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plux 10-13-2007 04:53 PM

how confident are you?
 
& do you think it's easier to talk to people online than in real life?

I know some people who are terrified of talking to strangers in real life but are fine chatting on here. And others who are the opoosite - love talking in real life but are scared about posting topics on a forum like this.

I myself think i'm confident in both places. I'm much more confident online of course, because i think everyone's here to talk to strangers and it feels more welcoming. But still, in real life i'm fine talking to someone i've never met before, and i love acting and stuff. So i'd say I'M pretty confident.


What about you? Confident or not?

[Dead.Angel] 10-13-2007 04:56 PM

I think its about the same =/ I used to be really shy xD But now im a bit more outgoing... I think im a little better online but my online and real life personality's tend to be different

Connie 10-13-2007 04:57 PM

I'm not that confident with people offline, but I'm friendly to people. I tend to whisper and look down, but when I do talk I'm upfront and kind. Online I have a better chance to look over what I'm saying before I say it, and I appreciate that. I can do that in real life, too, but I end up responding a little too late, and with a little too much depth for a simple conversation.

Komitadjie 10-13-2007 04:58 PM

I guess I don't really have any hangups talking to people either online or in real life. I do tend to be a tad more opinionated online as most people are, but overall I'd say it's about even.

One nice thing about talking to people online, though, is that you can get a much wider field of opinion on a subject. It's not hard to find people to discuss something from another part of the world, whereas in person you're more or less limited to a very small demographic.

`Rawr 10-13-2007 04:59 PM

Quote:

& do you think it's easier to talk to people online than in real life?

I know some people who are terrified of talking to strangers in real life but are fine chatting on here. And others who are the opoosite - love talking in real life but are scared about posting topics on a forum like this.

I myself think i'm confident in both places. I'm much more confident online of course, because i think everyone's here to talk to strangers and it feels more welcoming. But still, in real life i'm fine talking to someone i've never met before, and i love acting and stuff. So i'd say I'M pretty confident.


What about you? Confident or not?
Of course its easier to talk to people online than face to face.

and yeah its hard for me to talk to new people IRL

Butterfly-Trance 10-13-2007 05:01 PM

I believe that I am more confident online. I think it's easier to talk to someone over the internet because they can't harm you or anything.

Talking to someone in real life is not that easy for me. I don't really like talking to strangers because I'm afraid of what they might do. It's really a matter of trust with me

Teeth 10-13-2007 05:01 PM

I'm pretty sure just about everyone is more confident towards talking to people over the internet as opposed to talking to people in real life.
I mean, c'mon. You're miles away from the person on the internet, plus you have time to think about what you'll say/type. And, they can't see you so you don't have to worry about what you look like. :3
I, personally, hate talking to strangers. I've been on the internet for so long its becoming hard for me to even speak with my friends. :/
Damn internet. <3
I am a shy person when it comes to talking to strangers, but totally confident when it comes to net-speaking. :3
E.G.G. I can totally talk cooly to the guy I have a crush on over MSN, but I could NEVER talk to him face to face! D:

Majinkoz 10-13-2007 05:02 PM

I have no problem talking to people on-line I mean...they're most likely never going to meet you or anything. But at the same time I have no problem talking to people in person...I'm generally a very outgoing person. :P

Nissa 10-13-2007 05:02 PM

I have no problem talking to people online or off. If I had to pick one though I'd say I had a harder time online. You can't get a feel for their emotions or anything online.

plux 10-13-2007 05:04 PM

[quote="Butterfly-TranceI believe that I am more confident online. I think it's easier to talk to someone over the internet because they can't harm you or anything.

Talking to someone in real life is not that easy for me. I don't really like talking to strangers because I'm afraid of what they might do. It's really a matter of trust with me/quote]

Yeah, i thinkt the fact that you can't get beaten up on the internet plays a big part to it too. Sometimes if you run up to a stranger and say hi they could easily just punch you in the face xDDD

Bubblegum 10-13-2007 05:08 PM

I can hardly talk to people in real life. I have a severe case of foot-in-mouth disease. x__x;;
I mainly post on forums like this because I get much more time to think about what I say. The fact that I don't really know the people I'm talking to makes it a little easier.
I guess on the internet, it's not really a judge of appearance, it's a judge of intelligence. And if I can think about what I say, I sound a little more intelligent than if I just blurt something out in real life.

Elmira Swift 10-13-2007 05:17 PM

When I was younger, I was pretty shy. Online chatting is fine, but I prefer talking to people directly. Otherwise, I start to feel like I live in a cave.

P l a s t i c D o l l y 10-13-2007 05:31 PM

Its easier online xD

I'm a teeny bit shy at first irl, but that usually goes away after a few minutes.

woopdidoodoo 10-13-2007 05:37 PM

I am really confident in real life and online, it doesn't bother me as I can talk to just about anyone without much trouble. Though I don't have much self confidence meaning I don't believe in myself that much or trust myself too well.

Friday 10-13-2007 05:39 PM

Lately I've been a real confident person. I don't even know why, but I'm as open as the doorway to Hell, now.

cloita 10-13-2007 05:43 PM

I guess I am confident in a way. I don't mind talking to people I don't know outside but only if they talk to me first. Of course you get nervous asking about anything when your in a shop because you feel stupid. I'm most confident when I'm online though. I find it weird though how people can get bullied through texts or messages online.

charis_mae 10-13-2007 05:43 PM

I'm more confident about talking to people online, until there's a misunderstanding. And then I'm totally lost because I usually have no clue what they misinterpreted--I can't see how they reacted to each part of what they said, I only see what they chose to respond with.


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