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Rvaya 06-07-2007 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by mesic

I believe that as long as you expect to get into heaven, you'll go there. That seems to be pretty good criteria. :3

Wow so if someone goes off and kills hundreds of people but still expects to go to heaven they will huh? Interesting...
I don't really think heaven would be any different earth or hell if that were true.

mesic 06-07-2007 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Rvaya
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Originally Posted by mesic

I believe that as long as you expect to get into heaven, you'll go there. That seems to be pretty good criteria. :3

Wow so if someone goes off and kills hundreds of people but still expects to go to heaven they will huh? Interesting...
I don't really think heaven would be any different earth or hell if that were true.

Thats actually a very astute observation about how I feel about the afterlife... I doubt its much different than the... forelife? We could be in heaven or hell right now and not know it. :3
But thats just what I kind of secretly believe, when things get fuzzy around the edges. Not any sort of theological revelation.

And yes, I do believe that if someone killed off hundreds of people, they would still be eligible for forgiveness and redemption AS LONG AS THEY BELIEVED. Usually those impulses are physiological or psychological, and after treatment, a lot of killers can reflect on what it was they did wrong. So, yes, I do stand by what I said. :)

Rvaya 06-07-2007 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by mesic
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Originally Posted by Rvaya
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Originally Posted by mesic

I believe that as long as you expect to get into heaven, you'll go there. That seems to be pretty good criteria. :3

Wow so if someone goes off and kills hundreds of people but still expects to go to heaven they will huh? Interesting...
I don't really think heaven would be any different earth or hell if that were true.


And yes, I do believe that if someone killed off hundreds of people, they would still be eligible for forgiveness and redemption AS LONG AS THEY BELIEVED. Usually those impulses are physiological or psychological, and after treatment, a lot of killers can reflect on what it was they did wrong. So, yes, I do stand by what I said. :)

But you didn't say any of that before n_~ It didn't matter if they were sorry or not.

Donna 06-07-2007 05:12 PM



  • Being a Christian doesn't mean you're supposed to be pure of sin, but it means you want to try not to. To me, it's as long as you believe in the religion, you're a Christian. :/

Tuba 06-07-2007 05:27 PM

warning, the following consists of mostly my personal opinion.
yep, your a christian! well ,mostly.
christians are the people who force everyone to go to their church, and tell them they have to belive a certain way and do certain things. and then most of the people dont even do them.


this one pastor guy at the one church i went to vacation bible school at a few times was a pedophile with a foot fetish. :D
he put us all in a dark room, told us to shut up and look forward, and then washed our feet. XD he found some way to relate it to jesus or something. oh well. free foot wash. -shrug-

mesic 06-07-2007 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Rvaya
But you didn't say any of that before n_~ It didn't matter if they were sorry or not.

I wasn't asked to expand on a offhand remark when I originally posted. ;3
And it could be assumed that if someone believes they should go to heaven, they should feel as if they deserve it, yes?

Wendy Darling 06-07-2007 07:34 PM

I used to believe that just believing in God guaranteed you were a Christian and therefore, guaranteed your entrance into Heaven.

WRONG.

I was blinded back then, and I had the scales peeled off of my eyes to finally see what being a true Christian is. Please don't take offense, but from the things you've listed, I don't think you are a true Christian. Here's why:

The Bible says in Matthew 7:15-19, "Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? Likewise every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire."

In other words, what you say you've been doing -- cursing, fighting, etc., are examples of bad fruit. A good tree (a Christian) cannot bear bad fruit. Also, you will know a person is a Christian from their works. Works don't MAKE a Christian though. There has to be a sincere love for God in your heart.

Believing there is a God and knowing him and accepting him into your heart are two different things.

Now, I understand that there are some things that you can't help. Sin happens because we're only human, and we've fallen prone to it because it's our nature. No one except God is perfect. We can't be like him, but we should strive towards it. Meaning, if need be, quit doing some of the things you're doing. It pleases God, and shows you want to be like He is.

I'll say this -- I don't like my church either just because of the way things are done and how the customs are within the specific denomination. I don't really go to church. However, I feel you should have a passion for wanting to learn the word of God. It sounds hypocritical, coming from me, since I don't like the way my church is run, but I don't think being in a church guarantees whether you're a Christian or not. Honestly, there are millions of people who go to church thinking that's the only ticket for them to get into Heaven. Go to church, and I'm a Christian. Again, they're wrong. They say one thing, and then do the other, then venture off to church and ask for forgiveness. It's not how it works, and you're basically exploiting God that way when you do things like that.

Well, hope I made my points CLEARLY. I'm always up to talk about this stuff, so I'll keep an eye on the thread. You can PM me, as well, if you'd like. ^^

kiarakiara 06-07-2007 08:22 PM

I think you are not considered christin, because you are kinda physco. Phyisicly, emotionly and just plainly Physco! No offence you asked my opion. :lol:

Meirles 06-07-2007 08:29 PM

If you're really a Christian, you would have no desire (or at least try to avoid) doing those things. To be a good Christian is to honor Christ with your life and follow his ways, and... well, from what you've stated in the first post, it seems like you aren't. ^^; Everyone is allowed to make mistakes, cursing when you hit your finger is not going to send you to hell, for example. But deliberatey doing these things with complete disregard to the Bible... well, that's not good.

Oh, and one more thing: if you hate your church, I suggest trying to find a new one. Church should be an importan part of a Christian's life, and you should try to surround yourself with good influences and people you care about and respect.

That's just my two cents. :3

Twizzlerz 06-07-2007 08:47 PM

You know I don't really know.
I lie too.
I curse sometimes when I'm furious.
I fight...(Like a little fist fight)
And I'm Roman Catholic.
I don't like church much. We're pretty much the same but we're still Christian no matter what. If you don't believe in God, then you're not Christian. If you do believe in God, then you are no matter what.
-shrugs- You know as a kid, you really come to despise BORING stuff all the time. But as you grow older, you finally realize that you're there for a purpose. Well...At least I think so. -__-""
If you think God is real, then you are Christian.

~Twizzlerz`*♥

Queen Nehalania 06-08-2007 12:12 AM

I'm a saved Christian but I do find myself doing some of the things you've listed...

I guess people are what they are. Even though I'm Christian I can't help it when I cuss.

Sometimes I ask for forgiveness, sometimes I don't...

Then again I know of other Christians who cuss and get into fights.
I guess that as long as you have your faith and trust in the Lord then its alright, but I can't help but feel guilty sometimes.

I've found a new church to go to that I like a whole lot.
Its pretty relaxed and the pastor could almost pass for a comedian.
He still manages to preach a good sermon and get the point across though.
(Also it used to be a movie theater, and we get to sit in the cool seats and not the hard pews. We can also bring drinks in there too!) Thats a big plus.

Chenda 06-08-2007 12:33 AM

  • I curse a lot
    -Cursing for every little thing isn't cool. Cursing when you NEED to is O.K. For instance, if you F for the first time on your Math Test, I guess it's ok to say 'fuck' But if you got an F for the 16th time, it's probably not OK to say 'fuck'.
    I get into (physical contact) fights
    -Hey, once in evvery 10 years is O.K., but once every year, you have some serious issues
    I love metal music
    -There's absoluteely NO problem with that.
    I hate my church with a burning passion
    -This is a problem.
    I lie more than you could ever imagine
    -Yeah, you are probably lieing about some stuff right now. x]
    I commit two of the seven deadly sins
    -And, what are they?
    I make fun of people
    -That's normal.

Krazy-kat 06-08-2007 01:02 AM

As long as you are a good person and follow the Golden Rule, I'll see you as a fellow Christian.

I curse a lot
As long as it's not every other word comming out of you mouth, I don't see a point of making a big deal over it.
I get into (physical contact) fights
It really depends on why you get into fights. Try to talk it out before throwing punches.
I love metal music
Why should choice in music matter?
I hate my church with a burning passion
Why do you hate your church? You can try swiching and see if it's better for you.
I lie more than you could ever imagine
Just remember that lies tend to take a snowball effect. Try not to lie.
I commit two of the seven deadly sins
I think everyone does some of them at some point of their lives. Try to see what you do wrong and try to not do it anymore.
I make fun of people
Remember the Golden Rule on this one! I tend to mock people too sometimes.

p a r f a i t 06-08-2007 01:59 AM

If you believe in the Christian god and their beliefs, you are a Christian.

Maybe one who won't get into heaven.

But a Christian nonetheless. : )


Or, that's according to my definition. By what you said, I think that most Christian people would say you aren't going to heaven, which sounds more like what you mean.

xX Nightmare Angel Xx 06-08-2007 04:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Suteki
You are what you believe yourself to be. Just because you're a Christian doesn't mean that you have to be that cookie cutter image of perfection that's taught to everyone.

My grandmother is the most faithful woman that I know. She cusses. She currently dislikes her church. She has lied. She mocks people. As she puts it, "No one is perfect, and I won't lie and say that I am. But I am also not going to pretend that I'm something that I'm not."

I really think that you're going to be fine as long as you don't break the commandments, and as long as you repent at some point.

That's true. It does sound more reasonable to just keep your faith rather than to keep a perfect religous image. I don't believe that's possible really >__<. And it probably doesn't matter if you do little things. Because like you said, as long as it's not something major as to one of the commandments then resentment and asking for forgiveness seems to be the main thing =3

xX Nightmare Angel Xx 06-08-2007 04:34 AM

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Originally Posted by trinxie
im christian too. I do all of those things [cept for hating the church]. But i believe in God, try to be good, and don't hide my faith.
like others said, we aint perfect. I dont think any of us want to be the virgin Mary either
but if you don't like being christian, why be one? denounce yourself. there's no point believing in something you hate

Yeah. It seems all of those things are just people do in their daily lives. In terms of me not liking my church, it's not that I hate all forms of church but just this one specifically. I spend almost all my life at a different one, but was forced (by parents) to change to this one. Same here. And I don't hate Christianity. I just have a problem with completely obeying the lifestyle it conveys. So much to follow, but I believe in God. So I have faith, but maybe not enough to be able to obey the "guidelines" of Christianity.

xX Nightmare Angel Xx 06-08-2007 04:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Kyonki
I agree with the others, just because you'r christian doesn't mean that you have to be an angel. I'm not really good with words and explaining, so that'll be all I'll have to say. Be yourself, don't let anything else decide that for you. :mrgreen:

Hmm. I see what your saying. So basically, I shouldn't let others define me and tell me what I am? Yeah. Religous perfection is something far away.

xX Nightmare Angel Xx 06-08-2007 04:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Sinspiration
Sinner! You shall burn in hell! Rant rant rant etc etc and all that psycho stuff we love so dearly. x3

Nah, I honestly dont know what a Christian is anymore except some-one who apparently follows the Christian faith, and if god made everything (including our dearly beloved satan? x3) isnt it technically his fault that Sin was created in the first place? It gets so confusing when you think too much about it. Okay im going off topic there but anyway!

I'm a sinner and I'm proud to be because it's what makes me a God-Damned human, HAH.
x3 And the monkey flipped off God, "Watch the birdy, yer holiness."

Haha. Oh how, I've heard that speech so well over the years >__<. Over time, the definition of Christianity alters a lot. The only thing about it that does remain is the fact that you believe in God. That is quite a confusing point you have there xD. Satan was a dropout angel from heaven. He made hell. And a bunch of other dropout angels joined him later. Or something like that >.> . Heh. True, no one's perfect. Sinners=Humans. Christians=Sinners who repent. That's how I see it x]

Tea 06-08-2007 04:44 AM

You may believe in some of what Christians do.

but I fell that if you don't follow every rule, or at least try to, then no you aren't Christian in the least.

You don't have to label yourself though.

anyway your list doesn't seem Christian worthy.

doesn't mean you can share some of the same beliefs as others who truley are Christian.

xX Nightmare Angel Xx 06-08-2007 04:46 AM

Re: I Flip People Off. But I'm Christian?
 
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Originally Posted by Marguerite Blakeney
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Originally Posted by xX Nightmare Angel Xx
This thread was made after I read a thread from an Atheist user on Menewsha. I was just wondering, just because I do certain sins am I still considered to be Christian? (Or at least would you consider me to be). Here's some things about me to take into consideration:

I curse a lot
I get into (physical contact) fights
I love metal music
I hate my church with a burning passion
I lie more than you could ever imagine
I commit two of the seven deadly sins
I make fun of people

I don't think I'm terrible, but...Tell me, what would you define as a Christian? A nice person? Would you consider me to be a 'Christian'?

But, I do honestly believe in a higher being. I believe in God. But with all that I do, would I still be considered Christian?

Note: I was curious to see what others thought. Not anyone I really know believes I'm Christian. They think it's a joke >.>

I'm Catholic and I do ALL that PLUS commit all the seven deadly sins AND break the Ten Commandments. I wouldn't worry about it...

Whooo! *high fives* >__<. Good to know I'm not alone on that x]

Javi 06-08-2007 04:58 AM

Religion to me is a weird subject. I am a christian, but I don't follow anything about it, and as I have grown up, I have had doubts about what I have heard about in Church. Though, I do believe in heaven and hell, I don't want to, and I don't tend to follow the comandments, and I don't really... care. I try to be a good person, but, it's hard for me to follow something that I can't really understand. I don't want to follow something, and then in the end, turns out not to be real at all. I want to live my life to the fullest. :?

Javi 06-08-2007 05:01 AM

Also, the thing about you wanting to burn your church... i'm pretty sure that doesn't make you a Christian. :?

Achilles 06-08-2007 05:03 AM

I am kind of just floating out in the world, I have no religion, although I was raised Christian, I drifted away, & I would be filled with Shame if I became christian, I don't follow rules easily, I tend to be more on the Pagan side, but, I don't know. I don't want to claim i'm a certain religion, if im not. I practice what I want, when i want.

Javi 06-08-2007 05:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Achilles
I am kind of just floating out in the world, I have no religion, although I was raised Christian, I drifted away, & I would be filled with Shame if I became christian, I don't follow rules easily, I tend to be more on the Pagan side, but, I don't know. I don't want to claim i'm a certain religion, if im not. I practice what I want, when i want.

You kinda influenced my opinion on Religion, you drifted me away from God alittle, with that thing you said, which I mentioned in my post, about I don't want to follow something that turns out to not exsist in the end.

Achilles 06-08-2007 05:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Achilles
I am kind of just floating out in the world, I have no religion, although I was raised Christian, I drifted away, & I would be filled with Shame if I became christian, I don't follow rules easily, I tend to be more on the Pagan side, but, I don't know. I don't want to claim i'm a certain religion, if im not. I practice what I want, when i want.

You kinda influenced my opinion on Religion, you drifted me away from God alittle, with that thing you said, which I mentioned in my post, about I don't want to follow something that turns out to not exsist in the end.

Mmm, sorry, if it's a bad thing. I know your parents wouldnt exactly approve :P
Well, you can either follow a religion your whole life, christianity being very strict with rules, & hard to follow in the immoral world we live in today, or you can have the kinda fun everyone else is having, you can cuss, drink, be any sexuality, divorce, steal, & die happy. You have a chance of goign to hell afterwards though after, lol. Or what would suck worse, is if you followed a religion your whole life, & some totally different religion was the true one.


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