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10-14-2010, 04:16 PM
I do, sometimes.
But usually if someone is sickeningly skinny (it creeps me out a little, the human body is meant to have SOME fat) or seriously morbidly obese. I mean, I understand that some people have genetics that basically say, YOU WILL BE FAT (I'm one of the ones who gets the YOU WILL BE A LITTLE SQUISHY, FOREVER ones, so it's not that bad, and I understand it), but morbidly obese? If their genetics said that, their family line would have died off already. :sweat:
More often than that though, I find myself judging people by how they look if they are really really fat, and really really greasy or dirty. :gonk:
I don't like dirty people, they scare me. ; o;
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10-14-2010, 04:24 PM
The only way I judge someone based upon weight alone is when it has something to do with myself wondering how much they eat. Otherwise I tend to carry no opinion.
I'm one of the men who preferr larger women, so ... what can I say?
Dirt, on the other hand... Yes, poor higiene can seriously squick me out. But your higiene needn't have much of anything to do with your body size.
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10-14-2010, 04:24 PM
If they're really skinny or really chunky then yeah, I sometimes will. Which I know I have a bit of a cheek doing, 'cause my tummy is a little on the padded side if truth be told.
Though it isn't so much weight that I judge, I mean I don't bother with that, but one thing I just can't fathom is dirty people. Like, everyone knows what soap and water is, so greasy hair and BO just shouldn't even be something I come into contact with where I live since everyone has houses and local supermarkets :gonk:
But I am guilty of sometimes doing a bit judging. Though I'm fine with chunky people, infact in some cases chunky people come out as awesomely cute (squeeze their cheeks and go "aaah" cute) xD
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10-14-2010, 04:31 PM
I don't find myself judging people for their weight because I'm one of those people who is always judged by her weight. I try not to judge anyone based on their appearance.
With my case, it's a combination of Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome and really defective genes. It's to the point where I don't want to have biological children in part because I don't want to risk the chance of what they might have.
I don't eat that poorly and I walk a lot during the day, so it's not like I'm sitting in front of the TV all the time stuffing my face with fast food! XD
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10-14-2010, 04:37 PM
@Kat: I hear you on that one. I have Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome too. Hence why I have a little more junk in the trunk than most.
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monstahh`
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10-14-2010, 04:40 PM
I just have a thyroid problem and no lung capacity and bad joints (which makes exercise REALLY painful, so trying to speed up my metabolism isn't worth it to me. :cry:)
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Vexatious~Venom
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10-14-2010, 04:46 PM
I have an underactive thyroid and athsma...I have such a sweet bunch of genetics :sarcasm:
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10-14-2010, 05:32 PM
I try not to judge anyone off their appearances. Having worked in various places where people do get very dirty and greasy, I've found the scariest people are the very neatly kept and dressed ones. The dirty people are usually hard working, friendly people. The meanest people I've ever met dressed well and kept clean.
Weight shouldn't play much of a role in anything. Some people are really really skinny b/c that's just how they are. Some people who are obese are like that because of medications. If someone isn't a "healthy" weight, there is a good possibility there is something else wrong in their lives and judging them over it is the last thing they need.
I think there is way too much focus on what people look like and not nearly enough for what people actually do and think and say. Judging someone by their weight is just as wrong as judging them over their skin color or sexual orientation or anything else.
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10-14-2010, 06:17 PM
Unless someone is really dirty or smells, I tend not to really even notice looks. For example, I work with this one girl and someone said something about her being black and I had to seriously stop and think about it. I guess my mind really just blanks out things like that. I also do that with gender and weight as well.
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10-14-2010, 06:56 PM
I have, and I do, not intentionally, mind you, but when I see a huge lady in a McDonald's parking lot, yeah, I'll think negatively of them. I can't help it. If I were them, looking like that, McDonald's is the last place I'd ever go.
Dirty, however, not really.. I tend not to notice things like that unless they smell, and some people actually buy colognes and stuff that I think smell worse than BO so I never know if it's dirt or a smell they chose, so I never really dwell on things like that. But weight? Yeah.
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10-14-2010, 07:10 PM
It depends on the context. If, say, a morbidly obese lady is out for a walk? No. That's all well and good. If they are at a fast food joint or coming through my cash at the grocery store with chips and pop and microwave dinners? Yes, I judge them. Genetics can only take you so far, the rest, you did to yourself.
That's just disturbingly large people, though. Regular, overweight people, I do not judge.
As for the skinnies, yeah. I'm thin, but I'm a healthy weight. Girls whose thighs are the same in diameter as their ankles- that is icky.
Dirtiness I don't notice unless the person is smelly. Smelliness, I just back away, if possible. Maybe their shower is broken?
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10-14-2010, 07:32 PM
I try not to, it is rude and unhealthy for you to sit and think about others in a judgmental manner. Although I will admit I have done it before and I feel horrible for thinking about it. Ever since I have been studying the GoRinSho and living by my personal Dokkōdō, I tend not to dwell upon much, or think with conviction. Just my way and opinion though.:)
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10-14-2010, 08:02 PM
You never know why someone is the way (s)he is without talking to that person. I may have a little "wtf" moment when I see a morbidly obese person in a scooter at Wal-Mart filling the basket with Twinkies and Ho-Hos, but how do I even know it's for themselves? :/ I myself am overweight as a result of my medication and as far as I know, there may not even be any hope of me getting back to normal. Would I want someone actually judging me on something like that? No. Do I like a good joke regarding things that may actually affect me? Always.
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Fashion
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10-14-2010, 09:22 PM
I used to judge people based on their weight, whenever people were talking about 'how they so badly want to lose weight but just can't stop themselves from eating all the junk they come across'. I thought it was weak, a sign of indiscipline. I swore to myself that I would never allow myself to walk around with even the tiniest bit of fat on my belly. After some time I fell so deep into my eating disorder and allowed myself so little to eat, that I actually got jealous of fat people. Of how healthy they seemed compared to me. They could eat what they wanted, they seemed confident and had so much energy in comparison to me, who walked around with blue hands and a blue nose because I was freezing while it was summer and people around me wore close to nothing, it took me all that I had to take 5 steps before I was out of breath, and i'm not even gonna start on how much I dreamed of eating something else than 100 grams of pear or apple a day.
Now when I look at extremely thin people, I hold my heart and hope they just have fast metabolism. When I see obese people, I think good for you! It must be a whole lot better than the hell you have to go through to be thin.
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10-15-2010, 12:19 AM
When I see a fat person I tend to label them as "lazy". I know this is wrong, but I keep myself fit and healthy and I don't even have to try that hard. I do realize that some people have thyroid problems or something else that makes it much harder to maintain a healthy body weight. I should probably be more careful of what I think about people when I don't know them.
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10-15-2010, 12:50 AM
I dont tend to judge them, but I do find it...unnerving I guess would be the word...when anyone wears clothing that is WAY too tight for them, and they start to spill out. I usually want to run and jump in front of a train. But thats the only thing I really do that concerns people and their weight.
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AomiArmster
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10-15-2010, 12:54 AM
no. i do not.
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10-15-2010, 01:10 AM
Someone's size doesn't particularly matter to me whether someone is thin of a bit bigger because no one is perfect.. But admittedly sometimes I do find myself getting a little judgmental of those people on the extreme ends. I disgusts me with someone is either very skinny to the point where you can see bones (or nearing that star), or if they are very obese. I realize some people can't help it or are built a certain way but when it's taken to the extreme like that I just can't take it.
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RisikaFox
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10-15-2010, 08:18 AM
Oddly enough, I only tend to 'judge' people who are extremely skinny. Like, you can see all their bones skinny. O.O That's just not healthy. xD I try not to judge too much in general though, since I don't enjoy being judged.
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Midian
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10-15-2010, 09:55 AM
Everyone secretly judges other people at some point :p
I myself am quite overweight, so I don't as much. A lot of it is due to my depression, I comfort eat A LOT because I used to self harm to deal with depression but I stopped myself after years, and my brain needed me to do something else instead. So I eat away, I don't realise I'm doing it 90% of the time :( BUT in all honesty, part of my chunk IS my own lazy greedy fault. I do judge some people WAY bigger then me but only if I know for a fact it's just due to over eatting and they are those ones who say "It's so hard being fat, woe is me, it's not fair" because if it's your own fault, then idk *shrug* I don't judge all the time, but I hate myself so much sometimes it makes me feel a little better seeing someone bigger then me who did it to themselves. I KNOW, I'm a bad person!!!
People judge me for my weight. I've always been bullied in school for being fat. And the funny thing is that I have a picture of me from my prom that was given to me a few years ago (It's like 9 years old and I didn't take any myself so I never saw it.) and I realise that after all those years at school hating myself (couldnt help my weight back then) and being bullied for it... I WAS NOT fat! I'd kill to be that size again!!! I was like size 14-16 (UK sizes) and looked healthy! It's amazing what people think of as 'fat'
Also, stick thin people with ribs sticking out but only if it's cause they starve themselves to look "perfect" but not everyone because I have a friend who weighs nothing and all her bones stick out. But it's a condition she can't help it and she's been that way forever. She's seen loads os doctors about it but no one can change it. She wants nothing more then to put on a few stone and I feel really sorry for her because people judge her for it :(
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Soul
So I heard you like mudkip?
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10-15-2010, 11:40 AM
I'm guilty of it, i'll admit ._.
but I don't do it often.i'm one of those super-duper skinny, you can see my bones, "I'd prefer to weigh more" people so i've had my fair share of being called anorexic, go eat a burger, etc thrown at me so I sympathize. >.>;
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10-15-2010, 11:41 PM
I may judge someone by their weight in my mind if I don't know or like that person. Other than that I don't really do that. With me, if someone is thinner or better shaped than I am, I'll get a bit jealous. I'd want that even when I know it can't happen in some cases.
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10-16-2010, 01:51 AM
I don't judge because of the fact that my father is what would be considered obese, and it upsets me a lot to know that people think badly on him because of it, and sometimes I actually hear the things people say about him and I just can't even think of putting anyone else down like that, not only for their weight but for how they look in general.
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PrincessBane
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10-18-2010, 01:46 AM
I do. I'll admit it. To me, appearances are just as important as personality. How you carry yourself says a lot about a person to me and I tend to gauge a person on sight based on their appearance- whether it be their weight, how they keep their hair, how they dress, etc. I don't look down on people because of their weight/appearance, but it will definitely affect the way I think about them. For instance, I'm not attracted to guys who aren't fit and toned simply because I don't like men who don't take the time to keep themselves in shape. I consider that laziness and a lack of confidence. Plus it just looks really bad to me. I know that sounds really shallow and vain of me, but at least I'm upfront and honest about it. Likewise, someone who is too skinny often worries me because people shouldn't look like a straight line when they turn sideways. =/ Alot of teenagers I see in my store, unfortunately, look like this and it's really unsightly. Now, I can tell the difference between women and men who are just big-boned and ones who are just fat/overweight. Big women can be just as beautiful as skinny women and vice versa. Just...when I come to work and see all these big people, I just imagine the kind of lifestyles they must have- especially when they order 3 pounds of fried chicken. =/
But I also get really jealous if I see a girl with a beautiful, curvaceous body who I feel is better than mine. >< Then I start to criticize my own. So...I guess my skepticism is a double-edged sword. I'll find myself "checking her out" as some people would call it- but not because I'm sexually attracted to women, simply because I want a body like hers.
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10-18-2010, 02:29 AM
Like you said, if they are like stick thin or like really obese. There are some people that are big so like, I don't mind so much. But scarily stick thin and really obese is like //shudders
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