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Friendships. Meh!
I had a pretty depressing realization yesterday, one that I had been trying to suppress in the back of my mind since like, forever.
A few years from now I will most likely be hanging out with a different group of friends. I mean seriously, as each and everyday pass I'm becoming less satisfied with my current friends simply because of different interests, perspectives, goals, etcetc. I've always tried to convince myself that I wouldn't mind all these differences, and have been closed minded to the idea of hanging out with a group of people who I can actually share a few interests with. Lawlz. But eh, even though I can't picture it now, I'll probably find a group of people who I can actually relate to a bit more than with my current group of friends. I don't even wanna get started on the people I consider to be my best friends. x_x So Menewsha, you know what I'm talking about right? That one point in High School when you realize that it's time to move on and to find some friends who you can actually connect with, friends that make you think as to why the hell you hung out with your previous friends for such a long time. Discuss. |
After high school I moved away from home, went to work, made new friends, dated here and there and kinda kept in touch, barely, with my old friends...and that's the best thing to do. After high school and during, people start to grow up...I mean their interests change and they hang out with different people.
The only thing you can do is stay friends with them, and talk to them as rarely as possible XD So long as you have somethings in common...it's all that matters. |
Ack. That scares me. Since I'm barely a freshman in High School, I still don't see the whole "hanging out with new people" thing; even though change is staring me in the face. xD
This topic tends to make me feel all over the place. e__e lol @ rarely as possible, though. XD |
haha well it scares a lot of people, but hanigng out with people who have the same likes as you ins't a bad thing. If you wanna go see a movie that you think looks good but all your friends don't think so...wouldn't it be nice to have friends who wanna see it with you?
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i find my age group highly annoying. >_>
i'm in grade eight, so people are still all "lol. condom. that's what she said. lololol." there are a few people i can talk to, but even they don't quite understand things i'm talking about sometimes. that is why i'm sort of trying to talk to the higher grades more. i'm not that fond of the grade just above mine, either. i'm mostly going for friends that are three years older than i am. my boyfriend's three years older than me, and we connect perfectly. we're at the same maturity level and it's great. i really do like my friends, i just want people i can talk to that understand the flow of our conversations. |
Goodness! When I was leaving middle school and going into high school I thought my whole world was going to end without my friends. Only a few of them were going to the same one as I was. Well, the ones that didn't go to the same school as me basically forgot I existed and treat me like they were fake and the person who did go to the same school as me disowned me because I didn't want to join in all the activites he was going to do. -__- The new friends I have are the peanut butter to my jelly, they're the best thing that've ever happened to me. So when my old friends are making fun of me because of my shoes or whatever I'll have someone to look back to rather than just laugh it off with them. Some of my new friends are do annoy me a bit because they're not very open minded and believe the stupidest things but that's just me being picky. They're immature but mature like me, we're immature when we should be mature and mature when it's not needed.
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@ Tracy: (wo)man, I know how you feel there. I can't hold any type of decent conversation with my friends because we have near-nothing in common. Good luck on finding the right group of friends though. C: You know where to look, at least. x'D <3 Most of the people I like are 5+ years older than me. Which really isn't a good sign. <_< EDITEDIT: @ Loubie: Huzzahs! Glad you found the right group of people. :'DD They sound like a real blast to hang out with. >3< |
Go girly! Fly toward those new friends! They're waiting for you lol
Seriously though, go chat with other's not going to kill you. |
Haha, yes! Teimz'z'z to scope out dem new friends! lolol.
I'm timid towards new people unless I see that they have a few things in common with me. So heh, I might not screw up too badly. >w< |
lol good luck and all that praise that usually is said.
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Whoo! Thanks much. :'D <3
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lmao
I'm not usually this good at motivating people...o_o' unless it's into bed...but alas the horrors of being sauve XD |
Oh bby. x'D
I'm not easily motivated either. Strange.. It was actually my sister who first bought up the whole thing of "meeting the right friends and leaving your current ones." She five years older than me and went through the same thing. Too bad when she was giving me the speech on new friends, she encouraged me to befriend Asian Wangsters and the pretty girls. Which really would've just took me back to square one. -.- |
See elders now best!!!! lol Respect me...<<'
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When I went into highschool, half of my friends went to a different school. We used to be so close. Then when one of those friends transferred to my highschool, the gap between us became so big, we don't even talk anymore. In the hallways, we both look away.... It's just so awkward like....I knew that person yeah. We don't know each other anymore though...However, the friends that stayed at my school I'm still really close to and I've made some cool new friends as well. But it's still weird. We don't even say hi...
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@ Kiirar: Awww, sorry too hear. Your relationship between ex-friends sounds incredibly painful. Happens to me too, except the people I used to be friends with don't even remember my name, and overlook me in the hallways, though I recognize them all the same. ;-; |
*sits in throne* I am the mighty! lmao
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Istar: *Pulls thrown out from under crime and blows rasberry*
Kiirar: It is hard to see so many familiar faces that no longer know, and I mean REALLY know you. But I guess you just move on. |
I'll get you for that love, just you wait...*rubs soar ass* (o_o' I have something naugty to say to my own post XD I'll not share though...)
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Istar: *Sits on throne* Ah...this is more fitting for me.
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Since high school, I've kept a very select few close friends that I love no matter what, and I have a bunch of other friends that kind of come and go. I've moved around a lot the past few years so I have friends all over, some of whom I keep in touch with regularly, some of whom are just kind of there. We just drift apart and there's no drama. I LOVE meeting new people; I find many people tons of fun and great to party with, but it's rare for me to find someone I really connect with and care enough to keep around. |
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Same here girl. Select few friends suits me better too, but there are other people I talk with and joke around with...but I wouldn't consider them my friends really... |
*glares at Isthar* Girly...that would be my throne your sitting on. RAR! Give back!
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@ Caroline: Ahah, I see. I'd like to have that in a group of friends..only problem is that as of now, I've yet to find that small group of super close friends whom I can connect with. and yeah, everyone else is just kind of...there. It's somewhat depressing. |
yes, I know what you are talking about. I still have a couple of "friends" from high school.. back then we were the bestest buddies, but now, it's like they don't even know me.. :|
they don't get me at all, we don't share the same interests (Although actually, we do! it just feels like we don't.), they seem so .. weird to me these days. I don't find much to talk about with them anymore. Plus, they hardly come to see me anymore, and they forget stuff like birthdays >.> |
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