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Old 02-13-2013, 06:13 AM

I'm pretty bad with my temper too.
Especially when it comes to League of Legends, or any game for that matter.
I'm just like, ALL THE CURSES!

Even small things like a loud typing noise puts me on edge.
Makes me want to punch a baby.
'nuff said.

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Old 02-13-2013, 08:19 PM

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I'm pretty bad with my temper too.
Especially when it comes to League of Legends, or any game for that matter.
I'm just like, ALL THE CURSES!

Even small things like a loud typing noise puts me on edge.
Makes me want to punch a baby.
'nuff said.
Haha I have issues like that too. xD
I play this game called reckoning on the PS3 (Super adicting! ), and I didn't read everything this one character said because I was like "skip skip skip" (Because they go on forever! ) and chose the option to do evil, and I didn't want to, so I tried to go back to the last save point before that and it was quite a ways back from where I was currently playing. I figured the auto save would have kicked in before the big battle, but noooo.
So, the save I had to go back to was quite a ways from getting to that point, so I had to go back and get all the crap I had before, and now I have to level up again so I can wear this piece of armor that I have that requires a higher level.
AND I have to redo that big obnoxious fricken battle!!!
Total bullshit man. /:

I also have issues with people making annoying noises over and over repeatedly.
Like people tapping pens. I hate that shit with a firey passion.
Or people talking to me at my house when I'm trying to concentrate on something.

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Old 02-14-2013, 06:14 AM

Anything that stresses me out makes me angry. It's why I'm on medication. Lol. My brother does little things to tick me off cause he knows I can't stand annoying noises or certian movements. Like for instance, him moviing the couch while I'm sitting on it. I don't mean "moving", but he'll sit on it with me and jiggle his leg, tap his foot, or hand. It's annoying and really pisses me off. Then there's the clapping that he does randomly or the snapping fingers. I don't like a lot of noise and it really, really irritates me if it's noisy. I think that has to do with my anxiety, though. I totally hate it.

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Old 02-14-2013, 09:42 AM

I have a really bad anger issue too, I get annoyed at the smallest things. Anything that doesn't go my own way pisses me off. I feel like a little kid sometimes that I can't control my anger and I just sulk whenever something doesn't go my own way. I notice I should work on it, but IT'S SO HARD. :< This becomes a bigger problem now that I am in a relationship, because it causes us to fight every time I act like a pain and sulk; which is like every 5 minutes. :c But I don't know, I mean, I guess this is my personality, this is the kind of person I am, of course I try to work on it, and it's getting better, but not enough.

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Old 02-14-2013, 04:19 PM

Hmm ... when I was younger I took anger management which helped me mellow out for quite a few years, but since I hit university and became more social I've been getting angrier, I think. .__.

I never really blow up by swearing or punching walls anymore. Nowadays I will normally do something sabotagey to a relationship in a fit of rage. I hide my anger so well that no one ever thinks it's a result of anger. I almost always regret it the next day, and after I do my tantrum I go through the "tail between my legs" phase where I try to patch things up.

I bottle up emotions. It takes about 3 months of events to put me over the edge. Friends are always what I'm most susceptible to. Like, I can fail a class. I'm not angry. My video card can melt. Still not angry. But, heaven forbid, there's drama of any sort with my friend circle. I am livid. Not because of the drama, but because people are stupid enough to make the drama. This is how it normally goes: something dramatic happens one day at my friend group: anger rises. Friends openly complain about each other: anger rises. I have to defend a friend for something they did: anger rises. My ex texts me: anger rises. My best friend doesn't tell me about something important, and I instead learn it from someone else: anger rises. And after 3 months, I do something stupid. I'm at that point right now actually. Everything in my being is telling me to leave my friend group and isolate myself. We have a closed group on facebook and I have to fight with myself everyday to avoid removing myself from the group. I don't want to because I know that the damage I make will be irreparable, but all I can think about is how angry I am and that I just want to get out of there. What sucks is that if I did boot myself from the group and one of my friends approach me and ask me why I did it, I will calmly, rationally, and nicely explain why it's best that way. Then I will go home, fume, and be absolutely livid. None of my friends think I'm angry. Whenever there's a situation that would make an ordinary person ripe with anger, I always go and deal with it. I'll go to the other party and I will work out the issue in a friendly, calm and rational manner. It doesn't matter to me if that person dropped a baby off a bridge, I will still be calm and caring to that person's issues. My friends think I can do this so naturally because I'm not an angry person. It's really not that. It's just that I hide it so well.

Sigh. It sucks. I would rather yell and shout than forfeit friendships. I'm just trying to wait this tantrum out and hope for the best. But the longer I wait, the more angry I get. I've already decided in my mind that I don't trust two people I hang out with and that I wouldn't miss them because they aren't really my friends. That's ridiculous of course, but I still feel it every moment of the day. I wish that I could yell to feel better. Instead I have two options: give into my thoughts and end friendships, which always fills me with regret. Or surge with anger that I can barely control and hope it'll go away. I'm aiming for the latter right now and hope things go well.


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Old 02-14-2013, 05:06 PM

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Anything that stresses me out makes me angry. It's why I'm on medication. Lol. My brother does little things to tick me off cause he knows I can't stand annoying noises or certian movements. Like for instance, him moviing the couch while I'm sitting on it. I don't mean "moving", but he'll sit on it with me and jiggle his leg, tap his foot, or hand. It's annoying and really pisses me off. Then there's the clapping that he does randomly or the snapping fingers. I don't like a lot of noise and it really, really irritates me if it's noisy. I think that has to do with my anxiety, though. I totally hate it.
LMFAO!
We have the EXACT same issue with stuff like that!
I once slammed my step brother's head in a door when I was younger because he pissed me off so much. xD
I take pills for my "issues" too. lol

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Hmm ... when I was younger I took anger management which helped me mellow out for quite a few years, but since I hit university and became more social I've been getting angrier, I think. .__.

I never really blow up by swearing or punching walls anymore. Nowadays I will normally do something sabotagey to a relationship in a fit of rage. I hide my anger so well that no one ever thinks it's a result of anger. I almost always regret it the next day, and after I do my tantrum I go through the "tail between my legs" phase where I try to patch things up.

I bottle up emotions. It takes about 3 months of events to put me over the edge. Friends are always what I'm most susceptible to. Like, I can fail a class. I'm not angry. My video card can melt. Still not angry. But, heaven forbid, there's drama of any sort with my friend circle. I am livid. Not because of the drama, but because people are stupid enough to make the drama. This is how it normally goes: something dramatic happens one day at my friend group: anger rises. Friends openly complain about each other: anger rises. I have to defend a friend for something they did: anger rises. My ex texts me: anger rises. My best friend doesn't tell me about something important, and I instead learn it from someone else: anger rises. And after 3 months, I do something stupid. I'm at that point right now actually. Everything in my being is telling me to leave my friend group and isolate myself. We have a closed group on facebook and I have to fight with myself everyday to avoid removing myself from the group. I don't want to because I know that the damage I make will be irreparable, but all I can think about is how angry I am and that I just want to get out of there. What sucks is that if I did boot myself from the group and one of my friends approach me and ask me why I did it, I will calmly, rationally, and nicely explain why it's best that way. Then I will go home, fume, and be absolutely livid. None of my friends think I'm angry. Whenever there's a situation that would make an ordinary person ripe with anger, I always go and deal with it. I'll go to the other party and I will work out the issue in a friendly, calm and rational manner. It doesn't matter to me if that person dropped a baby off a bridge, I will still be calm and caring to that person's issues. My friends think I can do this so naturally because I'm not an angry person. It's really not that. It's just that I hide it so well.

Sigh. It sucks. I would rather yell and shout than forfeit friendships. I'm just trying to wait this tantrum out and hope for the best. But the longer I wait, the more angry I get. I've already decided in my mind that I don't trust two people I hang out with and that I wouldn't miss them because they aren't really my friends. That's ridiculous of course, but I still feel it every moment of the day. I wish that I could yell to feel better. Instead I have two options: give into my thoughts and end friendships, which always fills me with regret. Or surge with anger that I can barely control and hope it'll go away. I'm aiming for the latter right now and hope things go well.

I'm sorry. :(
I've done similar things in the past where I'll get all butthurt and end up saying and doing crap that I regret, and hope people forgive me for. I don't think things through, I just act. D;

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Old 02-14-2013, 11:10 PM

Rude people really piss me off, when you speak to them and they purposely ignore you so you raise your voice to be annoyingly loud so they have to answer you. Normally I just ignore them but people like that are weird... but usually not a good idea to do it because you don't know what's going on in their life. People have a way of taking things out on others which sucks.

As I have gotten older I have found that i have less and less tolerance for bullshit to just be blunt about it. I'm sure there are quite a few people who understand exactly what i'm talking about. People who live behind facades and false pretenses to fit in with the fad crowds. It's really disgusting. A lot of things are annoying to me now these days so I'm finding myself getting less social as I get older... I hate that but a lot of us lose faith in humanity as you become older you get cynical.

I also hate how certain people are always trying to get something for nothing. When I go to a restaurant I saw a certain family go out and I watched the family run the poor server ragged asking for every little petty thing that they could without actually needing or using it in some instances.... like extra napkins or extra boxes or bags and sauces for their food. Then they want to complain so they make the server feel bad so they don't have to tip. I find it rather disgusting actually that they are that cheap. If you can't tip your server and have to try to get so much free stuff then don't eat out it's that simple... I used to be a server and that bugs me the most... unless the service and the food just aboslutely sucked. Usually you can atleast tip five to ten percent even if it isn't so good.

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Old 02-16-2013, 07:19 AM

I'm the same way. Things tend to pile up on me. People don't know how to back off or anything. Or leave me alone.

So I explode .-.

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Old 02-16-2013, 11:38 AM

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Rude people really piss me off, when you speak to them and they purposely ignore you so you raise your voice to be annoyingly loud so they have to answer you. Normally I just ignore them but people like that are weird... but usually not a good idea to do it because you don't know what's going on in their life. People have a way of taking things out on others which sucks.

As I have gotten older I have found that i have less and less tolerance for bullshit to just be blunt about it. I'm sure there are quite a few people who understand exactly what i'm talking about. People who live behind facades and false pretenses to fit in with the fad crowds. It's really disgusting. A lot of things are annoying to me now these days so I'm finding myself getting less social as I get older... I hate that but a lot of us lose faith in humanity as you become older you get cynical.

I also hate how certain people are always trying to get something for nothing. When I go to a restaurant I saw a certain family go out and I watched the family run the poor server ragged asking for every little petty thing that they could without actually needing or using it in some instances.... like extra napkins or extra boxes or bags and sauces for their food. Then they want to complain so they make the server feel bad so they don't have to tip. I find it rather disgusting actually that they are that cheap. If you can't tip your server and have to try to get so much free stuff then don't eat out it's that simple... I used to be a server and that bugs me the most... unless the service and the food just aboslutely sucked. Usually you can atleast tip five to ten percent even if it isn't so good.
You hit the nail right on the head!
I was never a server, but everything else that you just said is the crap I go through on a daily basis. I also can't stand people who are super rude to their customers.
Come on man, be happy you have a damn job, don't be a ghetto trashy lazy douche. :P
Shiiiit, if you don't want the job I'll take it! xD
People with that shitty "entitlement syndrome" piss me off in general.
The world doesn't owe you a damn thing. So don't expect a damn thing, if you don't want to do a damn thing for it.


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I'm the same way. Things tend to pile up on me. People don't know how to back off or anything. Or leave me alone.

So I explode .-.
Ah dude, that gets me really bad too.
My mom always asks me the "what's wrong?" question when I'm already in a super pissed off mood, and it makes me SO much worse. No matter how many times I remind her, she still does it. EVERYTIME! (Well almost. haha) I explained that I get over my outbursts a lot faster if people just leave me alone.
I mean, who the hell wants to go through explaining what you're pissed off about when you're already in a whole shit heap of flustered explosive crazy?
lol

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Old 02-22-2013, 06:31 AM

oh boy,I have the same issues,except my anger lasts longer.I mean,the real outburst only lasts a few minutes at most,but after that I need at least an hour to just be angry and stew for a while,then I'm over it.The problem is,no one lets me just steam.They always interrupt and tell me that it's not healthy and whatever,which only pisses me off even more,and increasing my steam-time even further.And it just keeps happening,so eventually I just snap and start screaming again.When it gets really bad,I go to my room and put in my headphones,and blast Green Day or Three Days Grace or whatever angry music I can find and it makes me feel better.

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Old 02-22-2013, 09:05 AM

I cannot control my anger. When I get angry I have short bursts of yelling or occasionally (very rarely) punching, never ever ever people though! That's usually the more serious situations though. D:
Thing like people nagging me and being noisy set me off. Then other times it's how I feel about myself.
Should I be sharing this on a public forum, hahah?

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Old 02-22-2013, 04:22 PM

Some of us need longer cool off periods lol...

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Old 02-23-2013, 01:58 AM

I've managed to stay mad at someone for over a week before >.< I can really hold a grudge lol

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Old 02-23-2013, 02:53 AM

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oh boy,I have the same issues,except my anger lasts longer.I mean,the real outburst only lasts a few minutes at most,but after that I need at least an hour to just be angry and stew for a while,then I'm over it.The problem is,no one lets me just steam.They always interrupt and tell me that it's not healthy and whatever,which only pisses me off even more,and increasing my steam-time even further.And it just keeps happening,so eventually I just snap and start screaming again.When it gets really bad,I go to my room and put in my headphones,and blast Green Day or Three Days Grace or whatever angry music I can find and it makes me feel better.
Oh I feel you there too, I have to go all recluse when I get too heated aswell, otherwise I blow up hardcore...and it's not pretty. xD

Music helps calm me down too, I usually listen to really angry metal music though.
Like Pantera, Slayer, Lamb of God, Cannibal Corpse, or crazy punk music like Exploited, GBH, or Anti Nowhere League, etc.

Edit:
Your signature makes me happy. xD


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I cannot control my anger. When I get angry I have short bursts of yelling or occasionally (very rarely) punching, never ever ever people though! That's usually the more serious situations though. D:
Thing like people nagging me and being noisy set me off. Then other times it's how I feel about myself.
Should I be sharing this on a public forum, hahah?
Hey, it's kosher, we're all mad here!

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Old 02-23-2013, 03:10 AM

lol thanks.I saw it on Facebook and just said omg so true.I really love your siggy,too.I happen to be Irish myself.

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Old 02-23-2013, 03:28 AM

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lol thanks.I saw it on Facebook and just said omg so true.I really love your siggy,too.I happen to be Irish myself.
Gotta love facebook. lol
Sweet digs. :]
I'm American, but the Irish side of my family is DEFINITELY Irish. xD
Thick accents and you can hear our loud asses from a mile away.
The other half is German, almost as crazy. lol
Ginger kid with firey Irish & German blood is probably the big contributing factor to my short fuse and horrible temper.
Thank you! ^_^
It made me giggle a bit. xD

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Old 02-24-2013, 04:37 AM

I'm glad.
Yeah,I've got Irish and French,which does plenty to fuel my tiny temper.I've also got french Canadian,Canadian Indian,English,Swedish,and God only knows what else.But the largest percentage is Irish and French.My mom's side is the Irish,and boy can you ever tell! They're crazy,all of them,but hilarious.Makes family gatherings really fun XD

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Old 02-28-2013, 09:35 PM

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I'm glad.
Yeah,I've got Irish and French,which does plenty to fuel my tiny temper.I've also got french Canadian,Canadian Indian,English,Swedish,and God only knows what else.But the largest percentage is Irish and French.My mom's side is the Irish,and boy can you ever tell! They're crazy,all of them,but hilarious.Makes family gatherings really fun XD
Oh yeah, lol if it's one thing the Irish are good for, it's definitely entertainment and good laugh.

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Old 03-04-2013, 05:06 AM

absolutely.And great stories! You should hear some of the stories I hear when my family's around-it's pretty hilarious.

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Old 03-05-2013, 05:15 AM

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absolutely.And great stories! You should hear some of the stories I hear when my family's around-it's pretty hilarious.
Ohhhhh yes. xD
The luck of the Irish (never specified what kind!! ) makes for all sorts of crazy ass entertaining stories. lol I have quite a few "lucky" stories myself.
Though it would be nice to be less "lucky", once in a while. lol

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Old 03-06-2013, 06:24 AM

Yeah it would.I have a pretty huge unlucky streak,but every once in a while I'll have a bit of unexpected luck.Like the time mt dad's coworker gave me two muffins instead of one.Or when I find a Pokemon I don't have in my games (I need a life lol) Or the time the school's computer system got messed up and passed a bunch of people who were supposed to stay back.(my evil french teacher told us about that screw up,effectively destroying any idea that I had actually passed...I was pretty upset but at least I passed)

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#47
Old 03-06-2013, 07:57 AM

I have a pretty nasty temper, but it only comes out when I'm driving. Or when I'm playing video games. Or when my cat is being stupid... :O

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Old 03-20-2013, 07:20 PM

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I have a pretty nasty temper, but it only comes out when I'm driving. Or when I'm playing video games. Or when my cat is being stupid... :O
Haha Driving...that is my boyfriend's BIGGEST trigger.
It's hilarious listening/watching him blow up at stupid drivers.
I have a pretty decent case of road rage myself. lol
I get REALLY pissy with video games. xD

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Old 03-21-2013, 02:20 AM

Oh GOD video games! I love video games,but they get so frustrating! I've spent hours trying to catch a legendary Pokemon over and over again,getting pissed off and turning the game off...that's the most frustrating part.Not even the damn thing escaping or whatever,but turning the game off,then back on again,and waiting impatiently for it to start...GAH!!! That and defeating the Elite Four.Same deal,except I get to the champion on the first try,and then boom,I run out of full restores,and I'm done.I get so angry,I have actually thrown my game across the room before-only to chase after it,hold it to my chest and say "I'm sorry,I'm so sorry!" to it over and over again.

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Old 03-21-2013, 03:30 PM

LOL I've broken a couple controllers and had to buy new ones. xD
Some games just make you rage.

 


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