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wish 11-25-2007 01:28 AM

  • I don't trust.. :/

Eserel 11-25-2007 01:49 AM

I have very little trust in people.
They are unpredictable.
You have no idea when they will turn on you.
It also has to do like when I was a child.
Total backfire of a friendship.
Best of friends,
Then worst of enemies.
My trust pretty much died from then.
:33

Lsaylor 11-25-2007 01:54 AM

wish: Sorry to Hear that. :/

Eserel: Hah. guessing it was a childhood friend? Those hurt that most. when a childhood friend hurts you. :?

Eserel 11-25-2007 01:58 AM

@Lsaylor;;
Yeah.
We were neighbors and everything.
Pretty lame.

Lsaylor 11-25-2007 02:09 AM

Awie. xD~! thats cute.
thats how me and my friend is.
Cept we dun talk alot anymore.
Shes Into Sex, cigs, and everything.
and i HATE that stuff.
D; so we mostly talk at school in the hallways or smething. x]

manic monochrome 11-25-2007 03:11 AM

i don't trust people.
not only because i've been lied to,
but because i prefer not getting close to people.
i don't really see a reason to trust anyone
because it usually ends badly.

sushi toshi 11-25-2007 03:13 AM

it really takes me...hmmm...a .....


umm.....




a year or 2?


my friend says it takes a day or 2

or 3.

im like, ok...

SweetLilKitten 11-25-2007 03:16 AM

I rarely ever trust someone... its probably the hardest thing someone will ever try to do...

Gain my trust..

I trust Like one person right now in my life and I only trust him because he's given me reason too. and the sad thing is hes one of my newest friends..

I think it depends a lot on who they are and how much they decide they want to effect your life.... My friend cares for me more then anything.. and I him out trust is good... we never lie to one another or anything

My lack of trust is because I was naive.. I gave the benefit of the doubt to everyone and didn't think people would hurt me as they have.... people are cruel.. Trust is a precious gift.. I think people often forget that

Lsaylor 11-25-2007 03:34 AM

i made a good topic. :']<3

manic: i see youve prob been hurt before badly and not trust anyone anymore. but there is always some one you can trust. [P.s good job Making it in teh highest top earners. xD]

sushi: haha my friends do that. i usly say k and walk off. >.>

sweet: id ifyouve seen this person. "Gush" on here. Hes my New friend. and i trust him alot. and ive only known him for about 2-3 days. x3~! ad i trust him alot more then lot of people i know. O-o; and im gald you have some one like that. like share everything and not get hurt. =/

Gush 11-25-2007 04:33 AM

For me, it's an action that makes me trust someone.

If they do something, that truly makes me believe they are a kind and good person, I will trust them.

Lsaylor 11-25-2007 04:40 AM

<_<
stalker.

ilynate.
:]

fuyumi_saito 11-25-2007 04:44 AM

It depends on the person to be honest. If they are open, I am open in return.

Takuto 11-25-2007 04:53 AM

Well like all close friends in high school, you trust them. Sadly, sometime trusting someone too much could screw you over.

Once I had to do a huge chemistry paper for homework and I had no time to do it. (work, sports, cleaning, etc.) I asked my friend if she could do the homework for one day. *since I do it probably all of the time!* She says that she can handle it. Of course I feel good. The pressure is off of my shoulder and I'm sleeping fine. Then at 4am in the morning, she calls me telling me that she doesn't understand it. There's only two more hours until school started. She finally got a look at the paper this late. Of course I become furious.

She's still my friend but the trust has not been the same. I guess you can't trust someone for an amount of time. It's just your concious or morals that can determine who you can or cannot trust.

Wynna 11-25-2007 05:30 AM

I really don't know, I've never actually thought of trust. I think for me, it's just a feeling inside me that knows whether or not I can trust this person. Like my twin, I can tell everything too, (even though he is a horrible gossip queen), but my sister I can't tell anything too. I don't know really.

mystic kiwi 11-25-2007 11:30 AM

Normally it takes me years. I don’t trust easy. If someone doesn’t give me a reason to trust them I normally, don’t trust them. The only person I fully trust is my husband. My so called friends never gave me a reason to fully trust them because at one point they’ve all back stabbed me.

memarcus 11-25-2007 11:43 AM

i'm a very trusting person, so it takes a pretty drastic action for me not to trust someone. i guess since people are so trusting and honest towards me, i have no reason not to return the favor.

Tension 11-25-2007 01:44 PM

  • first minute. i'm too trusting.

    then again, i dont get hurt. if you know what i mean.

neon666 11-25-2007 04:19 PM

it depends for me i find it very hard to trust because i have been lied to so much...
but if its just trusting for me to be safe most people earn this from me i guess

if its trusting all round as in with my life and full on friendship
it takes ages in fact i doubt any of my friends truly have that even now..even after like 5 years

if a person has betrayed me once they will never have my trust again i and they might think they do but deep down if i was hanging off a cliff and a total stranger and the betraying person were there i would shout for the stranger lol(tee hee i am so cruel)

because i know they would do everything
in their power to save me and hold no grudges only the means to save me!!!

sorry guys...if your reading this lol
love ya really xxxx
i find it hard to trust because of a painful past

i make myself sound so bad but dont worry i ain't really...i wont bite...honestly...well not hard enough to rip flesh...okay maybe flesh but not bone...but to be honest who can bite bone...maybe i should try sometime...

okay i will go now before i make myself out to be insane well more insane than i actually am...which ain't really possible...aarrrghh shut up neon!!!

good luck with your thread :lol:

[L]ove[H]ate 11-25-2007 04:31 PM

It depends really....it takes awhile that way I can get to know them and what not.

Rheks 11-25-2007 05:06 PM

Well it kinda depends really I mean if you think a one of your friends is a little werid or something and you feel I dont really trust them you'd probably have to wait awhile to see if you can trust them.

Aurora 11-25-2007 06:45 PM

Well for me...I don't really know..usually you can tell if someone is trustworthy or not..but sometimes you cant. I trust my friends that I have..soo..yea..^^

Karine 11-25-2007 06:51 PM

Maybe 2 years as well. Or, if they off this kind of feeling, like you destined to be close friends, you know? Like, i have an internet friend, and even though i've only known her for around 2 months, she's my best friend. ^^ <3 But my RL friends are close as well. [known them since i started going to school, so around 9 years. *__*]

Star-Chan 11-25-2007 06:53 PM

Well...

for me, it takes quite awhile. They have to be really close friends, and have to be really kind for me to even think about them. X__X

I remember when I had lend some gold on Gaia to one of my friends, and when I asked him for it (I was going to quit, but I changed my mind), he gave all of it back. ^w^

And for being so nice and trusting, I sent him 30k and gave him some other stuff. ;O

I can't trust anyone on Gaia, it's just not the same anymore. u__u

ANYWAYS, it takes a few months of honesty and friendship... LOL

~Star-Chan


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