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*hugs Aunty Seito* that's good. I promise not to throw snowballs at you anymore!
Aunty Vicky shouldn't wander off like that! |
*giggles* I'll try not to lose my way again, Cessy darling!!
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Good!
Mr. Mayor said everyone was coming home soon! I don't want you to miss that! |
let her wander off (Vic, I mean). If I'm lucky she ,might get eaten by a bear.
So... Yeah. Hopefully if I DO get married, it would be to a girl named Lucy. |
Ah yes, that cousin of mine... we'll see about her, Cessy dear. *smiles and takes Cessy by the hand, and the two walk away*
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Okay Aunty Vicky.
Night everyone! Thank you for your help! |
Goodnight you two. :) Don't get lost again, okay? Stick together! Remember the buddy system! :)
*goes back to regular forum posting* |
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I’m married, but sometimes I think I should have waited. Right now my husband and I don’t live together because of money issues. If you’re to get married, make sure it’s to someone you love and someone that you can trust. I think that there’s a whole lot more to marriage than just loving one another. I think that it’s also important that people are mature enough and can handle themselves right fanatically. If not that can cause a whole lot of problems that can be avoided.
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OMG Miss Valentine was here *dies* she is soooo beautiful!!!!!!!!!!
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I don't think I'd like to get married. Why do I need a fancy expensive ring to tell someone I love them? Or a name change? None of that actually matters at all! I happen to really like my last name and I don't want it to change. I would also be afraid if my boyfriend bought me a diamond ring because, knowing me, I'd lose it and cry for a month. I lose everything. It's horrible. xD Not to mention that if you ever do fall out with your significant other, it's a lot easier to part ways when you aren't married. And getting married in the first place can be very expensive. It just seems completely pointless to me. But that's just me, I guess.
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Well that thing with Vicktorya Valentine was odd O.o then again shes obsesed with being at every single event even if it isnt hers ^^ she can be so silly, but oh soooo beautifull <3
Mmm marriage? I dunno if I want to get married sometimes I do sometimes I dont. I hate fighting so if marriage means fighting with the one you love constantly then thats a no no for me and marriage. I've had a boyfriend (not the same one) since highschool so being single right now its really nice. I like being able to go out with friends and having soo much liberty. Im just not ready for a commitment. I do like a guy ^^ but another girl likes him and the used to have a thing for each other. Hes my friend but thats how he'll remain I guess. Im not sure of what he feels for me O.o Maybe I'll get married when Im like 28 or something ... |
For me, I am not too big on the concept of marriage. I do not that it is all that necessary unless you want the benefits and rights that the law provides to a married couple. I would much rather just be in a long term relationship because I think that a lot of the time marriage ruins a firm romantic relationship. I have seen people fall apart just in the process of planning the wedding. Also, the pressures of being that good husband or that good wife tends to get to people. The wife may try to fit into this mold of the homemaker, when she truly is a business woman at heart. Or, the husband tries to be this dominant man who provides but would much rather just stay home with the kids. The whole role thing is changing these days and people want to break out of them but society still says that the way to be is the male as the provider and the female as the nurturer. I hate that.
But, that isn't the reason why I don't plan on getting married. For me it is more of a time division thing. If I were to get married I would want to be able to devote myself to the person 110% and nothing less. My focus in life is going to be my career. And from experience, a career is really kill a marriage. That is another reason why I don't plan on adopting (yes, adopting.. I also don't want to produce my own children.. I'm an odd fellow) until after my career is at a stable point. I want to be able to give myself to my child completely. I grew up in a single parent home where my mother was constantly working as a business woman. I saw little of her during the week and I hated it. But she tried to compensate during the weekends when I just wanted to be with friends and hated that more. Haha. So yeah, I wouldn't want to raise a child that way. Also, I think that is also another reason why I am okay with being single. I saw my mom do it, so why can't I? Of course she's dated people and she was remarried, but she's never always just let herself be tied down. Partially for me, she didn't want to bring someone else into the household. I wouldn't mind just playing the field when I'm older. I actually enjoy the perks of being single. |
I think marriage is a fantastic thing, some people just take advantage of it? Or at least, don't take it that seriously. Like, they're all "Oh yay, we've dated for 3 months, let's get married" sort thing. But that's only some people.
I guess I am the marrying type. XDD Eventuallyyyy. Just not now, I'm too young. XP;;; The advice I'd give them is just to like... know what they're doing I guess. Like Kiwi said, she thought she should have waited. So like, just don't rush into things. :] That's what I'd think. XDD |
I'm not really the marrying type... I've never really found true true love, so i wouldn't really know... But for me, it doesn't matter if we're married or not, as long as we love each other.
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I agree with Karla. People seem to take marriage too lightly nowadays. I saw once on a show about Bam Margera getting married this guy asked him, "So, do you think it will last for awhile?" or something. Well, isn't that the whole point of getting married? I would say that you shouldn't get married until at least two years or so. Yeah, you may be totally in love and be *so* sure that this is the one within the first 6 months, but giving it 2 or more years really teaches you about your relationship and compatibility.
My boyfriend and I, during most of our first year, didn't argue *at all*, we seemed like the perfect match and we thought we had the perfect relationship. Well, now it's not so much, and we tend to argue even though we still love each other. I am able to handle the arguing, since we usually get over it and stuff, but someone out there might not be able to handle it and, if they were married by now, would file for divorce. |
My boyfriend was actually the one to bring up even thinking of marriage but I can see living the rest of my life with him. On the marriage subject its all him because he talks about it the most and thinks about it the most.
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I'm 18...I would like to marry one day...but there's this law saying marriage is between one man and one woman.....-_-' I would like to fall in love and marry the person I'm in love with, but the government doesn't want that.
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Oh, goodness. I'd love to get married, especially seeing as my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half now. Of course, I keep getting the feeling that I'll be engaged soon, since he keeps saying things such as "I had to go talk to somebody about your present" and "your present cost more than anyone else's did." Yet he's rather commitment-phobic, so perhaps just diamonds? The funny thing is, we've already discussed religion (Catholicism) and children (two, and yes I know that doesn't mesh with the Catholicism). At one time he even swore to me that he'd propose after a year, but that was over a year ago. I was miserable for a while about that.
Of course, I'm also the kind of girl who was daydreaming about senior prom in the first grade. Naturally, I daydream about my wedding, too. But I definetly don't want to end up a Bridezilla who thinks that her wedding day is all ME ME ME. When I get married, I want the man to know it's his wedding too. But he still can't see the dress until the wedding day! Also, a friend of mine got married on Halloween. On live television. The bride wore a black sweater with orange screen printing, and the groom wore a black shirt and orange tie. It was quite funny, keeping him from seeing her in her new outfit and makeup until it was time for the show. |
I think marriage ruins love.
Marriage exists just for the purpose of ... money and telling people ? I really don't understand it. I don't think I'd ever get married... but maybe if someone drugs me ? |
Marriage is OK, but I doubt I'd want to get married for a long time. I found a website that says wait at least a year and a half to get married, but my advice is: Wait longer, it's not very probable that you will know every single thing about this person in just a year and a half.
Yes I brought up the word to my "special someone" but, the only reason I did was because I want them to be thinking about what they want out of our relationship, so that after a couple of years they will have an answer of what one will make them happiest. I really think marriage is just some stupid way to prevent people from putting someone else on their insurance otherwise. Though I believe that divorce is stupid. I figure if you marry someone and realize they're the wrong one, you shouldn't be allowed to divorce them, since it was YOUR mistake in the first place. |
I didnt think I ever wanted to get married...but I have been married alittle over 2 years! There are alot of benafits people seem to overlook about marriage. Basically tho it is the same as dating and living in the same house if you ask me.
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I'm not really the dating/marrying type...too much drama.
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hhhmmm
havent been having that on my mind....not something i am interested in at the moment
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I'm only 17, but I do want to get married when I get older. <3
I don't really date and never have though...>.>..I guess I might be waiting for the right person..<3 fuyumi_saito ~ Aww, well I think that if you ever find someone and want to get married, you could maybe ask a friend to marry you and the one you love. :D I mean, it's not like anyone else would know. :) |
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