hair and eye color or skin color. The guy with blond hair, light features, and a killer smile is great but so is somebody who is tan with darker features.

Personality: I have a thing for guys who are intellegent and outgoing. I can live without the outgoing part but he needs to have some brains. I'd like a guy who likes to read as much as I do so that we always have something to talk about or recommend to each other. I don't like guys who think they know everything about everything or the ones who want to do nothing more than to rot away on their game systems every hour of every day. He'd also be caring, affectionate, and not afraid to say what is on his mind.

Many would argue that the mate to Idealism must always be pragmatism - "after all," they say, "it is only pragmatism which is capable of bearing idealism's children." Not so, I say! In truth, idealism's one and only true love must be youth, for idealism and youth are the most inseparable of friends. Even when youth is being fickle, as it is often wont to be, and attempt to embrace cynicism for a change of pace, it only ever manages to be cynical in the most idealistic way; thus, it is ever faithful to Idealism, even if it isn't intentionally so.

There is no "Ideal Mate" pursay to me, it's whoever I fall in love with. But, I like someone who will respect me and love me for who I am, and not be embaressed around friends. Physcally I like any kind of boy he just has to be taller then me and not like sickly thing. I think people who look like that aren't that pretty (No Offense!) But I think Beauty is just a plus. People now a days only base it onwhat other people look like, and that's not right. I have pimples on my face and I'm not skinney and not fat, and whenever I talk with my friends and strangers say I have the greatest personality. But, no.. it's all about pretty plasturde faces in our scocity.

As I consider myself more of an asexual creature, I guess my perfect "mate" would be someone who understands that, and didn't try to pressure me into anything I don't feel comfortable doing. They would also have to be amusing to hang out with, and have similar interests to mine. They also have to be able to think for themselves and have a certain degree of intelligence. :] Appearance and social status/wealth mean very little to me.