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Cherry Who? 06-01-2008 10:58 PM

I'm short too!
I'm 5'4 1/2", and my boyfriend is 6'2". It's not quite a foot distance, but I don't think he's quite done growing yet. And I stopped a few years ago, so I'm very done.
But I like being shorter than him. I can feel more protected by him. And like Sutebu said, it makes lap-sitting much easier, I'd imagine.

Sweet Summer Day 06-01-2008 11:47 PM

ack i was wrong im 5.6 1/2 not 5.7 1/2 sorry lol >.<

KeiKei Shunu 06-02-2008 06:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Teko-chi (Post 3305655)
lol, you're such a baby.
I'm 15 and not scared with my BF.

Ohohohoho~
I'm 5'7" and 3 1/4ths but my bf is only 120lbs and 5'1".
Very cute and young looking is my fave~!
Also, I'm STRONGER than him. :)

:|

Wow. That was such a productive comment.

I don't know if you're aware, but generally, Mene is a nice community. "Lol, you're such a baby" does not belong.
Everyone has their own modestly level. That doesn't make you a baby. Being 15, and shamelessly having sex might make you a bit immature though.


When posting anywhere in Mene, ESPECIALLY my threads kaythanks, be a bit more polite and less of an asshole. Thanks.




on a less pissed note, I'm 4'11.5" :D
I'm tiny for someone my age. And no, I'm not Asian either. XD

Teko-chi 06-02-2008 08:11 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by KeiKei Shunu (Post 3308510)
:|

Wow. That was such a productive comment.

I don't know if you're aware, but generally, Mene is a nice community. "Lol, you're such a baby" does not belong.
Everyone has their own modestly level. That doesn't make you a baby. Being 15, and shamelessly having sex might make you a bit immature though.


When posting anywhere in Mene, ESPECIALLY my threads kaythanks, be a bit more polite and less of an asshole. Thanks.




on a less pissed note, I'm 4'11.5" :D
I'm tiny for someone my age. And no, I'm not Asian either. XD

Well, I'm sorry for all the butthurt.
I didn't mean having sex, just "3rd base", I guess? :'D
Actually...I just hold down Justie nekid and make-out all over him~

KeiKei Shunu 06-02-2008 08:17 AM

Ok, well, good for you.

Being an ass isn't tolerated on Mene, and will get you no where. I suggest you change that attitude, or else you'll find yourself getting banned.
:|


I'd appreciate you not posting here anymore, since what you have to say doesn't seem to be at all constructive.

Mama Juru 06-02-2008 08:52 AM

Teko-chi

I don't see your comments as productive either. If you cannot add anything to this discussion of value, I suggest that you find another thread to post in.

Flaming and name calling will not be tolerated. Is that understood?

KeiKei Shunu 06-02-2008 09:00 AM

Kay, I'm sorry. I just really don't think that, considering the amount of people here who DO seem to be a bit more modest about their parts, calling ME a baby for it.. well, that's calling a huge number of people in this thread babies. :c

On the subject, I think it's perfectly normal for people to have varying levels of modesty. If you are comfortable with your body being seen, that's good.
But there are a lot of people who, especially in the culture they grow up in, are not as willing to let their parts be seen.

Calling someone a name for having a different comfort level isn't really called for.

I'm sorry for snapping. I found it offensive, and got a bit pissy. >.>

Mama Juru 06-02-2008 09:04 AM

That actually wasn't directed at you hon. :)

KeiKei Shunu 06-02-2008 09:10 AM

>.> sorry, I thought you were saying that, in response to me not thinking his were productive that my comment wasn't.. >.>
XD

Thank you for coming and stepping in.. :3

UkeRoxas 06-02-2008 07:11 PM

Jeez, tolarance is a big thing. Its not fair al you people are taller than me and I am 18! And no don't even pull the cute line with me. Its....it makes me sad! I just wanna be tall enough to reach the top shelf at walmart with out assistance.
Well KeiKei, we are the same height so you know my pain. ALong with the modesty issue. Its not all that fair is it?

kleinesdaisukii 06-02-2008 07:18 PM

I have no problem with being naked or being touched / kisses there.
But asking for things while having sex makes me blush a lot. I hate it.
I wish he'd always just start with such stuff. But well, of course he cannot read my thoughts ... ^^"

KeiKei Shunu 06-02-2008 11:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by UkeRoxas (Post 3310798)
Jeez, tolarance is a big thing. Its not fair al you people are taller than me and I am 18! And no don't even pull the cute line with me. Its....it makes me sad! I just wanna be tall enough to reach the top shelf at walmart with out assistance.
Well KeiKei, we are the same height so you know my pain. ALong with the modesty issue. Its not all that fair is it?

*gasp* Your my height? And 18? I love you. Forserious.

Let's blow up the world and make it a short-person only world. Either that or let's put the tall people into piggy-back-giver slavery. :D

Haha. I must say, being a girl, I really don't mind the height so much anymore. I get babied by my friends (not in the condescending way, but the spoiling way). And as they've told me, "You wouldn't be the same 'short, cute El' if you were any taller!"

But it's harder on guys. >.> *patpat*


@Klieinesdaisukii -- Hehe. That's the exact opposite for me. I'm fine with sex (of course, only with him. ;3). I mean, that's what the parts are for! But... but... >.> If we're not in the act of sex, I prefer to keep my undies on.
But I definitely understand that point of view.

Sweet Summer Day 06-03-2008 12:23 AM

i refuse to piggy back you !!!

UkeRoxas 06-03-2008 03:13 AM

I get the baby thing to. 'Awww Look at tis widdle face! Awww look at it trying to be all grown up. Here you go baby, heres a cookie' and I Take the cookie. I agrees with the plan! And We should destroy that short people song! Its discrimatory! I get coddled often to, but I kind of don't mind as long as I get something out of the deal. I am content with being petted.

KeiKei Shunu 06-03-2008 03:14 AM

Awww. *hug* I'm sowwy.

We totally should. :3

UkeRoxas 06-03-2008 03:51 AM

*Hugs back* S'okay. Together we'd be...like awesome! I started a V.A.M. in real life maybe I should actually make it in here as well. Victims agianst Molestaion. (V.A.M)I don't know if that happens to you, but it does to me! So yea!

IndiGlo 06-03-2008 03:58 AM

Everyone seems so young to be sexually active...maybe it is how and where I was raised but DANG.
I'm going on 18 and and yeah....but I image that if I did get into an intimate relationship with anyone that I wouldn't stand being naked around them. Of course I'm basing that on seventeen years of extreme shyness and self-esteem destruction.
:insane:
And yay for the defined average height of females
At least I think it's at 5'6....it may have changed.

UkeRoxas 06-03-2008 04:01 AM

Average is a conformist word. we are normal as well. Nyah!

KeiKei Shunu 06-03-2008 04:05 AM

@Indiglo -- I was DEFINITELY too young when I first had sex. no question. 15 is disgustingly young, in my opinion.. I would do it over again and wait till I was 17 at least... >.>

But, that said, I am still with the same guy, so it's not the worst. I love him. :3 I'd never consider sex with another guy. He's the one guy keeping me bi. :0

But yeah.. >.> I still feel young, and kinda slutty for that.

IndiGlo 06-03-2008 04:13 AM

@URox
I guess you could say that...of course the average is based upon a random sampling representative of the population. So of the random sampling of some population...the average height was found to be 5'6...add a 1/2 and a couple of atoms and bam...instant me.
:insane:
To get averages it takes individuals...and I do believe I can't conform to a height...though those torture tables that stretch the body sure are appealing.
-Insert insane smiley here....again-

@Kei-Shu
Nooo I didn't wan't to hurt your self-esteem...I guess if you truly love someone then it is ok...but I wouldn't know. The guys around me utterly disgust me. Nice to look at but lacking in scintillating conversation...eugh geesh I'm going to be old and rotting claiming that a good conversation is more pleasurable than sex at this rate.:o

UkeRoxas 06-03-2008 04:20 AM

Kids keep doing the do younger and younger, I will never publicy say when I first had sex, but I will tell in private.

Vickicat 06-03-2008 05:41 AM

Sex.
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by IndiGlo (Post 3313876)
Everyone seems so young to be sexually active...maybe it is how and where I was raised but DANG.
I'm going on 18 and and yeah....but I image that if I did get into an intimate relationship with anyone that I wouldn't stand being naked around them. Of course I'm basing that on seventeen years of extreme shyness and self-esteem destruction.
:insane:
And yay for the defined average height of females
At least I think it's at 5'6....it may have changed.

I feel the same way. I come into topics like this, which I consider adult topics, and am disturbed to see kids who are like thirteen and fourteen chatting away about their sex lives. I still thought sex was kind of gross when I was fourteen, and wouldn't have known the first thing about the sorts of precautions needed to be taken during sex. And to me it seems like people who do it that young don't care very much about their bodies or their own well being. But I guess that is just my opinion. I think people should be at least eighteen before thinking about sex, maybe sixteen if they are very mature and know how to prevent pregnancy and STDs. And I also think they should be very sure that they're not going to regret it later, which for some people means making sure they're with the right person, and at a young age, you don't always know if you're with that person or not. So many kids break up all the time.

Sutebu 06-03-2008 06:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by IndiGlo (Post 3313876)
Everyone seems so young to be sexually active...maybe it is how and where I was raised but DANG.
I'm going on 18 and and yeah....but I image that if I did get into an intimate relationship with anyone that I wouldn't stand being naked around them. Of course I'm basing that on seventeen years of extreme shyness and self-esteem destruction.
:insane:
And yay for the defined average height of females
At least I think it's at 5'6....it may have changed.

If it makes you feel any better, I'm nearly 23 and I still haven't actually had sex yet.

I've done some sexual stuff... but I was 19 before I really did that...

Sagitar 06-03-2008 09:55 AM

I never thought sex was gross when I was 13 and stuff, but I just KNEW it would be wise to wait until I was older and with someone who I could trust.. :3
I don't get what's the RUSH to lose your virginity.. :roll: it's not something to just get it over with.. and if you think it like that, you'll probably be dissappointed :|

I waited until I was 17 and with a trustable person, who now happens to be my husband after 4 years xD :heart:

Saisei 06-03-2008 10:48 PM

Kids are growing up faster and faster with each generation. It's not like sex is the taboo thing it once was, and that repression was the main reason so many generations held off as long as they did.

I know I didn't have sex until I was 18 going on 19. My original plan was to wait until I was married, then it became until I found the girl I was going to marry, then it ended up happening on a whim anyways. I'm not disappointed, and neither was she. She was 17, and I was her fourth partner.

It takes different strokes to move the world, as they say.


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