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Kiirar-Istar 05-10-2008 11:07 PM

Istar: NOOOOOoooooo! It's mine now! *Hugs the throne* I'm not letting go!!!!

@Circa: Dopn't get too down! Being depressed is no way to make friends!

Victimless Crime 05-10-2008 11:08 PM

Fine! *sits on Istar* This'll work just fine.

Kiirar-Istar 05-10-2008 11:12 PM

Istar: Ooh. Hey, I like this game.;)

Kiirar: I-Istar!

Risque 05-10-2008 11:15 PM

@ Sagitar: Ack, seems like they're already moved on. ;-; Sorry to hear of that though..

@ Kiirar: Ahaha, not being down here, just kind of, eh, worried about my future. xDD

Ohmy. RP in mah thread. o_o;

Kiirar-Istar 05-10-2008 11:17 PM

Kiirar:It's no rp....
Istar: Looks like I'm making friends, huh Kiirar?
Kiirar:..........

Victimless Crime 05-10-2008 11:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kiirar-Istar (Post 3106552)
Istar: Ooh. Hey, I like this game.;)

Kiirar: I-Istar!

o_o' what game?

Kiirar-Istar 05-10-2008 11:29 PM

Lol. Nevermind. XD

Victimless Crime 05-10-2008 11:33 PM

-_- I must've missed it hehehehehehehehehe

Kiirar-Istar 05-10-2008 11:37 PM

Apparently. Sooo....Victimless, what's your bestest best friend like?

Victimless Crime 05-10-2008 11:47 PM

She's...hmm...she's fun, kind (when it suits her), she likes a lot of the same things I do. I don't really know how to explain her. I love her so mcuh though.

Baja 05-10-2008 11:48 PM

Baja hasn't talked to my high school friends in years. x.x
Baja has new friends now, that I have things in common with, especially, my best friend, Senpai. ^^
When Baja first met her, I was a bit nervous about having new friends, but now I can't imagine my life without her. <3

Kiirar-Istar 05-10-2008 11:51 PM

My best friend actually just joined Mene last night. We look like total opposites, but we're the greatest of friends. It's funny though, she said she hated me when we first met.

Victimless Crime 05-10-2008 11:53 PM

Oh really? that's funny. XD I think me and my best friend just kinda clicked. I'm sure that if I were straight she'd be my wife XD

[[.sheryl.]] 05-10-2008 11:54 PM

@[email protected] I've only just started highschool, heck, I don't even know everyone that well yet...

But that's happened to me about three times in primary school. At first I really wanted to be in the popular group [I was in yr 2, actually xD] so I hung around with them a lot and pretended that I watched all the TV shows they did and that I knew all the shops they were talking about... but in yr 3 I think I gave up because I saw how stupid it was. Next I was in a group of 4 [soon to be 6, then 5, then 4 again] but two of the 4 were really annoying me [I was still friends with one, though - she goes to my highschool now too :D ] then I was with the other 2, then the 2 were with the 4, which makes it 6, but then I wasn't around them so much any more so it ended up as 5...

Hell, this sounds like a maths class.

But yeah, in the last year of primary school I was in a different class so I ended up making other friends instead.

In the very very end, I had to say "I'll miss you" to every single friend 'group' I was ever in [minus the popular peeps xD ] when I actually would only miss either one of them or [now,] none of them. *sigh* So I'm glad I'm in highschool now. Putting all this crazy stupid friendship drama behind me. xD

Kiirar-Istar 05-10-2008 11:55 PM

@ Victimless: Oh. that's sweet. ^^

Kiirar-Istar 05-10-2008 11:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by [[.sheryl.]] (Post 3106718)
@[email protected] I've only just started highschool, heck, I don't even know everyone that well yet...

But that's happened to me about three times in primary school. At first I really wanted to be in the popular group [I was in yr 2, actually xD] so I hung around with them a lot and pretended that I watched all the TV shows they did and that I knew all the shops they were talking about... but in yr 3 I think I gave up because I saw how stupid it was. Next I was in a group of 4 [soon to be 6, then 5, then 4 again] but two of the 4 were really annoying me [I was still friends with one, though - she goes to my highschool now too :D ] then I was with the other 2, then the 2 were with the 4, which makes it 6, but then I wasn't around them so much any more so it ended up as 5...

Hell, this sounds like a maths class.

But yeah, in the last year of primary school I was in a different class so I ended up making other friends instead.

In the very very end, I had to say "I'll miss you" to every single friend 'group' I was ever in [minus the popular peeps xD ] when I actually would only miss either one of them or [now,] none of them. *sigh* So I'm glad I'm in highschool now. Putting all this crazy stupid friendship drama behind me. xD

You think friendship is stupid? I don't...I like having people who can accept my total weirdness.

Victimless Crime 05-11-2008 12:00 AM

XD Why thank you.

[[.sheryl.]] 05-11-2008 12:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kiirar-Istar (Post 3106740)
You think friendship is stupid? I don't...I like having people who can accept my total weirdness.

xD No, I don't think friendship is stupid... but I think that crazy friendship groups thing that I went through was. oO;;

Kiirar-Istar 05-11-2008 12:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by [[.sheryl.]] (Post 3106767)
xD No, I don't think friendship is stupid... but I think that crazy friendship groups thing that I went through was. oO;;

Okay. That makes sense. I can see that. ^^

Lassi 05-11-2008 01:58 AM

I would know what you meant, truly, if I actually had an abundance of friends. I have only three decent ones. One lives about an hour away and we spent freshman and sophomore year together, then I moved. The two I have now I see (I had one class with each, one junior year, and one now - senior year), but rarely, and never get the chance to talk with them they way I wish I could.

I've been thinking about friendship a lot myself, and it pains me to no end, that I never had the kind I ought to have had by now. Sure, the first friend I mentioned - he and I are in agreement that we're pretty much long lost twins. But I haven't seen him since I left our high school, and while I'm glad to have met the two dears I know now, it's not enough.

I HATE not having anyone to hang out with. I never thought it would bother me so much, but I see it does. I'm used to being alone, I'm an only child after all, but friends are just... they're the air we breathe. I understand now why friendship is such an important thing, and you can only deny but for so long, how much it hurts when you don't experience it. I graduate next month and then it's college, but I'm told everyday I'm going to be busy and studying more, so how the hell am I supposed to find the one who is supposed to be my friend for life? It's really frustrating to me to have no one that will just, be there. I'll never ask anyone to sit and listen to me, or to care a whole lot. I just want them to exist and be around, I guess that will have to be enough for now.

Kiirar-Istar 05-11-2008 02:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lassi (Post 3107248)
I would know what you meant, truly, if I actually had an abundance of friends. I have only three decent ones. One lives about an hour away and we spent freshman and sophomore year together, then I moved. The two I have now I see (I had one class with each, one junior year, and one now - senior year), but rarely, and never get the chance to talk with them they way I wish I could.

I've been thinking about friendship a lot myself, and it pains me to no end, that I never had the kind I ought to have had by now. Sure, the first friend I mentioned - he and I are in agreement that we're pretty much long lost twins. But I haven't seen him since I left our high school, and while I'm glad to have met the two dears I know now, it's not enough.

I HATE not having anyone to hang out with. I never thought it would bother me so much, but I see it does. I'm used to being alone, I'm an only child after all, but friends are just... they're the air we breathe. I understand now why friendship is such an important thing, and you can only deny but for so long, how much it hurts when you don't experience it. I graduate next month and then it's college, but I'm told everyday I'm going to be busy and studying more, so how the hell am I supposed to find the one who is supposed to be my friend for life? It's really frustrating to me to have no one that will just, be there. I'll never ask anyone to sit and listen to me, or to care a whole lot. I just want them to exist and be around, I guess that will have to be enough for now.


I totally agree. I used to be a loner when I was younger. But one day someone made an effort to notice me. She tried to be my friend even if I tried to push her away. She gave me a small taste of that drug called friendship and now, I can hardly stand not being around people that just...get me.

KiwiPOP 05-11-2008 02:35 AM

I'm in Grade 8 too.. D:
I like my friends, but we have nothing to talk about.
They're into reality shows, makeups, most things I don't like.
I've tried to introduce them to manga,anime, gaia,mene,etc. but it never works out and they are always so weirded out at how I can spend so much time on the interweb. =__=

I see the friends are want to be with all the time and I long for it but I don't know why I don't go over and sit with them...

And, as for the age, nearly all my friends I've met online are 18-20. *w*


Kiirar-Istar 05-11-2008 02:47 AM

I'm 16. XD But maybe you should just try and introduce yourself to ONE of the people you want to be friends with first?

ellaangelus 05-11-2008 11:41 AM

well i am 13 years old...
and from what i see, these friendships are... not really friendships, i mean i argue with them all day long... they argue with me all day long...
we don't really get along...
everyone says bad things about the other person if they are not friends anymore (this is what i hate most)
and so on...
i just hope at least in the highschool i'll have true friends

Risque 05-11-2008 11:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ellaangelus (Post 3109173)
well i am 13 years old...
and from what i see, these friendships are... not really friendships, i mean i argue with them all day long... they argue with me all day long...
we don't really get along...
everyone says bad things about the other person if they are not friends anymore (this is what i hate most)
and so on...
i just hope at least in the highschool i'll have true friends

Don't worry. You'll find the right group of friends. C':


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