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DarkVeilOfShadows 05-14-2008 06:47 AM

I allways dress for myself and me alone. my usual dressing style is Dark & classy. Many ppl ask me why i "try so hard" to look good, but i simply like to make ppl look and feel inferior to me, thatz all. I don't even dress for my crush! I could care less what other ppl thought of me, i'm sure you can now guess i have no friends, well i do! Some. a few. ok! about 2! But they are true enogh. Better than those [name for a kid born outside marriage] who call themself your friends and only say hi to you when you say hi first! >:<=

Sequined Messengers 05-14-2008 05:47 PM

whenever I dress, it's for me. I don't give two hoots what anyone else thinks about it, if I like something, I'll wear it. and because of that mentality I find myself wearing all sorts of neon silliness. And I love it.

Neko Neko Kitty 05-16-2008 10:02 PM

I love to dress up and I do it for me. I really could care less what other people think about it. Of course I wear appropriate clothes to work and for interviews, but other than that I love wearing lolita and Victorian inspired clothing. I never wear make up so I've never had that issue of not feeling pretty without it. Of course I do enjoy compliments and as for my fiance he really couldn't care less if he sees me right out of bed, in my pj's, or my "lazy/cleaning day" clothes or in my normal clothing.

iMoose 05-17-2008 04:55 PM

I try to make myself pretty before going anywhere.
Not for anyone else, but just to look good.

Looking good = feeling good =]

kieraXD 05-17-2008 05:00 PM

dude forget people. I love pulling completly random outfits together and yesi do love the compliments but i always look good for myself. I love playing with clothes and how i look and i think its stupid how people care so much that they would dress up for other people

dianakitsune 05-17-2008 07:51 PM

Is it a myth that no matter what you wear if a guy likes you he will like you with pajamas or your worst outfit just after you got up from bed because it is not related to look but pheromons and body chemical stuff?

I think this is somewhat true, I can say my boyfriend honestly doesn't care, but I care since I really hate embarassing myself so I guess girl's are more self concious than guys, lol

Do you dress up for you I mean for the pleasure you get feeling well with the clothes you like or you dress for the guys/girls or people to look at you/accept you /think good of you?

I do it for myself, I could care less what other people think, I want to look good because it makes me feel better, I know most people would accept me as I am or so I hope, but looking good just makes me more confident

Did you ever feel without some make up you are not well enough to go face the day?

I hate make up so no, I like natural beauty, I hate it when people wear make up because it's as if they don't feel that their pretty when in reality they really are and the make up only makes them fake

Do you feel uncomfortable when your clothes didn't dry and you need to wear something you don't like much?

I wouldn't know, this has never happened to me, but it probably wouldn't bother me too much.

when you dress for a date, is it to gain confidence on yourself...? so you are putting your confidence in an exterior factor....should this be this way? I dont think so but that is just my opinion.

I actually never have dressed up for a date yet, my first date was just at my house so I wore what I normally did and he did too so I don't think dressing up is a big deal unless you're going to a fancy restaurant, lol

Lanackse 05-17-2008 07:56 PM

I dress up for myself. Dressing up really nice for special occasions makes me feel sexy and empowers me. I love wearing sexy underwear for that reason. I find it symbolic of my inner sexuality on many levels. I can't wear grotty undies ever.

Pandiikins 05-17-2008 08:03 PM


I look good for both.
Unless I'm at home and in my pajamas xD

I like wearing cute clothes and stuff, but if I'm at school then I wouldn't really care :]
Atleast look decent for school.


Nemui 05-17-2008 11:31 PM

okay most of the time i just dress nice.
i mean i like to look presentable.
its how i was rasied.

but if im going out with my boyfriend i like
to an extra step and look a little nicer.

Now when i say going out with him i mean
we are going to dinner at a fancy place.

we hang out all the time and im not about to throw on some
super nice clothes and makeup all the time.that would end up being 3 times a week and im not doing that.
specially since he prefers me natural.

but if we are going to dinner,like for instance last night was our 1 yr [ya me!] and i got dressed up and did my makeup and he thought i looked beautiful. and he liked the fact that i only do it on special occasion he said it makes him feel special when i put more time into my appearance when we are going out some place special. becuase he knows the whole thing means something to me. and he is glad that it isn't all the time becuase then he wouldn't ever have anything to look forward to on special nights.

so all in all its about how comfy i am

Lanackse 05-17-2008 11:34 PM

Removing makeup can be a pain. I'm not sure whether the getting it on is worse or the trying to remove it after is but I could never do that every day. I very rarely wear perfume either.

If people don't like that then they can take a long hike off a short pier and I would be more then willing to lead them to a short pier so they can do it too.:ninja:

Intoxicate 05-17-2008 11:40 PM

Probably for others, really.
If clothing and appearance did not affect the way certain people perceive me, whether on a first impression or on a regular basis, then I would not even bother dressing up. I'd just wear whatever loose cotton t-shirt and pants I could find laying around my house.


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