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I don't like all that mushy stuff. I hate cuddling, I hate getting flowers randomly, I hate having the door opened for me. It just sort of makes me feel helpless, like I can't take care of myself. I guess I'm sort of a tomboy, and I'd rather be 'hanging out' with a guy and his best buds doing stupid guy stuff. That's just how I am. I've never been into the romantic stuff.
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D: I am more than jealous now!
My husband never really did the whole romantic thing. But he went out of his way to spend any extra time he had with me. Which was hard sometimes because we lived a city away for a while and so he would ride his bike, sometimes in the rain for about 30 minutes+ to get to my house where he could spend maybe 15 minutes with me before needing to get home. It was the sweetest thing ever! I think the only time he surprised me with flowers was after I told him I was pregnant :P which I think was more of an 'I'm sorry' than I was thinking about you and saw these and was like awwwww here! wait, I lied, Before our first prom he went hiking and collected every type of wildflower he could find for me. I wish I would have dried them </3 I love romantic types, I keep telling him to be more spontaneous (not that he has to he already married me but it would be nice to keep up the 'awww' factor after marriage) He wrote me a song that we are going to have played at our renewal of vows ceremony and there have been a couple of other things, but not nearly as much as my heart wants. XD I <3 Romantics |
I think guys should always do that ^^ and never think that you should like... put gaps in between sweet things, or get worried abotu doing too much...
do it all the time! cos then the girl usually does it back... i mean my bf, when he does sweet things for me, i do sweet things for him, like i try to cook for him, i write him lots of love letters, poems... he buys me teddy bears and stuff... ^^ never ever decide to do it less so she apreciates it more! cos if your both in love, youl both go full out! ^^ |
My boyfriend does that..... It's great.
Before we started dating, he brought me things.... Flowers, etc. I've personally never before or after found flowers to be that romantic, but they were then. XD He also came to my house and randomly gave me messages...... He's still super-sweet. Neither one of us observes Valentine's Day, though.... And it's not like if we don't do things for each other we get pissed off. More like the day that one of us starts expecting that kind of treatment and taking it for granted is the day that we stop. |
I love it when my boyfriend does random romantic things. :]
They make me feel so happy inside! |
I don't know how I would react. I've never been in the situation before where a guy has tried being romantic -.-'
I guess I would find it sweet but I'd have to laugh first about how cheesy something like singing outside my window... |
Re: Thoughts on Romance
In my perspective, it's better to be yourself - and if you're one of those romantic types, then it's an added bonus. <33
My boyfriend's adorable~<3 He holds my hand down the halls, he know I don't like colliding with people, so while he's holding my hand, he takes the lead so that I don't have to run into people. And when we're entering or leaving a building, he takes the extra second to get ahead of me so that he could open the door. Haha. And then when I get upset and what not, he comes after me, no matter how often I try to shrug him off and no matter how important the thign he was previously involved in was, he'd come after me~ <3 He doesn't do the whole random notes thing, mainly because he can't get into my car or I"m there with him when he can, and he know I don't like candy. xD;;<33 But yeah. He's an adorable guy, and over six foot four inches tall too. xD;;<3 I'm so glad we're together~<3 Anyway. Back to the topic; Romantic things are love~ xD;;<3 I like it when people are themselves. I don't ever want to be caught up in a relationship where the guy thinks he needs to be something they're not. ^^ <3 |
I think the idea of being romantic is cute, but I don’t like it when a random guy tries to do stuff like that. I do like it when my husband does little things like that though.
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Oh my gosh exactly!! Sometimes it can be too much! You want it to come naturally. To be for somewhat special occasions, (sometimes just because IS a special occasion), so that it doesn't just become a thing that happens all the time. |
I ADORE it when a guy stands outside my window && stays there until I see him.
He wanted me to sneak out with him though. Not go on a first date. lmfao. <3 I dunno. I like tulips && if a guy got me tulips. I'd DIE. <3 |
hmmm i think the most important thing to tell a girl is that she's special and beautiful...i love it when guys say that sorta stuff to me..oh yeah and say silly stuff silly random stuff is awsome :)
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