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The only people I really try to look good for are my boyfriend and myself. I don't really care that much about what other people think. I don't want people to think I'm ugly or sloppy or have really bad taste, I'll admit that, but it I don't really care if they think that I have the best clothes or the best hair or anything like that. If you go around worrying about what every random stranger thinks of you then you'd be too preoccupied with it to enjoy wearing things and looking how you want to look. Like I can't be bothered to put on makeup or anything like that if I'm not going somewhere or doing something special. And as for looks, my boyfriend has seem me at every part of the day. He's seen me when I first wake up and have horrible messy hair. He's seen me in my pajamas plenty of times. He's seen me when I just got out of the shower and I'm dripping wet. I know I don't have to look perfect for him all the time.
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Ah do what ah wahnt!
xD I wear what ever I feel like wearing, which is generally what's comfotab;e or make's me happy to be seen in. Which is probably why I'm still single. XD I love my t-shirts, jeans, and plain black pants! And my silly hats! |
I might have self esteem issues, but I do dress for myself. The times I do go out with friends I wear what I want. It's real nice to look at yourself in the mirror, and like what you see.
I've recently gotten into the pink and purple phase all over again, so it's real fun to go out. I usually like to coordinate with my makeup and my tacky jewelry. Sometimes I even go out with a wig to match my outfit. I don't really like my hair much, and I can't dye it anymore for personal reasons. Whether it be to hang out at a friends house, or go to the movies or the mall. I dress the way I want to. I had a pair of pants that I would go everywhere with, and they're extremely worn out at this point. Everyone would protest because they had holes and such, but I still wore them. I loved those pants. :( I think my mom snuck behind my back and threw them away though. The same with my worn out boots... She hates when I continuously wear stuff that's broken/has holes in them. Pffty. D: If I had a significant other, I'd probably wear less casual stuff ( well on dates anyway, because if it's just to stay home and hang out... I'm sticking to my t-shirt and comfy pants :] )... but alas I don't have anything of the sort in my life. *snort* But no matter what I'll always have my mother nagging at me to look prettier. Gee, thanks mom. D: I've gotten over the baggy clothes stage though, and gone back to overly girlie mode. xD Pink and purple forever! *waves little Cheshire cat flags around* |
I dress for myself. I like to dress nicely, or at least what I consider nicely, everyday. regardless if I am staying home or not. I will put on my nicest sweatpants and my nicest tank top still. I am really into fashion.
I think people do care about the way you look. Guys too. Not all guys, but a lot of them. If you are wearing a plain abggy t-shirt nad tattered baggy blue jeans, they won't look at you as opposed to a girl who is wearing a form fitting sweater and a cute mini skirt. Not that I at all dress for a guy. I don't really even think that much about guys. Hey, if one think I look good, that's fantastic. But whatever I wear is because I want to look good for myself and that's it. |
I dress for myself, I like dressing up and playing with my clothes.. I do care if I look good but not for others... for me, if I don't like myself how can I like others... they'll feel that I don't like myself and won't like me.. well anyway.. dressing is fun.
I'm not fashionable XD but I do like dressing with some styles... it's fun.. |
I look good for myself. I feel shitty when I know I look shitty.
Also, if I look shitty, I'm automatically sleepy all day. I don't know why... |
:lol: As long as i feel good in what i look it, it's all cool. :o Not like i don't have enough confidence to start with already. =.= LOL, i'm conceited and proud.
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I like to have fun with myself, so I dress up (look pretty or just plain old 'dress up' with costumes and the like) for the pure enjoyment factore for me. If others like it to, bonus.
Mind you I don't look in mirrors to often, and myself and make up have a very tenuous relatinship at best, but you will never see me go outside dressed in PJ pants. Simply becasue I just don't like to. I also understand appropriatness. I won't wear my purple corset and flounf gown to work or to a family dinner. On the other hand I won't wear business casual anywhere other then work if I can help it. Sexey underwear give me a confidence boost that is just for me. No one else id gong to see them, but I know they are there. The illusion is enough. |
i look good more for the others than for me
(i know... wrong thoughts...) i would love to look good for me, but... i guess this is how i am, no one can change me |
Back in grade 5, I tried to look pretty for a guy. That lasted less then a week, meh.
Now, I dress nicely for myself. (: Admittedly, I don't always like what I see in the mirror. |
It really depends how I'm feeling when I get dressed, but I usually dress for myself. Still, it's nice when you get compliments for making an effort to look good. I find that if I dress more feminine, I will act it, or if I dress more tom-boyish I will act it. There are many factors that go into picking an outfit for the day, in my opinion. Though sometimes I will just sling anything on because I can't be bothered. xD
I definitely feel more confident when I make the effort to look nice. And the make up thing, I usually put make up in the mornings when I go into college but I use it sparingly. I focus on my eyes when putting make up on because I like to accentuate what I feel is my best facial feature. If I'm nipping to the shop, I don't bother dolling myself up. That would be silly. ;D Also, because Summer is approaching I've found I'm dressing a lot differently. I went and bought a dress yesterday, which I don't usually do. I feel a little uncomfortable in dresses. But because it's getting warmer, I thoughts I'd reach out of my comfort zone and try it. xD |
I look good for both me and others, I hate being in public with my friends without make-up because for some reason I hate being average looking next to my friends. Like it's almost embarassing being seen with me unless I'm looking decent. I put a lot of time and effort into my appearence to make it look as the best I can make it. There was a time in my life where I believed in natural beauty but I'm so far gone from that it doesn't exist anymore to me. That's on most days, on other days I just don't care and put whatever I can on and put little to no make-up on. That's usually on days where I'm feeling sick or I hate the person I'm going to be with that day.
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Well I stopped at the last paragraph, and I'm gonna say yes. Some guys at least. I know if I like a girl I WANT to see them in pajamas or maybe something skimpier? Shows what life you have to us =3
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I dress for myself at about 80% and the other 20% is for the other people. It's spread out like this because as much as people say they don't care what people think, some of you really do. I am one of those people. I do not like to have people talk about me behind my back about how I look and dress, it's no fun.
But since I have piercings I automatically get those people who talk, gossip, and stare. But you'll always have those people. I was taught if someone looks different it's alright to look/glance, but not stare. |
I'm not going to lie, I don't care what I look like when I'm alone at home behind the computer. I dress for others. I don't have a style, I wear what I like, but if I had my way, I would lounge around in boxers and an old t-shirt all day.
I like when other people think I look good. Who doesn't? Plus, I work at a school, and the kids will make fun of me if I wear anything weird, lol. |
I tend to get all cute and dressy for myself. I just like looking nice. And dressing up and accesorizing and whatnot.
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I've gotta say this:
For others! xD But in that sense it's probably also for myself, because although I absolutely love my pajamas because they're the most comfortable thing to wear EVAARRRR, I do like dressing up. I do stress over what to wear on the weekends though, even when I'm just going to Japanese class and that's all. ==;; |
I think both, I dress nicely because it boosts your confidence when you know you're looking good.
And I guess in a way I dress for others too, it's fun to look good and have others think positive about you. (: |
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Other than that; dressing up, taking care of myself makes me feel better. I always dress up for exams, for example, so I can feel confident and comfortable during them even though most people wear sweats to them. Quote:
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That said; ofcourse you should feel good about other things too but yeah, looking good sure helps. I don't get dressed for that though. Mainly because I don't dress up for dates, just dress the way I usually do. Quote:
If I had to pick, I'd pick the last one. I get dressed for myself. I really do. But I can't lie, I do love the way a guy might look at me if I'm wearing cleavage or the way a girl can glare at me if I'm wearing something nice. It's a confidence-builder. I most definitely do not dress for that though. If I did, I'd need to get dressed up for school which I very, very rarely do and when I do it's because I wanted to that morning, not for anybody else. |
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I normally wear something I like (all the clothes I have I like one way or another). And when I do dress nicely it's... For myself and for other people. Because I do want to show that this is how I'm feeling today. Normally when I dress nice I have a bit of a theme, or at least an easy way to show that I'm feeling good today or I'm feeling bad. I've never really worn make up. Only cover up and colored lip gloss. Anything more would be for a special occasion. I guess I'm odd like that... |
lol my husband loves me no matter what I am wearing. (or not wearing) so looking good is really for myself. I'll dress up, I'll dress down to suit my mood. Some days I just want to be comfy others I feel like putting my hair up, putting on make up, then once I have done that I will want to be dressed nicely and I will spend 45 minutes + choosing what to wear. >.> it's fun!
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Personally I think it's ridiculous how girls these days have totally unrealistic expectations.
"A guy should like me no matter WHAT! If he doesn't like me as I am, he is a shallow prick!" Which can be true in certain situations, but there is a line between shallow and having standards. I think it is perfectly reasonable to ask for a healthy (healthy, not necessarily super skinny) girl who's clean and well kept and dresses relatively nicely, and maybe isn't a total bitch? I know so many girls who are obese, dress badly, generally don't take good care of themselves and have nasty dispositions and they act like the guy that denied them is a total jerk. |
I don't dress up.
I always wear just baggy jeans and a t-shirt. I usually have my hat on too. I don't like wearing make up either. A guy will have to like me for who I am. I don't like hiding myself and giving them a false advertisement by wearing make up and dressing up. This is me, love me or hate me. And thank fully, my bf loves me for who I am. <333 |
I do it for myself, to represent who I am, inside. I don't feel quite like myself, if I go without meeting that image. Note that I don't consider "myself" as what I was born with, but rather, what I consider ideal. The only reason I don't bother around the house is so my clothes won't get dirty, and my face won't break out. |
Whatever products I use on myself are mostly for me. I'm uncomfortable with how I look and eyeliner makes me feel a little better. I'm not going to go out of my way dolling myself up for a guy. And no, I never leave the house without eyeliner. XD
But occasionally I make myself look extra special for my boyfriend. Nothing wrong with dressing up for him sometimes. |
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