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Would you go to a nudist Beach? O_O
OMG I just talked to a girl in another site who said her FATHER , her brother and her went to a nudist beach ....I almost die Idk it must be me I am kinda delicate on that because I dont like my body much not even to wear a bikini so yeah I have some complexes but....come on...with your dad and your brother? >.< I would die Im very shy and insecure and I think I would never be able to do such thing, I know some parents show up like God send them to this world (naked) in front of their children when they are little...to ...show nature...idk if I agree with that, my parents werent like that with me maybe that is why I am this way, although I have seen mom nacked and i think i saw dad too once but by chance not because they wanted to.
Also she said they were hairy and started to give me details and I wanted to die ....really I said hey you stop that I dont want any details >.< because I felt embarased...sigh... So well I want some opinions about this. Did your parents show themselves naked in front of you? all the time? when you were a child? Did sometime one of your parents had a shower with you both being naked? Is this whole thing dirty? Am I the one with complexes? Have you seen any other member of your family naked like brothers/sisters? if so , was it when you were children? /grown up? Would you let your child see you naked? yes .no why? woudl you go to a nudist beach? Would you wear a bikini? (a tiny one I mean ehehhe lucky you if you would) Does your body embarass you? If you had a perfect body would you go to the nudist beach? Would you go there alone/couple/kids? Well I think I would satisfied if you answer all those questions hehehe xD Thanks for reading |
My dad walks around the house naked. I have managed to get him to put on some clothes before he answers the door though :D
It doesn't really bother me. Being naked's not really something to be ashamed of. I personally don't like beaches, and the idea of going to one naked doesnt' really appeal to me. Sand gets everywhere, and there are some places I'd rather sand didn't go :shock: My body doesn't embarass me, and some days when it's warm I'll sit around the house naked. I just wouldn't really want to go outside like that as apart from it being cold outside, it's not really fair on people who don't approve of nudity in public. I think kids should learn that being naked's not wrong, just that there's a time and a place for it. Nudist places are fine with me, I think it's good that kids can see that there are places where they can run around naked if they want to. |
Hey Trinity, I have neem to a nudist beach before but I only went topless, didn't go the full monty so to speak. I was in a really secluded area of the beach and was able to sunbathe like that with privacy and be unembarassed about it. I don't think its dirty, I just think everyone has different ideas of things and know their limits thats all. I wasn't cool with being nakid but that didn't really matter. I was with friends and we all had a great time together, some were naki and some weren't.
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I don't think I would go to one, I would probably feel uncomfortable around that sort of thing. I guess if I was around a group of people/friends that it felt okay, I would go but probably wouldn't walk around completely nude. And i wouldn't go unless my bf was there to strike out any lechers D;
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Due to me not having confidence in my own body, I wouldn't go a nudist beach, but I see nothing wrong with nudity.
My mother was never naked when I was little. I don't think I've seen her naked, come to think of it. If anything, it was by chance. Sort of like how I remember being really tiny and walking in on my father peeing, but I never saw him naked. It all depends on society and the morals you're taught when you're little, I reckon. I'm not sure why some people are against nudity, but I respect all opinions. Quote:
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Ok well thank you all
I want to clarify a point maybe some of you are misinterpreting and it is that I am not against nudity or anything I just find it embarasing for Me and I know it is beacause of the lack of confidence I have on my own body and because I wasnt taught as freely as some other people, I am not against it at all. Though when It comes to kids, really I dont have an opinion really I dont know what to think, simply because I dont want them to suffer at school for saying "mom goes naked around the house" or things like that, because the average of people where I live would consider that wrong, that's all. |
XD I've taken showers with my monsters, they have all seen me naked, and my husband. They are still really little and won't remember any of this, so it's not a big deal to me. When they get to be a bit older though, I will take more care in being clothed, and I will make Hubby do the same, but for now he is comfortable. And, generally if you grow up in an environment that says being naked is ok, its completely natural it's not such a big deal. I think I grew up like you did, with my parents they were always completely dressed and always had us completely dressed, minus baths. I have seen my sister naked, when she was younger, and there were a couple of times when I had to pull cactus thorns out of her butt XD same with my mom (some people just don't watch where their butt is going!) Oh, I've also done some incision cleaning with my mom that was around one of her breasts, but I never really felt awkward about any of this. I dunno, my husband has kinda taught me that nudity is natural, he wants to go to a nude beach, but I'm not into being naked around other people. So it probably won't happen. at least not with me XD
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Ok thank you Melody =) yeah I let mom see my assie once being like 25 heheh >.< I was so embarased but she said who brought you this world ? dont be stupid!!! heheh because I had a scar and needed to be watched and taken care =D but yeah even with mom I felt like....ggg idont know >.< I think I have seen her more times naked than she saw me...I am a very private person to that matters.
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Well, I've seen both my mom and dad naked, but those times where when I was a kid and showering with them or whatever. And I've seen my sister naked, but again, we were bathing together then we were small.
Nowadays, I don't want to see any of my family members naked. It's just...awkward. I dunno. And probably gross. Xp I myself prefer being clothed, though now that I live alone, sometimes I do walk around naked, but only for brief amounts of time generally. |
sometimes things happen and they need to be taken care of. It's kinda like being a doctor, after a while the sight of the naked body doesn't weird you out and being seen naked isn't so awkward either. a lot of what got me over my fear of being naked was being pregnant. XD since the doctors were always checking 'down there' and so there was no longer a reason to be iffy about it because... it's something I have to go through anyway XD
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My grandparents are nudists and my mother is just starting to try it out herself - and she loves it.
I don't have a problem with the human body, and if it makes her happy to do so, I'm all for it. My mother and I used to get changed and dressed up in the same bathroom, so we're both pretty comfortable around each other. It just doesn't seem like a big deal. I might give nudism a try later in life. Who knows? Some people find it very comfortable and liberating. |
I don't think I would go to a nude beach, because I like to keep my nudity more personal. So I would only show off me in public for art. But I think it's good that nude beaches exist. Good for nudists.
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I went on a school trip to berlin and we went to one of the local lake/ beach thingys. Aaanyway the thing our teachers didn't realise was that the beach had been split in to two areas. Regular Beach and Nudist beach.
We sat on the regular beach but the fencing wan't very high to divide the sections and everytime someone stood up, well you can imagine. A quote from one of the guys we were with " Its like seeing multiples of my grandmother nekkid* insert eye twitching scarred for lifeness here*" XD |
Maybe it's my repressed British nature showing through. But I don't think it's right for a Father to see his adult daughter naked. In some situations, that could lead to very bad things. But like I said, that's just me opinion.
I don't have an issue with same sex nudity between generations, though I certainly wouldn't want to see my Mum with no clothes on, and I wouldn't strip off in front of her either. Most people are brought up that it's not right to expose yourself in public after a certain age and it's deeply ingrained in most of us I think. I think for most people nakedness is reserved for the bedroom/bathroom. I have no issue with nudists though, if they want to let it all hang out then good for them, but families who encourage it, should also explain to their children that it's not the done thing outside of the house.. |
I agree with Jelly. I certainly don't feel it's proper for a father to see his adult daughter naked. I have never seen my father naked at all.
My mother has seen me and I've seen her but that to me is different. We are the same sex and she's had to help me take a bath when I had some surgery and couldn't do it myself. I would never be able to go to a nude beach as I'm just not comfortable with that. I am a private person in that regard and am not comfortable with it. |
Personally, I love being naked, alone or in comfortable company. Most all of my friends are nudists at heart, as am I, so we're all very comfortable being naked together, either just hanging out or swimming or whatever. I am selective about who I'm naked around though, not all people are respectful of the body being a non-sexual thing. No reason to encourage sexual objectification.
I find that American culture, in general, is terrified by bodies, which I think has a lot to do with our Platonic heritage. (That which is less physical is more pure, more perfect i.e. God, and that with is more physical is less pure, less perfect i.e. humans and animals.) I think the fear of sexuality and the body, extreme perversions, and the over emphasis on sexuality in the media are all aspects of this body fear. We all have bodies, so why are we so afraid of them, or self-conscious of them? I don't think it needs to be this way. I think a lot of people's self-consciousness comes from under exposure to a wide variety of natural bodies. All we see are these heavily pushed, idealized images of bodies portrayed in a sexual manner, so it not hard to see why we feel so insecure about out own. I think it's great for parents to be naked if they want and to expose their kids to real, non-sexual bodies. That's the really important bit, the non-sexuality of it. When you're naked as a matter of course, sexuality drops away from the body, and it becomes as casual as wearing clothes. Then it doesn't matter what sex you are. You're just naked people hanging out with other naked people. |
That's true, most people do equate nakedness with sex.
I wonder though, women who spend a lot of time naked..their boobs must get saggy awfully quickly ._. |
Some people have naturally perky boobs >.> like people who haven't breast fed 3 kids. OH! that's another thing that irks me about American society, I get leered and gawked at when I breast fed my daughter in public. She had to eat, we were out, I sat down on a bench and fed her. I had a blanket over myself/her so nothing was visible but people were still noticeably uncomfortable with it. why? It's a mother feeding her child. It's not indecent at all. It's the most natural thing. I hated the looks people would give me about it.
I do agree with the more you are naked the less sexuality you associate with the body. My husband used to go crazy when I would walk around naked, now it's normal. Though perhaps I'm just not as attractive as I used to be! XD *pokes belly* |
No-one's naturally perky all their lives though, skin starts to lose its elasticity once a woman hits her mid 20's, it's all downhill after that :(
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I'd go to a nudist beach just for the experience. I'd probably go topless, but I have no idea if I'd be able to take it all off. It's just something that depends on the people I'm with, my comfort level, and the entire mood of the place. I've had friends tell me about their experiences on European nudist beaches, saying that it was all very relaxing and not at all sexual. No one leered or stared at anyone else. As long as that sort of courtesy/nonchalance exists, I might just be fine with it.
I come from a very, very strict family. Nudity isn't something to be shared with others. Nothing to be embarrassed about, but noting to be flaunted either. I haven't the slightest idea how my parents would react to any of this... |
*looks down*Lord don't I know it jelly :lol:
Now on topic... My son is 8 now and I don't traipse around the house naked in front of him or get dressed while he is in the room. I think at a certain age this becomes inappropriate. Now with my daughter that's different because of course she is female. I have never seen, nor do I ever want to see my father naked. Myself I would never go to a nudist beach or run around in public in my birthday suit. Then again I might get paid to put my clothes back on :wink: Personally I see nothing wrong with mothers breastfeeding their babies. The only time that ever made me uncomfortable was when I worked at Walmart many years ago and a woman came in and sat the baby on the counter still attached to her breast. She wasn't holding the child, just stuck it up there so she would have her hands free. Maybe that was what weirded me out...that and seeing her chee chee, which I didn't need. There's enough weirdness at Walmart on a good day. |
Lol that was a weird story Jesus!!!! I wouldnt like to see that.
@Melody yes I know what you mean I have a friend with a baby and whenever we are out and she has to stop to feed the baby even with the blanket I have to calm her down because she is all scared and even she told me she was scared at the begining that some guard would come and tell her something against doin that on a bench and so she used to go to the bathrooms to feed the baby and I told her that was awfull and that I would help her and so everytime we go out i support her by looking back at stupid people I even told a stupid guy " havent you ever seen a mother feeding her child???? " in an angry voice heh ..her ran away scared hahaha we laughed after that. |
Creepy.
XD Wow... That... Is creepy. o_O It's one thing to see your parent of the same gender naked, that's not a big deal if I happen to walk in the room when my mom is getting dressed or something, but the opposite gender... No, just no. D: I wouldn't want to see my dad naked. I hate it if I happen to walk in and he's in his underwear. It's disturbing. XD That's really weird, to go with family members to a nude beach... It just sounds wrong to me. D: But I wouldn't want to go to a nude beach at all, I'd be embarrassed, and I wouldn't want to see a bunch of other naked people either.
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I'd NEVER go to a Nudist beach! Never would I expose my body to anyone I didn't know! I mean, some creepy old man could be there just to see young topless girls! And naked with your brother and father? Make me sick, much? I'm not saying nudists are wrong or that I am against them or anything, I just find it really odd, embaressing, and for me, disgusting!
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