I was wondering if anyone on menewsha have frienemies, is a frienemy themselves or takes GREAT pleasure at watching your enemy suffer?

At the beginning of the relationship, my then boyfriend cheated on me with another woman. This woman was a bona fide sl*t. I am dead serious, she went from guy to guy and dumped them when it got serious. It also didn't help that he had a crush on her and she was acting sweetly around him, while I saw personally what she was trying to do.

Well she won that day and my boyfriend left for her but it only lasted three weeks and it wasn't anything sexual (he bailed). Next day, she dumped him rofl. Typical guy behavior dictates begging and pleading to come back and saying all sorts of sappy things. I gave him one more chance and we've been together since, 5 years later.

Now I'm a friend on her Facebook and am a "friend" to her in person, but the correct term is frienemy and I cannot wait until the day she cracks. My fiance rekindled the friendship with her but she supposedly has no more feelings for him, having grown up from being a sl*t and getting married. But her marriage is miserable, her hubby neglects her, she barely has any friends, and she accidently flushed the bottom half of her $4,200 wedding ring down the toilet.

I was laughing my ass off when I saw that comment on Facebook. I saw the irony in that, that her marriage is literally draining down the toilet. Supposedly she's crying because she can't afford a plumber and because she's clumsy. I'm here laughing and saying that karma is a b***h, you fool around with other people's relationships -- you're going to get burned.

I am completely satisfied right now, karma dealt my vengeance for me in a totally unpredictable way. And before anyone says it, yeah I'm a very spiteful person... if I've been wrong before and received no apology from you, you better watch over your back because I'll make SURE you get yours due.

I could never find pleasure in the misery of others.

I had an exgirlfriend who said she loved me and left me for an abuse man. I told her over and over it was a bad idea but she just thought I was jealous, which I was but I was more so trying to protect her. Her and I stopped talking because I couldn't stand the thought of him touching her. She broke up with him but we still don't talk. She ended up getting kicked out of his apartment and had nowhere to go for a while. I so just wanted to say "I told you so" but just ignored the whole thing. =/

I also had this other friend that was talking shit behind my back then when I let her keep some of her things here she threatened to break into my house so I threw all her shit out on the lawn and told her to get the hell out of my house. I have very little tolerance for people talking shit or threatening me. I don't just deal with that kind of stuff. The way I see it is you're my friend or you're not. I don't have time to deal with drama.

I have issues with certain friends who I know are always ready to put each other down at any minute. Because I seem to hang around a crowd of those who have low self esteem (not sure how that happened) they are always ready to jump on the smallest thing one does wrong.

The good thing with this is I know it, and I know where I stand in our relationship. We're friends, but one wrong look and I'll be pushed in front of a bus. xD That's not to say that every so often I don't get some happiness in seeing them screw up.

After the 3rd bf from WoW that's screwed up, and she still won't listen to me, I know lean back in my chair and watch the destruction happen. If you can't stop it, mine as well enjoy it, so long as it's generally harmless.

Hmm, I can't say I don't appreciate a little karma towards those who have deserved it, but at the same time... it's bad to wish something negative on someone. Of course if they do it to themself then it's their own stupidity.

I was with a guy for 8 months on the night of our 4 month anniversary he cheated on me. I found out after we had broken up around 6 months. I did the math it it turned out shortly after he had cheated one me he lost his job. Thank you karma (: though I was stupid and went back to him for another 2 months before I realized I was wasting my time with some one who really just didn't deserve me. I am/was a much better person than how he made me look and feel. As for the girl he cheated on me with well she thought she'd never have to see or deal with me face to face now she's going to college two hours away from where I live. I may never see her around but if I do I promise she wont get away without getting her butt kicked. I'm a lot of things but a home wrecking whore is not one of them. I could never ever get with some one who's married or in a relationship that's just gross and disrespectful to the other person and yourself.

I have mixed feelings towards it. There are people who's misery brings me a slight amount of joy, but only becuase they've wronged me and multiple other people. That doesn't mean I don't feel guilty about feeling this 'pleasure'.

I absolutely ADORE karma. Alot of good things happened to me and the people I care about, but it's odd that when I've been wrong by someone I thought was my friend/family, they automatically get bad karma. It's like karma is my best friend xD

One of my ex-bestfriends who used me and only listened to me when it was in HER interest told me one day that she hated her ex-bf because of the things he did (he was cocky) and a few days later contemplated on getting back to her. Well back then in highschool I was more of a fortune teller than my friends (they had a thing for tarot cards; I didn't)... I had a very strong hunch that the ex will end up raping her. So I told her, she called me a liar and ignored me. Guess what happened a week later? Guess who came crying to me? Guess how HARD it was for me to say, "I told you so!"?

Then she was my best friend, so ofcourse I was pissed off and threatened to kick him out of school and ruin his dreams about going to the military. Well she begged me not to so I just wished her good karma. A few years later, she got married to her soulmate and the jerk that raped her is still in the military except he can't keep a gf because he has a stripper addiction, and according to his twin -- he's miserable <3

Anyone you ask I am a very spiteful person. But that was just the way I grew up. I was one of those girls who tried to fit in, but lived in a racist town. Its funny how quick others can make fun of another for race at the age of seven. Great parenting. btw, I'm white. But when I went into sixth grade, I was starting to go into my dark/goth phase. Every day I wished for them to just burn. But that is in the past. I was pretty normal I think. For kid in that sitution at least. But needless to say, I moved and never heard from them again. Fine with me^^

Another funny story! You know the singer, Bobby Brown? Well I went to school with one of his kids. I'm not going to say who, but I am sure you can tell from my age. Well, he used to be a complete ass in middle school. Completely full of himself, bla bla bla. Well after I moved, guess who the first person to make fun of me was? So yeah, you could ask me who i hated, and it would be him. Any way, I wasn't the only person he was being a jerk to. Well, this one girl finally had enough. I was in class with them both when this girl turned around and said, "You know what? At least my dad hasn't been to jail, twice!" He was so embarrassed! But I did not feel at all bad. Since he was doing it to everyone else! He even had the nerve to make fun of me because I was from a poorer city.

To this day, I do not feel bad. And I'm perfectly fine with that.
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Another Story!

Every year at me school, someone came in to speak with us about drugs, or something like that. Keep in mind I have never been drunk, or done drugs. I have to reason too since I can't afford it with anime and rent. Well, there was a mother crying on the stage, telling us about her daughter. I DID feel bad. I really did. For the mother, not the daughter. Well, in class I got into an argument with another girl, because I was speaking to a friend of mine about how I did not feel bad that the girl died, I felt bad for her family and friends who had to deal with that.

This girl! Went to a friends house, got drunk, went to a football game and probably drank more, and did drugs. Got into a car with her drunk friend, Went to an abandoned airport, walked across the field, using cell phones for light. Went into the woods for about half a mile and drank more. Why on earth should I feel sorry for some one person who did all that? I said that, and the girl in my class said I had no heart. So I put my hand over my chest and said "Found it! but I fell the same way."