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I broke up with my girlfriend for basically the same reason as your title in the topic. I liked her a whole lot and everything, but she couldn't use her phone or internet because it had gotten taken away. I hadn't talked to her in 2 months. I was depressed and getting sick of it, so I told her we needed to break up and we did. And, plus. She kept telling me that she liked this girl at her school too, so I was like, "lol, k. ):"
Were still kinda friends though. lol, and no. It wasn't an online relationship. :< |
I sort of understand where your boyfriend might have been coming from, but it still sucks...worst comes to worst, he should have dealt with the fact that sometimes things in life come up and they shouldn't matter when it comes to a relationship. If he's complaining due to a lack of communication, the least he could have done was come by to see you or hang out-assuming he lives close to you. If not, then letters through the mail should have been enough. If he really cared, that's the way things should have gone, I think...but maybe it's just a sign that he wasn't the right one.
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I'm sorry to hear about your ex, but you have to understand where he's coming from too.
If that was me, I'd flip out in less than a week. You can't talk to someone, you don't know what they're doing, etc. I don't know about you, but no communication would bring up a ton of trust issues for me, but maybe that's just my own insecurities. But, it really hurts when you can't talk to your boyfriend or girlfriend. It sucks! Whose internet are you using now? |
I don't think that's a bad reason at all, what's the point in dating someone if you can't talk to them?
I got I can't see you anymore because you confuse me :P |
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Back to the original subject, the worst excuse I have ever heard has to be, and I'm not joking: "We can't be together... because my fish doesn't like you..." Her fish supposedly didn't like me, isn't that lame? I was sixteen back then though, and now I am happily in a relationship and have a son. :) |
Unfortunately, I've been doing all the breaking up so far...
I date pretty aggressively. I don't date someone that I don't think I would marry, and if I date someone and during the time I am dating them I discover that A. they aren't, under any circumstances, interested in marriage or B. we aren't as compatible as we once were, I break up with them. Usually it's been A. Although I haven't met either problem in my current relationship, in fact it's really been the opposite. The approach I usually take (and it's been the truth) is that since there's no future in the relationship (and for me, there isn't if it isn't marriage), there's no point in delaying the inevitable. I try to be a little less blunt, however. |
oh well that sucks.. ): go get revenge~ ♥
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I think the worst one I have ever heard was 'I want you to be happy, so we need to break up because I have six months to live and you deserve better'.
Guess who I saw a year later while paintballing? |
Sadly I've never been dumped. I'm always the one to do the dumping. I have this weird thing about me that I'll attract these really nice guys, then about a week or two into the relationship they turn in whiney babies. They become very emo and all they want to do is cry. I'm not nice enough to use lines so I just tell them flat out why we are breaking up. Normally sounds a lot like: "All you do is say how bad your problems are, when you dont have any beside mommy and daddy dont give you money. And you cry because you can. Your totally selfish and need to get over yourself before we ever talk again." I know that seems mean, but then they know were they need work. :)
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Re: Hello. I'm dumping you for being poor.
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I don't mean to be a jerk but it sounds to me like this guy just didn't want to put a single ounce of effort into your relationship. (I might become chastised because of this, but eh), like there is a phone, and if he was really desperate he could have picked up a pen, and bought a stamp for ten cents, or get one of those Christmas stamps (that you don't have to pay for) and go and send you a letter.
Me, I really don't have any break-up stories. |
I can't say there has even been a bad reason for the end of one of my relationships. Honestly, things just didn't work out and we both realized it, and ended it.
However, recently my ex moved to California - which is why we ended the relationship. Neither of us wanted to do long distance, both of us having done it before and having it end badly on both accounts. It bothers me, and I know it bugs him that that was the only reason we decided to end things. :/ |
Eh.I've only been in one relationship and got
dumped.We both had sites and we always dedicated a tiny part to each other.When I came back from the Philippines,I found the part dedicated to me with Halo 3 tips and tricks. Then the next day he avoided me until lunch,where he tried to be all 'cool' and got his friends,looked for me,then dumped me in front of his friends.He later then explained to me that he was too busy playing Halo 3 to pay attention to me.Video game excuses. Breaking up with you because of having no phone or internet has got to be one of the stupidest reasons. |
I dumped my ex because I never saw a photo of him till one day and then realized yea wtf have I been smokin to have an online boyfriend.
The excuse I used was I pretended to be one of my best friends...and my nephew to dump him. I'm not the nicest person but hey if you saw the dude you'd agree why I dumped him. He was gross looking. |
You know, relationships are centric of communication. I'd get pissed if I couldn't talk to my S/o, either.
Don't take it so hard. If he is hiding something from you, at least he was man enough to break it off with you before he got himself caught. |
I was never broken up with. I'm still with my first boyfriend and married him. We've been together for a little over 9 years.
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One guy broke up with me because...um...actually, I don't know why. We were a fine and happy couple, then we go on spring break and don't see each other for a week, then I come back and he completely hates me. It's all fine and good if he doens't want to go out with me anymore, but to not tell me he had broken up with me and treat me so rudely afterwards was a little much.
But then again, that was in 5th grade. You're not all that smart at that age. He ended up going out with my best friend after me. But she only went out with him to get back at him for hurting me. She waited until she got a couple nice gifts out of him, then dumped him. I know it's mean of me to say this, but I thought it was funny as hell to see him crying and longing after her while she went off to play basketball. Ah, 5th grade.... |
One girl dumped me after about a week for no reason at all that she could explain. -shrug-
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Well I have never been dumped for a dumb reason, but one time I had to break up with someone over e-mail because he never answered his phone. That was pretty pathetic. =P
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lamest excuse -.- well some guys are flirting with me.. but i ignore them.. its creepy.. im not planning to have one :roll: well since i got a crush on my bestfriend lol xD
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Well that was a lame excuse indeed.
I'm even pretty shocked. If anyone would like to contact with beloved one, they would find a way. : | As for me... Well, I dumped my last ex first... mainly because I he made my brain blow every time I met him. |
Omigosh! No internet or phone?! You two had to interact -dun, dun DUN- In Person!?!!
Yeah, I've never had any problem even remotely like that. Complete lack of boyfriend equals complete lack of breakup, which equals complete lack of dumb breakup excuses. Since True(me) is pretty much the definition of "complete lack of boyfriend," through the power of the associative property, we can say that True=complete lack of dumb breakup excuses(Yay?). High School Geometry proofs are truly a thing of beauty. Some people make up dumb excuses because they think you'll be mad if they told you the truth, perhaps that's what he did? |
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