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Liz 12-24-2007 04:39 PM

I live for a promise that I made with my dead grandma!! ^^

And maybe for some people!! ^^

Ebil 12-24-2007 04:57 PM

I live for myself.
My wants, my goals and my needs.
A lot of those things involve others, but all combined it's down to me. If I want someone else to be happy, then my happiness depends on that.

Shaney 12-24-2007 04:59 PM

Sounds selfish, but at the moment, I live for myself. There's nobody worthy (at the moment) for me to dedicate my life to them. Not even my family.

Berginyon 12-24-2007 04:59 PM

I live for the fact that it's almost certainly better than being dead :P

ChildofGod 12-24-2007 05:17 PM

I want to live for God, who created me and loves me. I guess I need to trust Him more! ♥ :)

Queen Fool 12-24-2007 06:00 PM

I honestly don't know.

I've been wondering that a lot lately.

I guess I live for myself, as selfish as it sounds. I don't know if I believe in an afterlife (and if I do, it's certainly not like heaven and hell). All I know is that I want to make sure I'm done living before I die.

I don't believe in suicide purely because I feel that if you're going to die anyway, you mind as well enjoy life.

Aurora 12-24-2007 06:13 PM

I try to live for Jesus...C:

Elwing 12-24-2007 06:34 PM

My boyfriend I guess. I'm not realy close with my
family, but lately a bit more with friends.

Satomi 12-24-2007 08:27 PM

@ Joby, that's an excellent thing to live for! You're really thinking deeply of others. But remember, most of the people might not care as much. With that being said, don't let what you live for distract you in important-now things.

@ Neon, I have felt that way sometimes too. But a little more in the previous stage. I'm a scenario thinker and I've thought up of many scenarios that could happen in my future life. I'm sort of at the point where all my friends and families are not who I want to be around. I plan to disconnect myself with all of them around the age of 21, after I finish college and live on my own. Just hang in there neon, when you value your life and keep on living, good things are bound to happen to you.

@ Liz, wow, I love stories that include promises being a big part of somebodies life. It's great that you're keeping your promise with your grandmother, but remember to throw in the unspoken promises you've made with your grandmother. As in, what she wants of you, such as being a good student, obeying your parents, etc. If you have a hard time keeping up with those things, your grandmother would be sad...

@ Ebil, that is so true. I've thought about it before, and whatever we do it's for ourself. Even if we give to charity and have a hard time giving away so much money, in the end we're doing it to give us a satisfaction within ourselves. There is no such thing as true selflessness... At least I don't think...

@ Shaney, same response as above, but it's great that you're thinking with your own mind and not having the influence of others change your thoughts. For example, the moral that many families put into children of "loving your parents and family".

@ Berg, I think that's very brave and optimistic of you. Many people would say death is better than living the horrible life they are in now, which might be true. But as I said before, if you keep surviving, good things WILL happen to you.

@ Child, it's great that your living for the God you believe in. I've learned that if your life is follow faith in a religion, it's usually a really good life... I can't really explain it scientifically, but people are just "more" in everything they do, like superheros. They're the ones you wonder, "How are they always so happy?".

@ Queen Fool, the afterlife is a scary thing to those living on Earth. Most of us don't know how to live our life to get into a certain afterlife. There are many theories, such as heaven and hell, but most of us can't be sure what is real. Many people become Christians and yearn for Heaven, but what if it doesn't exist and all you did was for naught?

@ Aurora, same as Child's.

@ Elwing, I hope your friends are very good people, the kind you can really depend on, more than your family. Those are the best kind of friends, I hope I could meet at least one...

Mushy Kylo Hendricks 12-24-2007 08:36 PM

I wouldn't say "still wandering" and it might sound negative, but I don't have anything to live for.

But I'm here, and I exist. Everything comes and goes, like the dinosaurs. I've felt this way since I was a kid - I'm only here because I was born, and I'm only still here because of civilization (kind of like how pets live longer than wildlife).

I'm not unhappy with this, but I think that's the way it is. I'm here. :) Every living thing is worth something. Eventually there will be something to take my place. ^_^;

vmars 12-24-2007 08:57 PM

I think I live for my family and friends. I know that sounds cheese, but they are the ones I would worry about if I knew I was going to die for whatever reason. I think that is how you know who you live for. You have to ask yourself if there is anyone you would feel bad about leaving behind. At least that is what worked for me.[/i]

Bellazure 12-24-2007 08:57 PM

I don't really know what I'm living for, but I know it's something.
I still have to find out

Takuto 12-24-2007 09:29 PM

I guess I am still too young to actually answer this question. I do not think I will ever know until I am dead.

psyrien 12-25-2007 12:05 AM

I honestly don't really know the answer to that question.

I would like to give the nice, convicted, Christian answer of God and his purpose, and at a time I would've said it, but I don't really know right now. I can say it, but if I'm honest and look at myself, I don't really think that the two quite match up. I can say that I would like to live for those things, but I don't think it's actually happening.

For a period in my life, I lived for this one guy--well, not really for him but the challenge he represented. He got up in my face and got personal. It was a very changing experience. I learned a lot then, but it took a long time to change. And because of that challenge, even though I lost contact with him long ago, I can see most of my actions leading back to that. It was a rather revealing moment. I had thought that I had convinced myself to give up on him and forget about him, but my subconscious clearly had other ideas. Every single thing I did after for those two years after I lost contact was still all about him.

And I felt like life was a lie.

And then I stopped living for him.

I don't know if I feel better about it. I don't know what I'm living for now and I'm wondering if living for him was really such a bad thing. But it made me feel strange to realize that I was doing everything for someone else that didn't really care for me--he probably would save my life if I was in trouble and he was right there, but most people would do that for anyone. He probably doesn't even remember me anymore.

As for now, I'm just sort of wandering around. I don't know. Maybe I'm looking for something to live for?

Satomi 12-25-2007 12:16 AM

Well, it seems many people are still looking for something to live for, including me. Can anyone give any advice on how to find things? Not something specifically, like go to church to obtain religious aspects. Something totally unexpected. My plan is to first get an education so that I can receive a job when I get older. And when I get older, I will purchase my own home or rent and apartment. When that is done, I am basically free from my parents and past friends. With this, I hope to do many things that I have yet to do, such as apply memberships at gyms, try out some sports, go to different countries, etc. I believe that I will find a job that I have great pleasure doing, and that would be my reason to live.

Thunder 12-25-2007 12:19 AM

I think I live for...well...life. I want to do things and, when you're dead, that's it. You can't do those things any more. So I guess I live to live, to enjoy myself, to be happy and hopefully bring happiness into my friends and family's lives. I live to have fun, I guess. I don't know, it's a hard question to answer. Like someone else said, we probably won't really know until we're dead or on our death bed, and by then it won't matter. xD

okamimyst 12-25-2007 12:25 AM

The question is: does anyone ever really know for sure what they're living for?

I think that what one lives for changes as one grows. It's sort of a parallel to water, I guess. And that's how I sort of see life, too. Like one giant river. Everytime something happens in your life it adds it's scenery, etc to the body of the river and changes it's flow and course. That's probably why most of us don't turn out to be what we wanted to be when we were little.

Anyway, currently I'm living for my future. For the thrill of the ride down my own river. That's what makes life so exciting.

Satomi 12-25-2007 12:31 AM

Many people's rivers hit a dam wall, some for a very long time. They just give up and stop pushing against the dam 'cause it's too strong. In my opinion, every river will eventually destroy any dam, some even instantly if they're strong and confident. Of course I'm talking in metaphors...

MidnightRun 12-25-2007 03:17 AM

I live to love and laugh. o:

IshokuOsero 12-25-2007 03:35 AM

I live for my best friend and my boyfriend, for the most part. There is very little of me that wants to live for myself. I haven't really lived for much of anything until recently, and was really suicidal when I was in high school and even a couple years after I graduated. I haven't been in an especially good family situation since I was little, although I know it's a fuckton better than it could've been.

But yeah, for the most part I just live for two people.

I live for my boyfriend because he means absolutely everything to me and he's never let me down. He cares deeply about me and I know it, and he does everything he can to make me happy. When I'm not happy, he's not happy. When I get sad, he tries his damndest to cheer me up, and if that doesn't work, he tries even more. He never lets me stay in a bad mood, and he always knows exactly how to say things.

I live for my best friend because she's so damn awesome and once again, she means the world to me. I got her into Jrock and through that we have more memories to even be able to count. I rely on her for a lot of things and she comes to me for things also. Sometimes it seems like if there isn't one of us, there isn't the other either. We try to be together as much as possible. It's pretty damn awesome.

Krystyne 12-25-2007 03:56 AM

What do I live for? Right now, my only (truthful) answer can be "I live for dying." I don't have a romantic partner to live for, and my parents have three other children to worry about besides me; as a matter of fact, I feel life would be easier on all of them if I were, in fact, dead; my mother tells me otherwise, but I know they would heal after my death. Therefore, I do not have them to live for.

My best friend insisted that I'm the only reason she even comes online anymore, so that she can talk to me...but I know that, even though her friend from literal babyhood isn't talking to her right now, they'll figure out a way to talk to each other, and I'll no longer be necessary...though, of course, she says otherwise; she's too blinded by loyalty to say she won't need me. Therefore, after she no longer needs me, I will not have her to live for.

I'm working my way toward becoming an Audiologist, but I don't find enjoyment in the knowledge. It's only for the money I will gain in that career that I'm doing it, and because I would empathize with my patients. If, however, I were to die before I reach my goal, no one would notice. Therefore, I do not have that to live for.

A i 12-26-2007 07:37 PM

what do i live for...well..what do i live for?...ive asked myself this question before..but i couldn't manage to answer it..

hmm...i guess i live to please my family..to make them proud of me...to beat my sister..and to make them stop comparing me with her...yeah..i live for that i guess..

and maybe i live for the sake of my friends...i couldn't survive without them...since it wasn't always fun with ur siblings..so they're the one who'd make me 'alive' ..

sometimes, my siblings or my parents doesn't know me as much as my friends does..so i guess, yea i live for them ^-^

shellthabunny 12-26-2007 07:40 PM

My family and my fiance.

Psychophobical 12-26-2007 07:40 PM

I live for... probably pretty selfish reasons.

I live for improvement. I want to prove, before I die, that I can impress people with my art. That's pretty much all I love for as of yet. Over time, I stopped living for other things... because I realized that the only person making me happy was myself.

But, if I had to be comical about all this... I would say that I live for internet. Without it, I'd probably go through withdrawals and need to be put in a padded room.

ChildofGod 12-31-2007 08:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mushy Kylo Hendricks
I wouldn't say "still wandering" and it might sound negative, but I don't have anything to live for.

But I'm here, and I exist. Everything comes and goes, like the dinosaurs. I've felt this way since I was a kid - I'm only here because I was born, and I'm only still here because of civilization (kind of like how pets live longer than wildlife).

I'm not unhappy with this, but I think that's the way it is. I'm here. :) Every living thing is worth something. Eventually there will be something to take my place. ^_^;

But you are here for a reason you know! :) God made you for a specific reason, even if it isn't clear to you right now. THink of the people you affect every day with your life?


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