Well, I have never faked an orgasm.
It fine for us if one of us don't has one. I'm pretty happy if he has an orgasm, I still enjoy having sex a lot. And I know he'll care more about me the next time then. I don't really care about having an orgsam anyway. Neither he does. The way is the goal. Sometimes we just stop doing it, snuggling against each, then noone had an orgasm. oo; It's still amazing. I just love being near him.
And if we really feel the need to have one, we can still lie in the others arms touching ourself afterwards while getting kissed and petted. :]

Haha. i usually have multiple per his "round".
But basically, he enjoys that. Cause he knows that I enjoy it. So I usually have more, but he's happy with that. ;3

But that said, we NEVER stop after just me. "one round" means one of HIS orgasms. In other words, we don't stop till both of us has orgasmed at least once.

Haha. I feel WAYY too much pleasure to feel comfortable during oral.. >.> He's trying to get me used to it, because he's one of the rare guys who LOVES giving it.

Yeah.. The ONE time in my life I ever faked wasn't really faking. It was kinda exaggerating arousal that turned into real arousal. It wasn't the orgasm, but getting into it.

I felt HORRIBLE though.. and never did it again. I'm afraid of him finding out.. >.> It wasn't him at all, I wasn't in the mood, but he really wanted it, so I tried to force myself into the mood. which worked.. but not at first.. >.>

That's true. I'm really happy to have a guy like him.

We just have a little problem ... I could have sex everyday, he doesn't want that often. :roll:

I don't think we've ever "not finished". (I swear, that boy is like the energizer bunny on speed.. >3>)

But lying in his arms afterwards is the best. :3

TMI PROBABLY: I like it especially when he hasn't pulled out yet... it's like.. we're still as close as possible, even without the sex happening. Like, we're still one.

*hopeless romantic when it comes down to it*

Blahhh... so much depression now~

Everyone talking about their wonderful relationships.

Bleh.

On a different note, is there really such a thing as a "great handjob"? o_o

At least from my view as a girl ... yes.
My boyfriend gives me great handjobs ... *_*
I lust love his fingers. ;3

I don't really consider that a handjob... although, I guess in reality, it kind of is...

But technically, it would be more of a fingerjob.. xD

haha. I dunno, the guy was a virgin (as was I at the time), so I'm assuming any contact from someone else that got him off was great.

*shrug* Isn't that how it is with your first of anything? (unless it goes wrong..)

that said, apparently I'm good with my hands and mouth.. >.> it's a bit embarrassing to be told though..

I mean... >.> It's not like I PRACTICE. XD

That's a good point...

I mostly wondered because I've never had a good handjob...

In fact, I'm not sure that I've had a good anything yet... bleh... u__u

We don't actually have sex everyday. I think I'd stop being the sex everyday type of person if we had. But the fact that he refuses to do it that often (he works a lot and is usually pretty tired in the evenings), makes me want it even more. Heh ... ^^;

Haha. James wants sex every day.. >.> But he settles for a few times a week. (well, a few "sessions" not "rounds" (session = multiple rounds))
I'm not so into it every day, but a few times a week is good. :3

And yeah, I love the cuddling. It's come to a point where afterwards, he KNOWS not to pull out till after cuddling. Or else I pout. XD (I didn't even realize I did until he told me)

And I've noticed/been told that the underside, especially right under the head is extremely sensitive. :3

And I guess it helps to absolutely adore your partner's parts... >\\\>

x_x

I don't know why I go to threads like this~

It's been fun and all... but... bleh... the fact that I haven't really had any sexual contact for three years.. and even then, I'm nowhere near experienced as even some of the youngest people in the thread.. it gets kind of depressing...

I'm starting to wonder if maybe this thread will MAKE me embarrassed in the bedroom...

EDIT: Also, it gets sort of weird seeing your own name while someone talks about their experiences~ xP

Chyeah... except it makes me realize how inexperienced I am and how pathetic I'm probably going to end up seeming to a potential future girl who's probably had a ton more experience than I have... ^^;;

Aww, I wish my boyfriend would do that, I mean staying inside of me. *jealous* ;3
But I recently started to take the pill, so I guess that'd be possible now ... *-*

haha. I started out on the ring, but that was obnoxious and expensive.. >.>
And I spotted a bunch on it.. :c

I take the generic form of Seasonale now. (3 months of pills, 1 period. repeat)

But yeah. :3 It's nice. I really enjoy it, hehe. especially when he lays on top of me and hugs me. I feel like.. surrounded by his love. :3

*gets all mushy*


@Sutebu -- I think it's sweet being with someone when they lose their virginity. You shouldn't be so worried about that. It makes it more special for us romantic girls, when the guy isn't some player, or whatever. The less experience, the less of a chance of they guy playing you. Or something like that. >.> I dunno. I just.. I feel more comfortable around guys who haven't done so much. (other than my boyfriend)

And it's really romantic if you find a girl you like who's also a virgin. :3 It makes the first time that much more special to the two of you.

Yeah.. except that at my age, finding a girl who's also a virgin is like finding a needle in a haystack.

Actually, the girl I liked was one... but I have a feeling she won't be for long now... :/

She claimed that she was waiting for someone she cared about, but I think she was just waiting for someone that looked decent enough...

... It's not that rare. Not everyone is a raging nymphomaniac. XD

You're what, 20-some? Psht. I know quite a few girls in their twenties who are virgins. (Sisters friends)

:3 I'm sure you'll find someone.

And if you're that unhappy about yourself, c'mon. :3 Change yourself. It takes hard work, I know, but if you're unhappy now, it'll be worth it. :3

Just don't change too much. :0 I like you how you are. :3

Well, it's my experience that most girls have done it at least once...

I come from a town where all the girls were pretty big whores... a good chunk of them having lost their virginity at 13 to, like, 25 year olds.... yuck.. >.o

I think my real problem is that I have sort of high standards... which don't really work for me.. 'cause it's kind of hypocritical... but I can't help what I'm attracted to... u___u