Any kind of rough play, especially breath play. Hubby has military training so he's got some "killer" moves. ;) (Argh! He's gone for another week and I just got myself excited thinking about it. :x Not good, LOL!)

Heh, I can imagine he will get a 'warm welcome'. xD

Heheh, good clothing can be surprisingly tough to rip, interestingly enough. Especially if it is hand-made, those tend to have more heavily-stitches seams.

LMAO ... always. Never quite as warm as when he came back from his 15-month tour. Damn near burnt the house down. :twisted:

yay! finally some dominants in this thread. i finally feel like i have something in common with the people in this thread. i didn't realize that submissives outnumbered dominants, but that explains why i was having a hard time finding somebody who likes domination in a relationship in this thread.

and kale dragonheart, you have exactly my kind of taste. i relate to everything you said, and agree with your taste completely.

as to the being more honest on-line comment, i've tried to be honest to people irl about my fetishes, especially since i tell my friends anything anyways. but people irl, even friends, don't seem to understand my fetishes, or look at me like i'm a freak when i tell them. that's why i tend to be more honest on-line. i feel that an on-line community is more open, honest, and tolerant, and won't judge people the same way as irl. also, unlike an on-line community, you often have to see people irl everyday, or often enough that it can get awkward if you said something embarrassingly intimate to them. so, that's basically the reason why i can tell intimate details of myself on-line that i would never try to explain to people irl.

In my personal opinion, to hell with it, that's what insurance is for. xD

Isn't it weird how people react when they hear about fetishes? I would venture a guess that most people have at least one ... they don't have to be "kinky" like people think they do. Someone mentioned necks or something like that; often it's just a particular body part that gets people turned on.

But yes, I don't mention my fetishes outside of the bedroom, because I hate the reactions I get. It actually took me forever to convince my husband that not only was it OK for him to be a little dominant ( :roll: ), it was what I wanted. Actually, I wanted a lot dominant. It took six years to get him to the level I wanted, but he finally learned.

Yay!

I have a vampire fetish and thanks to my girlfriend my costume fetish is growing on me.

Mmmm, vampires. How could I forget to mention that one! xD

I too like costumes. I'd have to say my fetish would be roleplay and dress up (irl rp...not online rp ^-^)I prefer to take submissive roles though...almost to the point of 'consensual rape'

There are so many interesting people here! I did not know that there were even real people into some of these things, it's cool! I'd never even considered that there were people that would actually enjoy some of the things that my mind tosses out.

Ah, when it comes to talking about it in public, I keep my mouth shut. What happens in private, I keep private. Unless I'm drunk, of course, in which case I don't care so much.
Though one of my mates still looked at me a bit funny when I mentioned my fondness for school uniform. Liking ties and blazers doesn't make me a perv or a paedo, honestly... then again, two minutes later HE was talking about getting buggered by Debbie Harry with a strap-on, so he's one to talk. (We agreed, despite the lot of us being gay, that yeah, we'd all do Debbie Harry, 'cause she's that damn awesome.)

But I'm drifting now.

I have a few friend who have furry fetish and some who have cat girl / Dog boy fetished.

As for me, ha uhm.. Well I prefer the whole rough play thing. Like pushing/ shoving, clawing/ scrathing, Bittig/ nipping and so on. Slapping my play partner often is always fun lol.


I love dressing in costume or just random clothing to get random looks and people to shake their heads at me. Sometimes I get an approval nod from some guys. lol

Heheh, I get a kick out of wearing a random set of ears around, just to see how people react. I should really make / acquire a matching tail, that would make it even better.

lol, that's good training. as for me, i don't think i could ever act out my fantasies irl. many of my fantasies are extreme, and potentially hazardous and dangerous. i don't think i could ever inflict that much pain on somebody, even if it was consensual. so, as much as my fantasies appeal to me, that's exactly what they are fantasies. i honestly don't find them suitable at all for irl scenarios.

Just out of personal curiosity, if you don't mind talking about it, what do you define as your personal comfort level with regard to dominance, Mischief? I just like getting the general idea of what others' guidelines are.

Wow, there are a lot more dominant people on here, than submissive, or at least more than I ever see. Pretty refreshing, since most of my friends (and myself) are all very submissive. XD

I mentioned a while back that I liked scarves, the only one I would share, but as I see people being more open and honest, it compels me to also be so. ^^;

I'm surprised by how many different fetishes there are, they're really interesting! I too have a thing for boy's school uniforms, but not seeing them on other people - I like to wear one. :D

I'm also into nicer men's clothing, but not exactly suits. I like men in suits, but I really just like white collared dress shirts the most. They don't actually have to be white, but there's something innocent and pure about white, especially on someone who isn't innocent and pure. Put that with a pair of decent jeans, particularly bell bottoms that lift the ass up a little, and I'm purring. I wear those too, those shirts, and those jeans. ^_^ Or rather, my jeans have a mild flare. XD

I have a clothing fetish I guess... >>;

I also am into guns. NOT loaded guns, but...the idea of one pointed at my genitals kind of turns me on. >>; And the reason I even got into that was because of an episode of Queer as Folk...XD It was the only time I actually got horny watching that show...XD

I'm also into spanking, but that's the one I'm always extremely embarassed about. ^^; I just like it...

Rough, agressiveness, going both ways, is extremally hot.

Okay, I appologize this thread had been trashed by another mod but I got it back up for you after some discussions.

I added the warning that it's mature and anybody who posts graphical comments from here-on forth will have them edited to the moderator's discretion.

Ok, no laughing....

I have a thing for big noses!!! :oops: Ok, I know it's weird but it really is true!! Jeff Goldblum has the best schnauz I have seen lately.

Don't ask, you don't want to know! LOL

My hubby has that foot/shoe thing going on. It's kinda weird but I gotta tell ya, I have the best collection of shoes and stockings in my town!!! LOL

Typical things.
Hair pulling, nails, roughness... xD
I prefer tieing my man up D< But he doesn't like it sooo yeah o.o