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Junabelle 12-28-2011 03:56 AM

Ending 2011 Single?
 
So...who's all ending their 2011 year single? Got a story to share relating to the topic?

This girl is for sure. I was supposed to spend New Year's Eve with him...my first time spending it with someone who wasn't my parents. Yeah...apparently, he didn't care for me as much as I cared for him. Secretly, I know what he means is he's more gay than bi. :talk2hand:

Erinmc 12-28-2011 04:19 AM

Haha I totally agree with your last sentence[:. I had a boyfriend like that once too, more gay than bi.
But I too am ending my year single o:. But oh well, I guess I just have to wait for the right guy, yaknow?

Draciolus 12-28-2011 04:44 AM

Im ending this year in the same status as the last 6 or 7. Single, and not going out to spend my hard earned money on drinks that are 3x what I could pay at the liquor store near me.

Adrastiea 12-28-2011 04:50 AM

I'm ending the year single too.

A guy that I was in love with (at least, he was the only one I've ever even considered special enough to use the word "love" with) for the past three years got married this year. I went through several "I'm fine" cycles where one second I'd feel alright with the situation and then the next I'd go: "Lol nope, still can't stop feeling for him". That kind of screwed up a few potential new erm... flings(?) (I don't know what word to use for those failed experiments).

It took a while, but right now I'm actually content with being single. It was a little liberating to finally stop thinking about that sort of thing.

I'm sorry to hear about your own experience. I had a friend recently go through something similar (in which I had to break it to her that he was, in fact, more into men. Awkward times abound).

DaisyKeehl 12-28-2011 05:29 AM

I just broke up with my now EX girlfriend almost a month ago. We are still friends though.

But I am thinking about asking her back out on new years so technically I am ending the year single but starting the new year taken. That is... if she says yes.

dana eleanor 12-28-2011 05:44 AM

I do have a boyfriend, but it's a long distance relationship, so I am ending 2011 single.

Chen 12-28-2011 05:59 AM

I'll be ending the year single, just as I have every other year of my life.

Darkness Within 12-28-2011 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Chen (Post 1770267754)
I'll be ending the year single, just as I have every other year of my life.

Ditto. Only two guys have ever noticed me openly. One was my guy friend and I was 14 so it was creepy and the other was a highly Catholic Italian guy in my(college) English 1B class in '08 who told me he was afraid my soul would go to hell because I am not Catholic and I don't believe divorce is a sin(long story). He creeped me out so I was glad that the end of the semester meant the end of him as he was transferring schools.

Apparently most guys must prefer a girl who wears pretty revealing girly clothes like skirts and low cut blouses and makeup over a jeans and t-shirt girl who doesn't really have anything in the chest area to reveal anyway.

I am a hopeless romantic and long for the time when I will find a boyfriend who I am really close with to share my life with.
At least being the jeans and t-shirt no chest girl means that my guy will be a real man because he will have a good heart and not be in love with me for what I look like.

Mystic 12-28-2011 01:50 PM

Not single per say but it's complicated. It's kind of one of those relationships where I love her but I'm not too sure if I should stay with her but I can't leave her because she's having a kid in a few months. I should probably be single since she lied and cheated on me but I'm not.

Pa-chinko 12-28-2011 02:55 PM

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Originally Posted by dana eleanor (Post 1770267575)
I do have a boyfriend, but it's a long distance relationship, so I am ending 2011 single.

How are you still single when you have a boyfriend? oO
By that logic I'm still single even though I'm married.

Mystic 12-28-2011 04:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Pa-chinko (Post 1770269900)
How are you still single when you have a boyfriend? oO
By that logic I'm still single even though I'm married.

I don't get that either. Long distance does not equal to single. My fiance tried to use that logic on me and it just does not go over well. Let's just say I do not trust her any more.

NightshadeBloom 12-28-2011 05:09 PM

I am single, but luckily I am over the trauma that made me single (No he didn't die, he was just a really big jerk and I was to naive to see the truth for a while)

Laila Izuka 12-28-2011 05:55 PM

I'm ending this year single as well, just like every single year of my life. Though I do like one of my friends that lives all the way in Massachusetts -w-, but I live in Nevada. Though I'm pretty damn sure that he really likes me as well. But we both agreed that we are not going to date until we actual meet each other and whatnot -3-

RoadToGallifrey 12-28-2011 10:07 PM

I'm ending this year single. I just went through a bitch of a break-up in October which resulted in the guy I loved and cared more about than anyone else not even wanting to speak to me any more. There's someone I like, but I'm pretty sure that he doesn't feel the same way. So I'm just going to go out, get drunk and probably get off with a few guys to take my mind off the fact I feel more unloved than ever.

Lush Cutie 12-29-2011 05:24 AM

I never had a bf... /14 years for lonely

dana eleanor 12-29-2011 06:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Pa-chinko (Post 1770269900)
How are you still single when you have a boyfriend? oO
By that logic I'm still single even though I'm married.

We're not dating yet. That's why, but I feel like I already love him.

Darkness Within 12-29-2011 06:54 AM

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Originally Posted by dana eleanor (Post 1770267575)
I do have a boyfriend, but it's a long distance relationship, so I am ending 2011 single.

Quote:

Originally Posted by dana eleanor (Post 1770279110)
We're not dating yet. That's why, but I feel like I already love him.

Um these two statements(the bolded although it doesn't show up well with your color and font) are contradictions. First you said you had a boyfriend but long distance and thus considered yourself single somehow(a long distance relationship is still a relationship), and now you say that you have never dated this guy. Yet you called him your boyfriend?

I am sorry but you are making no sense.
If you were in the beginning intending to refer to a guy who is your friend than you misused the term boyfriend, the term you want is guy friend.

RoadToGallifrey 12-29-2011 11:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Lush Cutie (Post 1770278174)
I never had a bf... /14 years for lonely

Don't rush into getting a boyfriend. There are more important things to be doing at fourteen. (:

Junabelle 12-29-2011 06:43 PM

Lush Cutie:
I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 16...You have plenty of time, remember that. =]

Mystic 12-30-2011 12:07 AM

I met my exhusband when I was 16 and he was my first boyfriend/girlfriend. So yeah, no hurry to be in a relationship. They just cause drama anyway. :P

Neko-Lover 12-30-2011 12:24 AM

Yep, my 2011 will be spent with me, myself, and my music, as it always has been. :p

Karasu's Notebook 12-30-2011 12:44 AM

Yeah, definitely single this year. But I'm not really looking either. I'm focusing on school for now. Maybe after I finish in a few semesters I'll start looking.

Mobius 12-30-2011 01:14 AM

I am, though I have for the last two years, I believe. First year my mom isn't though, so I'm sending her off with her new man to go dancing. It's an eventful end, even if I'm staying home!
8)

lightkanna 12-30-2011 08:51 AM

Still single and not complaining about spending the year lonely. It's just another day as every other day for me. XD /forever alone.

RoadToGallifrey 12-30-2011 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by lightkanna (Post 1770290769)
Still single and not complaining about spending the year lonely. It's just another day as every other day for me. XD /forever alone.

We can be forever alone together! *throws cat at*


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