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how confident are you?
& do you think it's easier to talk to people online than in real life?
I know some people who are terrified of talking to strangers in real life but are fine chatting on here. And others who are the opoosite - love talking in real life but are scared about posting topics on a forum like this. I myself think i'm confident in both places. I'm much more confident online of course, because i think everyone's here to talk to strangers and it feels more welcoming. But still, in real life i'm fine talking to someone i've never met before, and i love acting and stuff. So i'd say I'M pretty confident. What about you? Confident or not? |
I think its about the same =/ I used to be really shy xD But now im a bit more outgoing... I think im a little better online but my online and real life personality's tend to be different
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I'm not that confident with people offline, but I'm friendly to people. I tend to whisper and look down, but when I do talk I'm upfront and kind. Online I have a better chance to look over what I'm saying before I say it, and I appreciate that. I can do that in real life, too, but I end up responding a little too late, and with a little too much depth for a simple conversation.
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I guess I don't really have any hangups talking to people either online or in real life. I do tend to be a tad more opinionated online as most people are, but overall I'd say it's about even.
One nice thing about talking to people online, though, is that you can get a much wider field of opinion on a subject. It's not hard to find people to discuss something from another part of the world, whereas in person you're more or less limited to a very small demographic. |
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I believe that I am more confident online. I think it's easier to talk to someone over the internet because they can't harm you or anything.
Talking to someone in real life is not that easy for me. I don't really like talking to strangers because I'm afraid of what they might do. It's really a matter of trust with me |
I'm pretty sure just about everyone is more confident towards talking to people over the internet as opposed to talking to people in real life.
I mean, c'mon. You're miles away from the person on the internet, plus you have time to think about what you'll say/type. And, they can't see you so you don't have to worry about what you look like. :3 I, personally, hate talking to strangers. I've been on the internet for so long its becoming hard for me to even speak with my friends. :/ Damn internet. <3 I am a shy person when it comes to talking to strangers, but totally confident when it comes to net-speaking. :3 E.G.G. I can totally talk cooly to the guy I have a crush on over MSN, but I could NEVER talk to him face to face! D: |
I have no problem talking to people on-line I mean...they're most likely never going to meet you or anything. But at the same time I have no problem talking to people in person...I'm generally a very outgoing person. :P
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I have no problem talking to people online or off. If I had to pick one though I'd say I had a harder time online. You can't get a feel for their emotions or anything online.
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[quote="Butterfly-TranceI believe that I am more confident online. I think it's easier to talk to someone over the internet because they can't harm you or anything.
Talking to someone in real life is not that easy for me. I don't really like talking to strangers because I'm afraid of what they might do. It's really a matter of trust with me/quote] Yeah, i thinkt the fact that you can't get beaten up on the internet plays a big part to it too. Sometimes if you run up to a stranger and say hi they could easily just punch you in the face xDDD |
I can hardly talk to people in real life. I have a severe case of foot-in-mouth disease. x__x;;
I mainly post on forums like this because I get much more time to think about what I say. The fact that I don't really know the people I'm talking to makes it a little easier. I guess on the internet, it's not really a judge of appearance, it's a judge of intelligence. And if I can think about what I say, I sound a little more intelligent than if I just blurt something out in real life. |
When I was younger, I was pretty shy. Online chatting is fine, but I prefer talking to people directly. Otherwise, I start to feel like I live in a cave.
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Its easier online xD
I'm a teeny bit shy at first irl, but that usually goes away after a few minutes. |
I am really confident in real life and online, it doesn't bother me as I can talk to just about anyone without much trouble. Though I don't have much self confidence meaning I don't believe in myself that much or trust myself too well.
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Lately I've been a real confident person. I don't even know why, but I'm as open as the doorway to Hell, now.
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I guess I am confident in a way. I don't mind talking to people I don't know outside but only if they talk to me first. Of course you get nervous asking about anything when your in a shop because you feel stupid. I'm most confident when I'm online though. I find it weird though how people can get bullied through texts or messages online.
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I'm more confident about talking to people online, until there's a misunderstanding. And then I'm totally lost because I usually have no clue what they misinterpreted--I can't see how they reacted to each part of what they said, I only see what they chose to respond with.
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