when will people think
 

Before they say something ? I notice some people don't think before they say something and they make an ignorant comment on what is being discussed.

Some people have cobwebs where there are no spiders. It's always something that even though I know I'm still astonished about how stupid people are.

Some people literally have no idea that what they are saying is wrong. It isn't entirely uncommon for people to go their entire lives with people telling them that their harmful ideas are not harmful, or that they're even right.

Some people, myself included, need to say things aloud in order to properly form a thought. It's speak-to-think versus think-to-speak. I know I've put my foot in my mouth on more than one occasion as a result. More often than not if someone says something ignorant and offensive because they work that way, you can pull them aside and talk to them one-on-one about why you found what they said to be problematic. If you're friendly about it, they tend to be pretty receptive.

Of course, some people are just loud and ignorant. Not much to be done there.

I agree with Pkero's eloquent response.

i hear you. its like their brain doesn't process that hey people have feelings or this might make someone offended. my uncle does it all the time im like shut uuuuuup