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Wow. I have no words for this.
I am currently volunteering at a local preschool for credits at my school, instead of taking Spanish or competing a four-year program. The school provides me transportations---which means I am stuck on the bus with about six or seven other people. Some who go to work, and some who take classes at a different school.
There is this kid. He fits the stereotype of a jackass. 1) He has been dating this girl since the beginning of the school year. Or that is what he has been telling the girl for the past few months. He told the people on the bus that he was not dating her, and planned to leave her once he left for the Marines. Which would be understandable... If it was not for the fact that the he told the girl that he loves her, and that he plans to have a long-distance relationship with her. (I talk to this girl on occasion.) I ran into in the school's library awhile back. A few days before he told the group of teenage that he was not dating her, etc. She told me that she knew he loved her because of the way he said it, and that they were going to try to make the long-distance relationship works. Today he admitted he is only dating her because she is good in bed. He has this dream world where he thinks he is going to screw all these girls once the Marines start sending him places. (Again, I think this is all talk and no action.) 2) He is also "seeing" this girl in England and plans to see her during the summer. I am curious to know if the other girl knows about this girl, or vice versa. Still, it is rude to play two girls when you plan on screwing around in the future. 3) All he talks about is in sex life. You can not talk to him without him going on and on about this woman that he had sex with. Apparently he has had sex with someone who was sixteen, seventeen, twenty, twenty-six, and thirty-one. I do not believe him at all. If you tell him to stop? "Well, at least I had sex!" o_O 4) If you are not white, he hates you. He spends third period belittling other races. 5) He dumped his old girlfriend after he bought her a Prom ticket. The problem? It was two days before the prom. The girlfriend gave him the money. But he refused to give her the ticket. (Only Juniors and Seniors can buy tickets.) That's not all of it. It is just all I can remember right now. How do you deal with idiots, etc? Do you know know any? What are you opinions on people who cheat or play around in relationships? What are your opinions on people who lie? What about people who insist on talking about their sex life? |
Oh my god..What a disgusting jerk...
I have never dealed with someone that bad. Maybe just tell him that he's ugly, hypocrite, and you hope he catches an std someday. >_< Well.. That's not nice.. I don't really know how you can deal with him other than maybe listening to music while you are on the bus or something so you don't have to hear him. Try to sit as far away from him as you can. |
I'd tell the girlfriend and be prepared to take a bat on the bus next time.
Even if she didn't believe me, she'd find out eventually. Better to try then to let the poor girl be heart broken. He seems like someone who was dropped on his head a little to many times as a baby. >_____>; People who like to talk about how many times they got "banged" seriously get on my nerves. Like I care if you had sex or how many "womenz" you banged last night. Keep it to your god for saken self please. All it does it make it seem like you're a phony. Besides maybe he has gotten laid with all those girls,except it wasn't free. ;] I'd just ignore him on the bus honestly, if he talked just look the other way or converse yourself with another. |
You might want to tell this girl, if you're friends with her. But then I don't know the extent of your involvement in this so I'll keep my mouth shut.
But he sounds like a jackass. The 'at least I've had sex' thing to me translates into 'at least I'm a selfish, manipulative little prick who's compensating for a lifetime of p#$%s envy.' |
What a bastard.
I'd try my best to ignore people like that. sad how there's probably 1,000 people out there just like him. u_u Did you try telling his gf that he's a complete jackass? =/ |
That is horrible.
He is despicable. If it were me I would have slapped his face. ^ ^ But that is me and my impulsive-ness-ness. But still he is a jerk. If you feel you should tell his girlfriend.. That is up to you. I mean I would want to spare her. |
I would tell the girlfriend if it was not for the fact that I don't really know her that well, or what I would say to her in the first place. See, she knows me mainly on the fact that we keep running in to each other in the school's library. The times I have talked to her haven't been that long. I am not good at being the bearer of bad news.
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These days I end up talking to my friend. The problem is that this kid thinks it is funny to go up to him, hit him, and walk away. My friend and I end up staring at each other for about ten minutes. It is just random. I'm glad I'm not the type. He doesn't date girl he considers: "fat, ugly, or fucked up in the head." Thank god for the fact I'm insane. |
Wow he sounds like such an amazing guy. Any girl would be lucky to fall in love with him. Especially since it's like a package deal. You sleep with him, you've slept with about a dozen other people to. I mean, the more the merrier right?!
Anyways, enough sarcasm from me. I know a few people who are cheaters in relationships. A lot of the time they say they do so because the person they are with are not giving them what they need physically or emotionally but for some reason they still desire to be with them. Sometimes it's because they're afraid of losing the person that they've grown accustomed to having. While the other ones haven't left because what the person ca offer them is difficult to replace. Though, I also know someone who is married, with child and cheats on his wife regularly. And his explanation? He's only there for the child, not his wife. He wants to provide his kid with what society says a child needs in his life: two loving parents who are joined in marriage. My opinion on cheaters are that they just shouldn't be in a committed relationship. Or, at least one that doesn't include an open relationship along with it. I do think, however, that in a relationship you should set guidelines of what is acceptable to do and what isn't. Some people think that by having a "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" means that person is devoted to you one hundred percent. Though, some people in their past experiences with relationships were allowed to still mess around with others or flirt other people because the boundaries that were set. Thanks to them being used to that, the next person they are with will need to break them out of that. Hint hint, that's why you need to set some ground rules. |
How do you deal with idiots, etc?
If it doesn't concern me, I don't bother. I don't wanna get caught in any girl drama... Trust me, it's really stupid. Do you know know any? Yes. I know one kid who insults people and thinks he's like the best singer, the most handsome, and the best artist. He's dead serious. And whenever teachers come, he acts all nice, all the teachers like this son of a female dog. Most of the kids think he's retarded 'cause he doesn't realize what a jackarse he's being. He also has really wierd hobbies and does this wierd thing with his neck all the time... No one at all likes him, one time my friend was standing next to him and she's pretending to talk to someone else and she said really loudly "***** is such a CHEATER!", cause he actually does cheat on tests, everyone sees him. She said that like 10 times and he never heard her, it's so funny. What are you opinions on people who cheat or play around in relationships? I think it's crappy. No one should ever get played, or play someone else. I know this jackarse who was dating 2 girls at once, and they were both in the same class, and both cousins. Unbelievable! What are your opinions on people who lie? Umm... in this case, a person who lies to someone, but tells the truth to others? I don't know... Lol. What about people who insist on talking about their sex life? They're lying of course. If they don't tell you the person's name and where to find them so that you can ask them yourself, they're lying. They just WISH they banged a bunch of girls. |
I personally think that people who mislead others in regards to love are jerks. I had a friend who also had an [email protected]# of a boyfriend and who cheated with other girls while telling her he loved her. There were other circumstances in that relationship that differed from your story, but basically it was still the same idea. My friend was very torn up from that, but luckily after they broke up and after some time, she got a new bf who actually loved her.
I'm not too sure what you would do in your situation, since you don't know her too well. If I had heard him say that stuff directly in front of me, then I guess I'd probably be really pissed, and try to tell her anyway. I wouldn't go out and say "your bf is a cheating @#@$" since she'd probably not believe it and get defensive. Maybe lighten the wording so that it doesn't sound like you're attacking her bf. |
This might sound rude, but maybe if everyone just ignored him when he talked about that stuff, maybe he'll stop. Idk though...D:
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I agree with Fuyumi. Just get some headphones and don't listen to that failure. xD I would not get involved if I were you, since you're not close friends with her. One guy on this other site I go to brags about his trip to Japan. He says that all the girls there wanted him because he was a foreigner and now he has a gf over there. He also has a gf in the States. He's short, wide, and very unnatractive, so I don't believe a word he says. He is also rude, annoying, etc, so his personality isn't great either. But if it's true, good for him, I hope I never have to talk to him again. People who insist on talking about their sex life probably don't have a sex life. They also don't have any self-respect. Oh well, let them think they're cool. |
Bring yo musical device on the bus and tune that motherfucker out.
You should tell the girlfriend... or at least have someone else tell her. She has a right to know. It's only the polite thing to do to tell someone that their boyfriend is a fucking idiot. |
OH. That boy has crossed the line. Someone should tell him how, how, ridiculous he sounds and/or acts. I know someone like him that goes to my school. Hes arrogant, hes disrespectful, and if you even try to be friends with him you end up getting hurt(unless you are too blind to notice how mean he is). I just can't stand people so self-confident that they think they are above all the people around them. Especially boys. One time he had the nerve to smack one of my friends across the head with his binder. I was so pissed but my friend got to him first. The worst part was he acted like he was a victim. And he tattles on everyone. I wish someone had the guts to tell him off.
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What a jerk. That's nasty. Just ignore him. Or if I were you, I'd flip him off, and be like "Shut the fuck up, you insufferable bastard. I don't wanna hear about your bogus sex life." But that's just me. x]
I know PLENTY of idiots, and I usually just ignore them. But if they get in my face...oooh. Flip-off time. xD Only when the teachers aren't looking. ;] |
Oh man!
Yeah seriously, what a jerk....but sadly there are people out there like that and he's NOT the only one, there are MANY men and women that are like that... And even though he may be screwing and screwing over guys and especially girls right now in the end he is probably going to be one of those lonely bachelors that never get married and are found talking to a phone personality... People like that never truly learn their lesson and it will ALWAYS come back around and bite them in the ass. ^^ I would say don't worry TOO much about it because you can't really change the way people like him think or act. But I guess if you really wanted to make him mad or get back at him you could always find this girl that he was 'dating' and tell her about the OTHER girl in europe and about how all he says is that, 'you're good in bed' and 'i'm going to break up with her after I leave, no long distance relationship' But sadly with doing that you'll probably hurt the girl...but in the end I honestly think that, that is probably the best thing, you don't want this girl to have to go through anymore hurt that she is already going through... |
I hate people who do those things and think there are no consequences. Indeed, ignore his ass. ><
One of my "friends" a while back was currently going out with a guy in our grade and it was at least a six month relationship *maybe more*. While she was with him she was screwing around with an ugly, fat, old, dumbass dude online who was "in love" with her. And then not long after she was messing around with my BROTHER! First of all I find it creepy when best friends start liking your siblings. It feels like a taboo. ><; Even my two other friends agreed that was wrong and feel like my brother is their own sibling so...ew. Anyways she was messing with two guys and in my opinion cheating on her boyfriend. Worst thing was my other friend had to tell ME what she was doing with my brother. I felt like vomiting. Even now she doesn't know what I know and I can't even confront my brother about it. Apparently they were kissing behind the house while the rest of us were in the front yard...along with her boyfriend who was present at the freakin time. ><; So retarded. |
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I am going to laugh when he joins the Marines, and starts to realize that the fantasy world he created does not exist. Such as the fact that he feels that he is going to have sex with at least a few girls for each country they send him to. I think it will be a wake-up call when he realizes that not every girl will be charmed by his so-called looks.
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>;o what a insenseitive basterd! That's awfull! I try not to get involve with people like that. It's horrible when peoples do that. ..
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